HouseOfVF
In person
Please note all applications are to be made through my website. I am Mistress Vera V.F. - a strict, yet caring, dominatrix. Classic, yes, but with something of a contemporary twist. I adore protocol and discipline, which I bring a uniquely personal approach to. I will remain strict and poised looking down at you, but I will also put you at ease. You are in safe hands with me. I will dominate you with a smile on my face. Passionate about kink and BDSM, I truly adore exploring and facilitating fantasies - I strive to learn what makes you tick, and use it to bring you pleasure, pain and ultimate subspace. I offer real-time dungeon sessions, social dates, shopping trips and cashpoint meets in London. You can apply via my website. Occasionally, I might consider online sessions. Note you should be deposit ready at the time of your application. I have seen people of all types, from devoted submissives to those with specific fetishes. Whether you're an obedient and experienced sub or a complete beginner, if you are lucky together we will explore your deepest, darkest desires. I have a wide range of interests, but some of my favourites are: Protocol Corporal punishment Bondage CBT Key holding Slave training I am a BDSM chameleon, and love exploring many types of play. Feel free to still fill out my form if what you are looking for isn't mentioned above and we can discuss. I am not interested in the following kinks at this time. Requests for any of these will be ignored. -Hardsports -Wrestling -Needles -Electrics
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Roel
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Antwerp BE
Discover your boundries. Set your soul free. Reach core orgasms and let yourself go.
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Bash92
In person
Portland OR US
I have been in the lifestyle for 10 years now. My wife and I practice ENM. I am a pleasure Dom with a firm hand and an insatiable knack for getting my partners off.
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saintvalentine
In person
Denver CO US
Let me indulge you in your erotic fantasies. Devote to me and I will unveil your true purpose -my ultimate pleasure.
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Sir_
In person
New York NY US
It’s better to be a pirate than join the navy. 🏴☠️ Let’s go to couples therapy and see how long it takes the therapist to figure out we’re on a first date. My gorgeous sexy linked partner may be down to join for FMF or FMFM 🤓 Whip smart professional with diverse cultural tastes. 🎯Sensual Dominant seeking submissive play partner - Ongoing preferred. Can we be one of those awesome couples on here? FMF, MFMF, MFM, stag and hotwife arrangements also welcome. 🥳 Top Floor, Life Itself, Chemistry among others. 📥 CMO by day; technology, art, architecture, design, spirituality, food, & music fan by night. 🩺Take care of yourself mentally and physically - I do :) 🚫 NOT a fuckboi fake ‘dom’ incel with poor conversational skills like your last feeld date. Also note: not the trump voting republican some take me to be based on looks. Can’t help it. But … decidedly non traditional on the inside. You’ve read this far. You get it. 🎭 I’m a former comedian. I promise to make you laugh. 🎧Former DJ & music industry exec. Open to an ENM primary relationship with a sex positive woman. ❤️ Happy to meet for a drink or coffee and see if we click. Not into texting - much prefer in real life, totally ok if you want a quick video confirmation that I am indeed for real :) 5’10 / 165lbs fit with high libido and stamina for days. 📍I live in Carroll Gardens Brooklyn or Hilton Head SC. 🍆 Size queens welcome.
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matejkubesa
In person & Online
Olomouc CZ
Young boy, with lots of passion, desire and experience. A am for everything kinky.
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Cleo08
In person & Online
Jakarta ID
A mixed Asian harlot, dominatrix who's based in Bali, Indonesia 🖤
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FILTH_Deelite
In person & Online
Amsterdam NL
I am the founder and owner of Filth Latex Clothing in the Netherlands. My latex journey started about 30 years ago working for Demask in Amsterdam and over the last few years I have been creating my own brand. The goal of Filth is to create new and unique garments of the highest quality that are inspired by fetish in music and fashion. My clothes explore the role and relationship between the voyeur and the exhibitionist with the use of standard and semi transparent latex in the garments. The garments are meant to tease, not be explicit. On a personal level I am just trying to get the kinks out.
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NolanDom
In person & Online
Get on your knees and hand over MY money. It's where you belong. It's what you deserve.
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What is submission?
My happy place is my sub space.
In a sexual context, submission refers to the consensual act of willingly yielding control, authority, or power to a dominant partner. It involves engaging in activities, rituals, or dynamics that emphasise the power imbalance between the submissive and dominant individuals.
Submission is often a key element in BDSM practices, and it can encompass a range of activities, from physical restraint to psychological surrender, all within the framework of negotiated and consensual boundaries. The submissive party derives pleasure from surrendering and following the commands or desires of the dominant partner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of submission can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it taps into power dynamics, creating a sense of vulnerability and surrender that can intensify the erotic experience. The act of giving up control can evoke feelings of trust, intimacy, and heightened sensations.
Additionally, submission allows individuals to explore their desires and boundaries, providing a structured and consensual space to push personal limits and experience new facets of pleasure. The arousal may also stem from the psychological and emotional aspects of surrender, where the submissive finds pleasure in fulfilling the desires of the dominant partner.
Yes, submission can be consensual and part of various relationship dynamics, including those characterised by love, trust, and equality. It's about exploring shared desires within agreed-upon boundaries.
While submission often involves sexual activities, it can extend beyond the sexual realm. Some individuals may engage in non-sexual forms of submission, such as service-oriented tasks or rituals.
Communication is key. Clearly discuss desires, limits, and expectations with a partner. Start with less intense activities and gradually explore, prioritising ongoing consent and safety.
DO
Establish clear communication: Open and honest communication is essential in establishing boundaries, expectations, and consent when engaging in submissive activities.
Prioritise aftercare: After engaging in submissive activities, prioritize aftercare to provide emotional and physical support to the submissive partner. This can include reassurance, cuddling, and checking in on emotional well-being.
Regularly check in: Regularly check in with both partners to ensure ongoing consent and comfort. Consent is dynamic and can be withdrawn at any time, so clear communication is key.
DON'T
Neglect safety: Safety should always be a priority. Avoid activities that pose unnecessary risks, and establish safe words or signals to communicate discomfort or the need to stop.
Assume consent for all activities: Consent is specific to each activity. Just because someone consents to one form of submission doesn't mean they consent to all activities. Clearly negotiate and communicate desires and limits.
Rush the process: Submission is a gradual exploration. Avoid rushing into intense activities without proper communication, understanding, and consent. Take the time to build trust and explore gradually.