BDSM & Kink
BDSM, Domination

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testyp

BDSM, Artist & Educator

Services are  In person & Online

Couple - Straight

Paris FR

Art show Bondage Relationships

ReflectorForHire

BDSM, Content creator, Muse, Photographer, Artist, Kinkster, Coach, Educator, Massage, Retreat, Therapist & Workshop

Services are  In person & Online

Gender fluid - Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual

New York NY US

Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in immersive experiences that blend somatic healing, ritual, and conscious kink. Her work is designed to help individuals regulate their nervous systems, enhance emotional resilience, and foster a deeper mind-body connection. Iryna curates transformative events such as the “Shamanic Kink Immersion”, "Tantric Somatic Immersion for Practitioners", and “Voyage into Presence,” which are multi-day retreats focusing on self-discovery and connection. These events are crafted to provide intimate, supportive environments for deep personal work.

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HighnessTide New York
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HighnessTide

BDSM, Kinkster & Educator

Services are  In person & Online

Female - Lesbian, Queer

New York NY US

Hopeless flirt, will talk your ear off about my dungeon. Might even show it to you if you ask nicely <3

Bondage Cuckold Cuddling Events
intentionalkink Content creator Austin
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intentionalkink

BDSM & Content creator

Services are  In person & Online

Non Binary - Bisexual

Austin TX US

Be the kink you want to see in the world.

Domination Live stream Spanking
nausilove BDSM Tokyo
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nausilove

BDSM & Kinkster

Services are  In person & Online

Female - Bisexual

Tokyo JP

Tallest and happiest escort in the world :D

Anal CBT Chastity Deep throat GFE

Dr_dom_travels

BDSM, Content creator, Erotic audio, Kinkster & Educator

Services are  In person & Online

Male - Pansexual, Demisexual

San Leandro CA US

Kinky Shibari Rigger willing to provide rope experiences in person or for events.

Audio Calls Bondage Chastity
Bendix Content creator Hamburg
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Bendix

BDSM, Content creator, Artist, Kinkster, Educator & Coach

Services are  In person & Online

Trans - Queer

Hamburg DE

strong hands - dirty smile

Custom content Domination GFE
urownerlili Content creator Denver
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urownerlili

BDSM, Content creator, Erotic audio & Kinkster

Services are  Online

Female - Pansexual

Denver CO US

✨Your favorite bratty Succubus and nurturing Nymph ✨ Hi, My name is Lili! 🎀 I am a Findom looking for Finsubs. I do accept other kinks, but Findom must be the primary one. I have been in the kink/BDSM community for over 14 years as both a sub and a domme. I really enjoy creating long-term relationships with subs (if the sub wants more than just a session). I think its super important to build trust so that I can really psychologically dominant my subs. Additionally, I do offer Aftercare post-session, even if it's just something like a Drain. Some of my favorite dynamics/kinks are: Findomme/Finsub 🐷💵 MommyDomme/SoftDomme 💕 Goddess Worship 🙇‍♂️ Feet Worship 👣 Owner/Pet (Pet Play) 🐾 Brat/Loser 🖤 Beta/Alpha 🐺 GFE (Girlfriend Experience) 🥰 Cucking

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Selana BDSM Athens
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Selana

BDSM, Educator, Workshop, Artist & Content creator

Services are  In person & Online

Female - Queer

Athens GR

Womb Healing meets Shibari. I'm not as cute as I seem. PM for more ;)

Bondage Conscious Sexuality
MentorChris Content creator Berlin
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MentorChris

BDSM, Content creator, Erotic audio, Kinkster, Coach, Massage & Workshop

Services are  In person & Online

Male - Straight

Berlin DE

Sensual Hypnotist, and ImpactPlay Kinkster. Will give you a experience you will defenitely remember.

Chastity Content meets Findom
SamanthaD BDSM Los Angeles
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SamanthaD

BDSM, Erotic audio, Muse, Writer, Content creator, Coach & Educator

Services are  In person & Online

Female - Pansexual, Sapiosexual

Los Angeles CA US

I am a Female Lifestyle Domina that enjoys domination in many forms. A natural born Humilatrix with a sweet sadistic side. I make a few assumptions when engaging with submissives. Those assumptions include being a grown adult, capable of determining ones limits and having full autonomy when enter into a D/s dynamic. If those assumptions are wrong, please move on. I expect those that seek my attention to be honest with their needs. I have over 20 years in the lifestyle. The power exchange is what I crave. It's what makes me tick. It's how I'm wired. That exchange comes in many different forms and I'm always excited to explore new kinks. Service to me as a part of the power exchange will include obedience, loyalty and submission. I am not easy on submissives, nor am I always fair. That being said, I practice D/s with the understanding that both parties will do no harm. I tend to be pragmatic, sanguine and very forward. I don't mince words. A submissive will always know where they stand with me.

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CatBoi_Ink Artist Albuquerque
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CatBoi_Ink

BDSM, Artist, Content creator, Writer & Kinkster

Services are  Online

Trans - Gay, Queer, Demisexual

Albuquerque NM US

I'm a neurodivergent, trans writer and artists whose work has been published in over 30 books.

Custom content Digital art
What is a BDSM practitioner?

What is a BDSM practitioner?

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A BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) practitioner is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form. 

What makes it hot?

Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment. 

No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.

Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.

Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.

DO

Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.

Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.

Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.

 

DON'T

Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.

Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.

Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.

BDSM related experiences

Bondage

Bondage

Bondage

All tied up with nowhere to go?

CBT

CBT

CBT

Cock and ball torture: the best kind of therapy.

Chastity

Chastity

Chastity

When refraining is entertaining.

Domination

Domination

Domination

Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.

Dominatrix

Dominatrix

Dominatrix

Good girls go to heaven, bad girls go to dungeons.

FemDom

FemDom

FemDom

Let the matriarchy commence.

Findom

Findom

Findom

Financial domination. The art of the human ATM.

Foot worship

Foot worship

Foot worship

Your feet are my religion.

Latex

Latex

Latex

Want to see my second skin?

Leather

Leather

Leather

Dressed in leather whatever the weather.

Orgasm control

Orgasm control

Orgasm control

Every control freak's dream kink.

Role Play

Role Play

Role Play

Because sometimes getting arrested is very...liberating.

Shibari

Shibari

Shibari

Tying the knot never sounded better.

Submission

Submission

Submission

My happy place is my sub space.

Tie and Tease

Tie and Tease

Tie and Tease

Torture and tickle time, all in one.