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MasterSamael
In person
Berlin DE
Elegant sadist with a velvet voice. Come surrender your mind, body, and secrets to a true Dominus. 🖤
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FrankieTantraNYC
In person
New York NY US
Tantra massage is a sacred and ancient practice that goes beyond the physical. It's about awakening your senses, igniting your life force energy, and connecting with your innermost desires. You'll experience a blend of skilled touch, deep relaxation, and sensual exploration that will leave you feeling not only rejuvenated but also profoundly connected to yourself. During our Tantra session, you'll be welcomed into a safe, sacred space where you can let go of inhibitions and surrender to the present moment. Through Tantric touch we will awaken and channel your sexual energy in a conscious and respectful manner. This session is a dedicated space for open communication, trust-building, compassion, and healing. It unfolds in an environment of safety and understanding, where you can freely express and delve into your inner self. You will be guided with genuine care and support, with no obligations for reciprocation. This is a practice of surrender to the Feminine Goddess. This is a full body devotion to you. Allow the outside world to fade away as you experience healing and nurturing through my hands. Session include a mix of rhythmic light to medium pressure full body strokes, intuitive reiki energy healing, trauma release, crystal singing bowl, aromatherapy, breath work and lingam massage. Please visit my website for more information ohm-mygod.com Until we meet xo Frankie
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mistressrozz
In person & Online
Los Angeles CA US
I am Mistress Rozz, and I tend the gateway of an amazing experience you are on the threshold of. If you're reading this you probably have submissive tenancies and fantasies. If you are a submissive; no matter your experience level, there are things that you need training in. There is no one-size-fits-all perfect sub. I will shape you thoughtfully, relentlessly and sadistically into what I prefer. When you come and serve me you turn yourself over to me, and throughout the course of our session I will test that. My interests include: Leather and Latex fetish, Bondage, Suspension, Predicament Bondage, Mummification, Corporal Punishment, Obedience Training, Objectification, Spitting, Human Ashtray, Sissification, Role Play, Humiliation, Chastity Training, Sensory Deprivation and Sensory Play, CBT, Ballbusting, Shoe, Stocking and Foot Worship, Trampling.
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A-BrandiKink
In person & Online
El Paso TX US
Neurotic, perverted, and confident Slut dismantling your internalized shame.
1 service
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papipistacchio
In person
Berlin DE
Swedish/German. Viking roots, Berlin boots. D/s Dominant, explorer, expert cuddler.
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thescarletsiren
In person & Online
Berlin DE
The Priestex of Pleasure - bespoke tantra & kink experiences.
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What is orgasm control?
Every control freak's dream kink.
Orgasm control refers to the intentional manipulation or restraint of an individual's sexual climax, often done by a partner. This can involve delaying the orgasm, denying it altogether, or intensifying the experience through various techniques and activities. The practice requires a high level of trust and communication between partners, as it involves a nuanced exploration of pleasure and arousal.
What makes it hot?
What makes orgasm control exciting is the heightened anticipation and intensity it adds to intimate moments. The deliberate delay or denial of orgasm builds a strong sense of desire and arousal, creating a more profound release when finally allowed. The power dynamics involved can also be exhilarating, with one partner surrendering control and the other taking on the role of orchestrating pleasure. The excitement lies in the emotional and physical intensity.
When practiced consensually and with open communication, orgasm control is generally safe. However, it's important to be aware of your partner's physical and emotional well-being throughout the experience.
Approach the conversation with sensitivity and communicate your desires openly. Emphasise the mutual exploration of pleasure and discuss any concerns or boundaries your partner may have.
Techniques vary and can include edging (delaying climax), denial, sensory play, or the use of certain devices. Experimenting with different methods can help discover what works best for both partners.
DO
Communication and consent: Openly discuss desires, boundaries, and comfort levels before exploring orgasm control. Obtain explicit consent and ensure ongoing communication throughout the experience.
Build trust: Establish a foundation of trust between partners. Trust is crucial in orgasm control, as it involves vulnerability and surrender. Always prioritise your partner's emotional well-being.
Variety and exploration: Experiment with different techniques and activities to find what works best for both partners. Explore a variety of sensations, and be receptive to feedback to enhance the overall experience.
DON'T
Assume readiness: Never assume that your partner is ready for orgasm control without explicit consent. Respect their boundaries and preferences, and be attentive to cues during intimate moments.
Ignore limits: Respect any established limits and boundaries set by your partner. Pushing too far or too fast can lead to discomfort or emotional distress, undermining the trust essential for orgasm control.
Neglect aftercare: After an orgasm control session, provide emotional support and aftercare. Discuss feelings, ensure your partner feels secure, and address any emotional or physical needs that may arise.