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Ms Rain

Bangkok TH, Singapore SG

A neurodivergent therapist with possibly too many side quests.

Therapist Painter Illustrator Artist Author Kinkster BDSM Dominatrix Submissive Muse Shibari artist Rigger Educator Facilitator Coach

1 service

About me

My experiences are for Everyone
I offer experiences
Online/Virtual
40s , Female , Bicurious
Asian
I speak English
Postgrad

I've been in nerdy, kink, and polyamory spaces longer than I've been practicing counselling and psychotherapy. I love learning, and that's helped me connect with different interests and different people. I didn't get my Master's degree in psychotherapy specifically to work with clients in kink spaces, but, I've had it pointed out to me that those in kink spaces are looking for therapists like me: Nerdy, knowledgeable, trauma-informed, and voluntarily following Kink Clinical Practice Guidelines.
If you suspect yourself neurodivergent, we're going to get along. If you have wide and deep interests, doubly so. I'm equally comfortable with clients from Asia as well as the West, and those who consider themselves third culture. If you need to know the modalities I work with, I'm familiar with the "alphabet therapies" (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectic Behavioral Therapy) but prefer the trauma classics like Polyvagal Theory and Parts Work (IFS, Transactional Analysis). If you bend towards woo, I know my way around astrology charts, Tarot, and a bit of energy work.
I'm very much all about the nervous system and finding (co)regulation wherever possible.

* My services accommodate people with disabilities or access needs

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to message me .

My tags

Boundaries Counselling Self exploration Trauma healing Communication issues Educational 1 on 1 Polyamory Relationships Life Drawing Portrait commissions Tarot Reading Open relationship

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Introductory Therapy Session service

Introductory Therapy Session

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