BDSM, Domination
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BDSM Erotic audio Coach
thescarletsiren
In person & Online
Berlin DE
The Priestex of Pleasure - bespoke tantra & kink experiences.
5 services
Erotic audio Dancer BDSM Kinkster Dom Coach Massage Therapist Therapist Educator Erotic media
Artist Erotic audio Photographer BDSM Kinkster Massage Therapist Erotic media
Sephira
In person
Amsterdam NL
Awake your sexual energy exciting all your senses
4 services, 2 events
Dancer Muse Performer BDSM Fetishist Dom Coach Educator Non-sexual intimacy
AaronLawrence
In person & Online
Berkeley CA US
Your most intimate moments captured with Reverence & Respect
1 service
Artist BDSM Coach Fetishist Kinkster Photographer Therapist Videographer Author
Erotic media Non-sexual intimacy Dom Shibari artist Kinkster BDSM Artist Muse Author
MALISANDRE
Online
Washington DC US
Educator, coach, and artist exploring the sacred art of sensuality, power, and transformation.
2 services, 4 products
Coach Dom Educator Kinkster BDSM Artist Author Painter
Artist BDSM Bodywork Coach Designer Educator Erotic media Kinkster Massage Therapist Muse Non-sexual intimacy Performer Shibari artist Tantric Practicioner Therapist Model
Artist BDSM Coach Dom Educator Erotic audio Erotic media Fetishist Kinkster Streamer Muse Non-sexual intimacy Submissive
emilyzedsexed
Online
Kitchener ON CA
I support kinky neuroqueers with sex & relationship coaching that works for you...and your nervous system.💜
2 services, 2 products
BDSM Coach Educator Author
kemoburns
In person & Online
Los Angeles CA US
Experience & education Kemo draws on their passion for rope and kink to create personalized experiences for the people they connect with. They have been studying rope for 8+ years and consider themself a perpetual student of rope, on top of being an educator. Kemo first took classes locally in the greater Los Angeles area, and later invested in 1-on-1 instruction from leaders in the craft. Today they continue their rope education by frequenting intensives and occasional private lessons, while remaining active in the local rope scene. Kemo can often be found attending rope and kink events, munches and jams. Rope artist & teacher An acclaimed performer, Kemo Burns has showcased their tying skills and participated in panels and interviews on stages across the country. Some notable events include Lightning in a Bottle, The Laugh Factory, Burning Man, DomCon LA & NOLA, multiple sexual health/BDSM summits and countless kinky play parties. Along with their annual workshops at LIB and the Burn, Kemo was a resident rope bondage instructor at Kink Collective OC in Santa Ana, CA throughout 2024. Today they can be found teaching pop-up workshops on topics such as negotiating a rope scene, arms-free harnesses, and rope for couples at local dungeons and collectives. Testimonials: “Loved the perfect mix of sadism & sensuality… I really appreciated how when I needed an adjustment, you took care of that right away. Being able to attend to the adjustments while also being able to still keep the scene going meant a lot to me… I loved how challenging this was and how communicative you were, both with verbal play & check-ins! Overall, super naturally flowing scene… at a great pace. I'm so excited for more." “You always give me unforgettable experiences in rope. Your skill, knowledge and unique creativity lead to the hottest and most satisfying scenes. Your care, attentiveness and willingness to adapt to the present moment help build beautiful spaces. Our ties are connective and personal... mixing pain and pleasure in the most delicious ways... leaving me wanting more.” “All the ties we did were lovely... it was easier for me to surrender than [the] few other ties that I've done before... I think that's overall due to the atmosphere you created with your style. It's very connected and makes me feel like I can let go easier and trust you as the rope artist. I especially appreciated the consistent checking-in during the tie. And I am eager to do more ties with ya!” "I haven’t been taking the best care of my body because of depression and overwhelm and it has manifested in gaining a lot of weight... my hormones have been all over the place so my usual libido has plummeted, which is just weird for me. So it feels strange and uncomfortable in my skin... You made me forget about all that when I was in your rope and I was able to remember what it feels like to be me." "This sesh made me reflect on how a lot of my times in rope have been still - which is so lovely, but… your movement meant a lot to my masochism… I loved how not only super verbal you were but how interactive and attentive you were… creating so many different positions."
1 service
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What is a BDSM practitioner?
Discover the liberation within control
A BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) practitioner is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
