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My name is Raquel (they/them) and I am an analogue photographer based in Toronto, Canada, with a specialty in documenting the eroticism of queer & trans people. Creating a comfortable & safe space for my clients is the most important, I want them to leave our sessions feeling confident & sexy.
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GoddessEros
In person & Online
Los Angeles CA US
I take you in a journey through the senses and the mind, using the art and world of Sensual Shibari.
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I support kinky neuroqueers with sex & relationship coaching that works for you...and your nervous system.💜
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What is a BDSM practitioner?
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A BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) practitioner is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
