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Berlin DE
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Denver CO US
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MasterSamael
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Berlin DE
Elegant sadist with a velvet voice. Come surrender your mind, body, and secrets to a true Dominus. 🖤
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Los Angeles CA US
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Berlin DE
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Boston MA US
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What is Findom?
Financial domination. The art of the human ATM.
Findom is short for 'Financial Domination', which is a sub-fetish within the world of BDSM and kink. In findom, the financial dominatrix (often referred to as a 'findomme' or 'money domme'), has control over the financial submissive's (aka the pay pig's) money.
The pay pig is often required to spend their finances on the domme in the form of gifts or by covering their expenses. Both partners derive sexual pleasure from this power dynamic.
What makes it hot?
What could be more submissive than handing over your entire finances to somebody else? Our money and how we spend it is a very private thing, and so many submissives find findom to be a very intimate activity. The ultra-subs revel in the idea of being a human ATM, something that makes them seem more and object than a human, especially when their domme spends copious amounts of money on themselves with no shame.
Safety in findom, like any BDSM-related activity, relies on clear communication, mutual consent, and setting boundaries. It's essential for participants to discuss limits and expectations beforehand.
While some participants may enjoy the financial aspect, findom is more about power dynamics and control. It's not solely reserved for the wealthy, and individuals can explore within their means.
Yes, findom dynamics can be integrated into long-term relationships if both partners are interested and consensually agree on the terms. Open communication is crucial to ensure the well-being and satisfaction of all involved parties.
DO
Explore safely: Explore with a professional or a trusted partner.
Start small: Nothing bad every came from taking things gradually.
Have financial knowledge: Money ain't nothing to play around with.
DON'T
Go too hard: Don't get carried away with your fetish in the moment. Take rational pauses.
Irresponsible play: Don't give away anything you can't afford to.
Pressure: Don't pressure anyone to give or take more money than they're comfortable with.
