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In person & Online

Los Angeles CA US

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1

intentionalkink

In person & Online

Austin TX US

Be the kink you want to see in the world.

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3 1 5

Queen_Bea

Online

New York NY US

Offering online domination to pets of all genders, come and be good for me.

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8 4

Bendix

In person & Online

Hamburg DE

strong hands - dirty smile

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1

MissEveThorne

In person & Online

Berlin DE

Sensually Sadistic Dominatrix

BDSM Kinkster

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15 2 1

nausilove

In person & Online

Tokyo JP

Tallest and happiest escort in the world :D

BDSM Kinkster

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15 1

voncaustic

In person & Online

Madrid ES

Your local succubus

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4 1 5

Louna

In person & Online

Kajaani FI

Step into my erotic classroom where revolution starts within!

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8 1

TrixieLaPointe

In person

New York NY US

Rope artist and disciplinarian based in NYC

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Sunna Artist Haarlem
9 7

Sunna

In person & Online

Haarlem NL

Queer Queen and magickal artist. Let me deprive you of your senses and you will be rewarded. PM for info.

BDSM Artist Muse Kinkster Erotic media

MasterSamael Artist Berlin
5 1 7

MasterSamael

In person

Berlin DE

Elegant sadist with a velvet voice. Come surrender your mind, body, and secrets to a true Dominus. 🖤

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Bea.letsPlay Artist Copenhagen
6 8

Bea.letsPlay

In person & Online

Copenhagen DK

body-positive kinkster fiercely dedicated to breaking down shame & turning up the volume on your desires

BDSM Artist Workshop

What is a BDSM practitioner?

What is a BDSM practitioner?

Discover the liberation within control

A BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) practitioner is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form. 

What makes it hot?

Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment. 

No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.

Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.

Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.

DO

Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.

Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.

Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.

 

DON'T

Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.

Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.

Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.

BDSM related experiences

Bondage

Bondage

Bondage

All tied up with nowhere to go?

CBT

CBT

CBT

Cock and ball torture: the best kind of therapy.

Chastity

Chastity

Chastity

When refraining is entertaining.

Domination

Domination

Domination

Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.

Dominatrix

Dominatrix

Dominatrix

Good girls go to heaven, bad girls go to dungeons.

FemDom

FemDom

FemDom

Let the matriarchy commence.

Findom

Findom

Findom

Financial domination. The art of the human ATM.

Foot worship

Foot worship

Foot worship

Your feet are my religion.

Latex

Latex

Latex

Want to see my second skin?

Leather

Leather

Leather

Dressed in leather whatever the weather.

Orgasm control

Orgasm control

Orgasm control

Every control freak's dream kink.

Role Play

Role Play

Role Play

Because sometimes getting arrested is very...liberating.

Shibari

Shibari

Shibari

Tying the knot never sounded better.

Submission

Submission

Submission

My happy place is my sub space.

Tie and Tease

Tie and Tease

Tie and Tease

Torture and tickle time, all in one.