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ReflectorForHire
•BDSM, Content creator, Muse, Photographer, Artist, Kinkster, Coach, Educator, Massage, Retreat, Therapist & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Gender fluid - Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual
New York NY US
Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in immersive experiences that blend somatic healing, ritual, and conscious kink. Her work is designed to help individuals regulate their nervous systems, enhance emotional resilience, and foster a deeper mind-body connection. Iryna curates transformative events such as the “Shamanic Kink Immersion”, "Tantric Somatic Immersion for Practitioners", and “Voyage into Presence,” which are multi-day retreats focusing on self-discovery and connection. These events are crafted to provide intimate, supportive environments for deep personal work.
HighnessTide
•BDSM, Kinkster & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Lesbian, Queer
New York NY US
Hopeless flirt, will talk your ear off about my dungeon. Might even show it to you if you ask nicely <3
intentionalkink
BDSM & Content creator
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Bisexual
Austin TX US
Be the kink you want to see in the world.
nausilove
BDSM & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Tokyo JP
Tallest and happiest escort in the world :D
Dr_dom_travels
BDSM, Content creator, Erotic audio, Kinkster & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Male - Pansexual, Demisexual
San Leandro CA US
Kinky Shibari Rigger willing to provide rope experiences in person or for events.
Bendix
BDSM, Content creator, Artist, Kinkster, Educator & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Trans - Queer
Hamburg DE
strong hands - dirty smile
urownerlili
BDSM, Content creator, Erotic audio & Kinkster
Services are Online
Female - Pansexual
Denver CO US
✨Your favorite bratty Succubus and nurturing Nymph ✨ Hi, My name is Lili! 🎀 I am a Findom looking for Finsubs. I do accept other kinks, but Findom must be the primary one. I have been in the kink/BDSM community for over 14 years as both a sub and a domme. I really enjoy creating long-term relationships with subs (if the sub wants more than just a session). I think its super important to build trust so that I can really psychologically dominant my subs. Additionally, I do offer Aftercare post-session, even if it's just something like a Drain. Some of my favorite dynamics/kinks are: Findomme/Finsub 🐷💵 MommyDomme/SoftDomme 💕 Goddess Worship 🙇♂️ Feet Worship 👣 Owner/Pet (Pet Play) 🐾 Brat/Loser 🖤 Beta/Alpha 🐺 GFE (Girlfriend Experience) 🥰 Cucking
Selana
BDSM, Educator, Workshop, Artist & Content creator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Athens GR
Womb Healing meets Shibari. I'm not as cute as I seem. PM for more ;)
MentorChris
BDSM, Content creator, Erotic audio, Kinkster, Coach, Massage & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Male - Straight
Berlin DE
Sensual Hypnotist, and ImpactPlay Kinkster. Will give you a experience you will defenitely remember.
SamanthaD
BDSM, Erotic audio, Muse, Writer, Content creator, Coach & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual, Sapiosexual
Los Angeles CA US
I am a Female Lifestyle Domina that enjoys domination in many forms. A natural born Humilatrix with a sweet sadistic side. I make a few assumptions when engaging with submissives. Those assumptions include being a grown adult, capable of determining ones limits and having full autonomy when enter into a D/s dynamic. If those assumptions are wrong, please move on. I expect those that seek my attention to be honest with their needs. I have over 20 years in the lifestyle. The power exchange is what I crave. It's what makes me tick. It's how I'm wired. That exchange comes in many different forms and I'm always excited to explore new kinks. Service to me as a part of the power exchange will include obedience, loyalty and submission. I am not easy on submissives, nor am I always fair. That being said, I practice D/s with the understanding that both parties will do no harm. I tend to be pragmatic, sanguine and very forward. I don't mince words. A submissive will always know where they stand with me.
CatBoi_Ink
BDSM, Artist, Content creator, Writer & Kinkster
Services are Online
Trans - Gay, Queer, Demisexual
Albuquerque NM US
I'm a neurodivergent, trans writer and artists whose work has been published in over 30 books.
What is a BDSM practitioner?
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A BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) practitioner is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
