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Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
Frayed_knots_
•Male, Queer, London UK
Let me show you the ropes
Dublinrigger
Male, Straight, Dublin IE
Rigger, writer, photographer
MistressEtta
Female, Bicurious, Glasgow UK
The mean Mother you have always wanted.
PrincessAurora
Female, Queer, Manchester UK
Award winning Fetish Princess. Generally amused by abusing losers.
CalieRain
Female, Pansexual, London UK
I started reviewing pleasure products around 2012 and that spiralled into joining the kink and swinging scenes, working at fetish events and sex toy/lingerie retail and teaching classes. I offer a range of services including: * Sex and kink education classes (inc spanking, D/s, sex toy 101, kink 101, female pleasure, spicing it up in the bedroom, anal, strap on, Femdom, etc). These can be 1on1, for a couple, or small groups * Advice sessions on topics such as how to introduce new things in the bedroom, joining the kink or swinging scenes, choosing sex/kink toys * Dungeon monitor, House Domme, event crew * Pro Domme (inc impact play, sensation play, wax play, watersports, trampling, face sitting, body worship, sounding, strap on, event companion and more) * Limited availability escort and sugar baby services
daddyra
Trans, Queer, New York NY US
Submitting to me feels like bathing in sunshine ☀️ let Daddy praise you while you dress up 👗 BDSM 🖤 outbound only
GoddessVenusia
Gender fluid, Pansexual, Miami FL US
Ethereal Goddess possessed by a Sadistic Succubus ~
Scarlett
Female, Bisexual, London UK
Sex educator + sensual switch
Roryropes
Male, Bisexual, Dunstable UK
Shibari rigger, educator, & performer (With a little mean streak for those that like it)
MissMoon
Female, Bicurious, Cape Town ZA
Step into the Moons shadow & serve me
dominatrixniamh
Female, Bisexual, New York NY US
Hello, my name is Niamh, I'm playful, sensual and sadistic dominatrix, I enjoy different fetish games: femdom, CBT, latex/boots/body/feet worship, impact play, CEI, JOI, creative roleplays, tease and denial, sph, I'm also very open-minded about exploring new fantasies. I offer tailored skype sessions to submissive partners. https://allmylinks.com/niamhsatie
What is BDSM?
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) Sensualist is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
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'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta Cítrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
Meet international Dominatrix, Mistress Gemma Li
Friday 12 July 2024
Meet the femme fatale you've always dreamed of. We chatted to international Dominatrix Gemma Li, who is taking over the world one whip at a time.
Meet Shibari rigger & educator: Rory Ropes
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Looking for an inclusive and creative space to try out Shibari? Trust professional rigger and educator, Rory to show you the ropes.
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Thursday 16 May 2024
Episode 1 of the Sensuali podcast is hosted by sex educator Emma aka Emmcheeky, and features guest appearance from Eva Oh, the world famous Dominatrix who knows the world of BDSM like no other.
Meet quality latex clothing brand, Filth Latex
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Looking for latex that is uniquely designed, top quality, and most importantly, made with true passion? We chatted with Stuart, founder of Amsterdam-based clothing company, Filth Latex, who has dreams to become the best made latex manufacturer on the market.
In conversation with the queen of kink: Dominatrix Eva Oh
Friday 3 May 2024
All hail the queen of kink. Sensuali had the honour of chatting to the world famous Dominatrix, Eva Oh about her trailblazing journey so far as a BDSM icon.
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Thursday 11 April 2024
There's no better place to get freaky than New York City. If you're feeling kinkcurious, these are the top 5 activities in the city worth the whip.
4 essential pioneers of kink art
Friday 22 March 2024
These are 4 essential kink artists who paved the way for all lovers of art and erotica today.
Affairs of intimate indecency: meet kinky girlfriend, Amelia Swann
Friday 8 March 2024
Longing for a passionate whirlwind of a date laced with a good dose of deviance? Long no further. This is Amelia Swann, one of London's very finest kinky girlfriends.
In conversation with One Night Parties: the UK’s top femme-only kink event
Friday 1 March 2024
Want to enter a femme-only dimension consisting of red silk and garter belts, soft R&B and bodies covered in cream, rope bondage and sacrilege? You're in the right place. We spoke with Miss Gold, the babe behind the babe-land that is One Night Parties.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
