dawnchorus

In person & Online

New Orleans LA US

⛓️ Chew up your love then swallow ⛓️

Muse BDSM

AliceBlue Discretion Berlin
6 6
1 experience
1 experience

AliceBlue

In person & Online

Berlin DE

Guiding sensory sluts one step at a time

1 service

BDSM Muse

eliasgoldmund Discretion Berlin
15 1 1

eliasgoldmund

In person

Berlin DE

I'll lift you up to bright sensual heavens, walk with you on golden shiny earth or bring you to your darkest abyss.

BDSM Massage

Michelle

In person & Online

Sydney AU

Multiple degrees. Most recently working on a psychology degree. I am writing a book that helps people better understand themselves. Ideal for those looking for interesting conversation mixed with a dash of fun and adventure.

Writing Erotic media

BeautyandBrains Discretion Los Angeles
14 1
3 experiences
3 experiences

BeautyandBrains

In person & Online

Los Angeles CA US

Putting the ass in classy 😂

3 services

Art

Melo Discretion Berlin
8 1 1 7

Melo

In person & Online

Berlin DE

I can whisper delicious things in your ear or I can just take you against the wall without anything else needed

Erotic audio Massage Art Dance Muse Erotic media

MissBecky Discretion Berlin
6

MissBecky

In person

Berlin DE

I'm Miss Becky, a dominatrix specializing in the art of bullying and tease. With a decade of experience, I masterfully blend psychological dominance with physical control, creating unforgettable sessions for those who crave intensity and authenticity. My approach is rooted in understanding the desires and limits of my submissives, pushing them to their boundaries while ensuring a safe, consensual environment. I revel in the power dynamics, expertly wielding my words and actions to evoke vulnerability, excitement, and a deep sense of submission. Each session with me is a unique journey, tailored to your specific fantasies and fears. Whether you're a seasoned submissive or a curious newcomer, I will guide you through an experience that will leave you yearning for more. My tools of the trade include a sharp tongue, a keen sense of intuition, and an array of instruments designed to tease, torment, and tantalize. Step into my world, where the line between pleasure and pain blurs.

BDSM

ronhades Discretion Berlin
15 1

ronhades

In person

Berlin DE

Sensual sadist, Bondage enthusiast

BDSM Education

soma_rose Discretion Providence
8 1

soma_rose

In person & Online

Providence RI US

erotic priestess, here to midwife somatic alchemy

BDSM Dance Massage Art Erotic audio Writing Kink Education

GoddessEros Discretion Los Angeles
5 1 4

GoddessEros

In person & Online

Los Angeles CA US

I take you in a journey through the senses and the mind, using the art and world of Sensual Shibari.

BDSM Coaching Education Erotic audio Massage Writing Shibari

vududahl Discretion Los Angeles
3 1 5

vududahl

Online

Los Angeles CA US

Your Guide to Authenticity, Freedom, and Play.

Kink Education

CelesteVeDette

In person & Online

Detroit MI US

The Starlet of Timeless Tease

Art Dance BDSM Erotic media

What is discretion?

What is discretion?

Shhh, it's a secret.

'Discretion' labelled on a Sensuali profile usually means that a Sensualist values their discretion or will value your discretion if needed. This means that they will make sure that the time you spend together is private and discreet, and will expect the same from you. 

What makes it hot?

Respecting privacy has the ability to make an experience a lot more intimate. Knowing that your interaction is something that stays strictly between the two of you can build trust and bring you closer together as well as enhancing excitement. When somebody tags discretion on their profile, you can rest assured that this Sensualist will value your privacy by seeing the interaction as something totally separate from your 'normal' lives.  

Discuss and establish a plan for handling public encounters to maintain discretion. This may involve having a discreet signal or prearranged response to ensure both partners are on the same page and comfortable navigating such situations.

Trust is paramount in maintaining discretion. Both partners need to trust that the agreed-upon boundaries will be respected. Open communication about feelings, concerns, and expectations helps build and reinforce trust over time.

Yes, discretion needs can evolve. Regularly reassess and communicate about your comfort levels and expectations. Be open to adapting boundaries as the relationship progresses to ensure that both partners remain on the same page.

DO

Communicate expectations clearly: Clearly communicate about the level of discretion both of you desire. Discuss boundaries, privacy preferences, and expectations regarding sharing relationship details with others.

Establish trust: Build a foundation of trust. Trust is crucial when discretion is valued, as it ensures that both people feel confident that their personal information will be handled with care and respect.

Respect privacy: Respect each others privacy and encourage an environment where both of you feel comfortable maintaining certain aspects of your lives discreet. Avoid prying into personal matters that the other person may wish to keep private.

DON'T

Share private information without consent: Avoid sharing personal details about the person without their explicit consent. Respect their boundaries regarding what information is kept private.

Pressure for public displays of affection: Avoid pressuring someone into public displays of affection or sharing relationship milestones on social media if they value discretion. Understand and respect their desire to keep certain aspects of the relationship private.