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Female, Straight, London
London Asian American Dominatrix
What is a Strap On?
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A strap on is a type of sex toy that is used for penetration. It consists of a harness or strap-like device worn around the waist or hips and a dildo attached to it. Strap ons are commonly used in queer female interactions, or a heterosexual interaction such as in pegging.
What makes it hot?
People opt for strap ons over dildos because they can move their hips which resembles more closely the action of usual penetrative sex. Strap ons provide alternative types of pleasure to both the giver and receiver who get to experiment with different sensations and movements. They can create a power dynamic and a form of role reversal that many people find attractive.
A strap-on can add variety and excitement to intimate experiences, offering the opportunity for role reversal, experimentation, and the exploration of power dynamics.
Choose a comfortable setting for open communication. Express your desires, highlight the potential pleasure for both partners, and be receptive to your partner's feelings and concerns.
Yes, there are various types, including harnesses and strapless options. Consider factors like size, material, and comfort. Communication with your partner about preferences and exploring together can help in choosing the right one for your needs.
A guide to buying a strap on in 2023
Wednesday 11 October 2023
Who knew the world of strap ons was so fabulously intricate? As they've never been more relevant than they are today, here's a guide to buying a strap on in 2023.
DO
Communicate: Talk openly beforehand about your intentions, desires and limits.
Research: There's a wide variety of strap ons out there. Find the right one for you.
Lubrication: The difference between heaven and hell.
DON'T
Surprise: It might sound like a fun idea to whip out a strap on to your partner, but it might make them feel pressured. It's better to talk before hand.
Forget hygiene: Clean your strap ons each time you use it.
Assume roles: Wearing a strap on doesn't equal being dominant. Strap-on play can be daunting when exploring for the first time. Approach it with consideration and make sure that everybody is comfortable and fully consenting.