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I don't miss you, I miss your strap on silicone penis.
Scarlett
Female, Bisexual, London UK
Sex educator + sensual switch
dominatrixniamh
Female, Bisexual, New York NY US
Hello, my name is Niamh, I'm playful, sensual and sadistic dominatrix, I enjoy different fetish games: femdom, CBT, latex/boots/body/feet worship, impact play, CEI, JOI, creative roleplays, tease and denial, sph, I'm also very open-minded about exploring new fantasies. I offer tailored skype sessions to submissive partners. https://allmylinks.com/niamhsatie
galavanting
Female, Queer, Sydney AU
I'm a queer woman with 20 years' experience in the sexuality field, working across adult film production and performance, sugaring, BDSM service provision, sexuality education, advocacy, and writing. I currently provide BDSM services and support others to cultivate practices of BDSM, hedonism, and somatics as the founder and director of Hedon House, with locations in Sydney and Melbourne. While my hard BDSM skills have been developed over the last 12 years through BDSM education, a traditional House apprenticeship, and thousands of hours of personal and professional play, my soft skills and my deep understanding of the use of body-based practices as tools for liberation, sublimation and self-exploration are what defines my practice. I am highly skilled at supporting others to help define exactly what they want to receive and how they'd like to receive it. To achieve this, I use a combination of verbal consultation, consent containers, lines of somatic inquiry, sensory experimentation, and a sharp read on your energetic and physical presentation in every moment (or communicating with you where that's not possible). I can play with or without protocol, power exchange, or roleplay. Sometimes BDSM play is psychodrama, and other times it's a body-based practice. Sometimes it's both. We work together to discover and cultivate the best possible conditions for your surrender, and I facilitate session content within that container. I am a one-way practitioner; this means that I'm the giver and you're the receiver. This being said, you'll get the most out of our time together when you bring your full self and clear intentions to our play. I provide services to people of all genders and sexualities, and have experience providing gender-affirming services to people on the spectrum of trans experience. I have also completed the Touching Base PDAT training and am able to adapt to different physical abilities, sensory needs and other access requirements. My ethics and politics our queer, and this will be in the room with us when we play, regardless of your gender identity. I currently practice on the lands of the Gadigal people in so-called Sydney and the lands of the Wurundjeri Woi-wurring people in so-called Melbourne. I session primarily from my lovingly-crafted, comfortable and well-equipped Hedon House locations, but am open to providing services from other locations for those with access restrictions that preclude the use of either space.
mistresskizumi
Female, Straight, London UK
London Asian American Dominatrix
What is a Strap On?
I don't miss you, I miss your strap on silicone penis.
A strap on is a type of sex toy that is used for penetration. It consists of a harness or strap-like device worn around the waist or hips and a dildo attached to it. Strap ons are commonly used in queer female interactions, or a heterosexual interaction such as in pegging.
What makes it hot?
People opt for strap ons over dildos because they can move their hips which resembles more closely the action of usual penetrative sex. Strap ons provide alternative types of pleasure to both the giver and receiver who get to experiment with different sensations and movements. They can create a power dynamic and a form of role reversal that many people find attractive.
A strap-on can add variety and excitement to intimate experiences, offering the opportunity for role reversal, experimentation, and the exploration of power dynamics.
Choose a comfortable setting for open communication. Express your desires, highlight the potential pleasure for both partners, and be receptive to your partner's feelings and concerns.
Yes, there are various types, including harnesses and strapless options. Consider factors like size, material, and comfort. Communication with your partner about preferences and exploring together can help in choosing the right one for your needs.
A guide to buying a strap on in 2023
Wednesday 11 October 2023
Who knew the world of strap ons was so fabulously intricate? As they've never been more relevant than they are today, here's a guide to buying a strap on in 2023.
DO
Communicate: Talk openly beforehand about your intentions, desires and limits.
Research: There's a wide variety of strap ons out there. Find the right one for you.
Lubrication: The difference between heaven and hell.
DON'T
Surprise: It might sound like a fun idea to whip out a strap on to your partner, but it might make them feel pressured. It's better to talk before hand.
Forget hygiene: Clean your strap ons each time you use it.
Assume roles: Wearing a strap on doesn't equal being dominant. Strap-on play can be daunting when exploring for the first time. Approach it with consideration and make sure that everybody is comfortable and fully consenting.
