BDSM & Kink
BDSM, Domination
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
AliceBlue
BDSM, Muse & Sugar baby
Female, 99, Queer
Berlin DE (In person & Online)
can call you Daddy but not afraid to hurt you
mistressbeate
BDSM
Female, 33, Pansexual
Berlin DE (In person & Online)
Psychological Domination⛓
MsGeminex
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 33, Demisexual
Phoenix AZ US (In person & Online)
Seductive in My ways to tease, torment and train submissive little pets. Traveling often. FMTY & in-calls.
mistresslola
BDSM, Sugar baby & Artist
Female, 29, Pansexual
Paris FR (In person & Online)
Having a cute appearance doesn’t bother me from being mean, freaky and sadistic.
HentaiMistressKoto
BDSM, Sugar baby & Photographer
Female, 30, Sapiosexual
Berlin DE (In person & Online)
I could never get bored of playing Hentai, Shibari, and BDSM. It's my life.
KoreKouture
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 35, Pansexual
Leeds UK (In person & Online)
I'm a very playful Dominant, I adore reactions and helping people to explore to find what they enjoy!
soma_rose
BDSM, Dancer & Massage
Female, 30, Queer
Providence RI US (In person & Online)
i am a priestess of deep, present and sensual embodiment. i am a sensual movement artist // performer with a focus on pole dance and contemporary movement. i am a midwifery student devoted to expanding sovereignty and freedom with pregnant folx in our community. i am a professional massage therapist with a focus on trauma-informed support in expanding pleasure and sensation. i am a practicing somatic astrologer and tarot reader as well. i am also a doctoral student writing a dissertation on mysticism and sexual ethics. i have been practicing and teaching around trauma-transforming BDSM practice as a submissive // gentle switch for many years now.
Queen_Bea
BDSM & Content creator
Female, 34, Queer
New York NY US (Online)
Offering online domination to pets of all genders, come and be good for me.
sacredsoleil
BDSM, Content creator & Coach
Female, 31, Bisexual
Detroit MI US (Online)
My name is Alexandra and I am a professional astrologer, certified trauma-informed somatic pleasure coach, erotic hypnotist, and the sole owner of Sacred Soleil. As an interpreter of the cosmos, my unique approach uses Tropical astrology as a guide to unveil the unconscious psyche, in order to discover the most effective and personalized mind-body practices to heal traumas and release shame in order to empower others in the reclamation of their erotic expression. I do this powerful and transformative work via 1:1 natal chart analysis + coaching sessions. I specialize in sexual alchemy and healing sexual trauma, advocating for somatic practices, shadow integration, and exploration of kink and BDSM as psycho-spiritual therapeutic and healing modalities. These practices have been instrumental in my own personal healing journey.
TheMominatrix
BDSM, Content creator & Companion
Female, 34, Bisexual
Seattle WA US (In person & Online)
Mommy is ready, are you?
vixenpraga
BDSM, Content creator & Dancer
Female, 25, Pansexual
Santiago CL (In person & Online)
لا Playboy Girl gone wicked لا | Femdom Findom Latina
MissBecky
BDSM
Female, 27, Bisexual
London UK (In person)
I'm Miss Becky, a dominatrix specializing in the art of bullying and tease. With a decade of experience, I masterfully blend psychological dominance with physical control, creating unforgettable sessions for those who crave intensity and authenticity. My approach is rooted in understanding the desires and limits of my submissives, pushing them to their boundaries while ensuring a safe, consensual environment. I revel in the power dynamics, expertly wielding my words and actions to evoke vulnerability, excitement, and a deep sense of submission. Each session with me is a unique journey, tailored to your specific fantasies and fears. Whether you're a seasoned submissive or a curious newcomer, I will guide you through an experience that will leave you yearning for more. My tools of the trade include a sharp tongue, a keen sense of intuition, and an array of instruments designed to tease, torment, and tantalize. Step into my world, where the line between pleasure and pain blurs.
What is BDSM?
Welcome to the world of kink connoisseurs.
BDSMÂ (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) Sensualist is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form.Â
What makes it hot?
Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment.Â
No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.
Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.
Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.
Meet London Dominatrix & fetishist: Miss May
Monday 30 September 2024
'My session style is playful and dirty but don’t be fooled, I am a natural sadist and using you is my passion.' This is Miss May, London-based Dominatrix and fetishist with a hard and heavy approach.
Meet LA Dominatrix: Sophia Domina
Tuesday 17 September 2024
'I've learned that though my specific kinks may change, I am kinky as a sexual orientation.' Meet Sophia Domina, the LA-based Dominatrix, writer, director and producer.
Introducing Philadelphia Dominatrix: Mistress Hellga
Sunday 15 September 2024
From the religious connotations of blood play, to the innate human craving for fear; this was our thrilling chat with the enchanting Philadelphia-based Dominatrix, Mistress Hellga.
Meet LA Dominatrix: Miss Mae Ling
Sunday 8 September 2024
'Her playfully sweet side makes things all the more twisted.' We chatted with the adorable Mae Ling, the Domme next door you've been having dreams (or nightmares) about.
Introducing London Dominatrix: Veronica Viper
Monday 2 September 2024
From chastity to counselling, London-based Dominatrix and BDSM wellness specialist, Veronica Viper is the psychological kinkster you've always dreamed of.
3 essential lesbian BDSM films
Tuesday 27 August 2024
It's hard to find nuanced representation of BDSM in film, and we could write a whole thesis on cinematic portrayals of lesbian relationships. So how are we fixed for films that explore lesbians & BDSM all in one? Here are our 3 favourites.
Introducing Berlin-based Dominatrix: Mistress Beate
Sunday 18 August 2024
Despite the whips and chains, Domination is anything but skin deep. That's especially true for Mistress Beate, the Berlin-based psychological Dominatrix.
So you want to try Shibari: featuring Marie Sauvage
Friday 16 August 2024
Episode 4 of the Sensuali podcast features celebrated Shibari artist Marie Sauvage talking with host Emma aka Emmcheeky all about the famous Japanese art form, Shibari.
Meet gym bunny content creator: Juicy Jynx
Saturday 3 August 2024
Looking for some squatting smut? This is Juicy Jynx, the content creator who earned her fame through her gym bunny aesthetic.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta CĂtrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
DO
Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.
Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.
Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.
DON'T
Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.
Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.
Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.
