Navigating the vast world of intimate tools, toys, lubricants, and aids can feel overwhelming. We are absolutely spoiled for choice in terms of brands, sizes, colours, and that’s just what the products look like, not what they can actually do. 

But here’s the thing: what works for one body or relationship might not work for another. That’s why I created the Intimacy Toolkit Coaching to guide you through your journey with knowledge, personalised support, and a shame-free space to explore with a professional Intimacy Coach.

Using toys or products to enhance intimacy isn’t only about boosting pleasure; it’s also about creating comfort and support. My own curiosity about toys and sexual aids began after years of experiencing painful sex due to endometriosis. What started as a search for relief quickly became a revelation: these tools weren’t just about adding excitement; they were a gateway to supporting myself and my body in the moments I needed it most.

That experience sparked a deep passion in me to support others who may be struggling with pain, discomfort, a fear of intimacy, or sexual difficulties. I know how isolating it can feel, and I want to help people find the right tools, knowledge, and confidence to reconnect with their bodies. Everyone deserves the chance to experience pleasure again, and sometimes, it just takes the right guidance and support to get there.

What Is Intimacy Toolkit Coaching?

The Intimacy Toolkit Coaching is a one-on-one or couples 2-hour virtual session where you and I collaborate to demystify the realm of intimate products and pleasure tools. Rather than pushing products, the goal is to empower you with understanding what you need to explore pleasure on your terms.

During our coaching time, I’ll help you:

• Understand the different categories of toys, lubricants, and aids and what they do
• Learn how to select items suited for your body, comfort level, and budget
• Explore safe and effective ways to use them — solo or with a partner
• Receive tailored product recommendations to go explore
• Get a personalised follow-up email summarising key insights and suggestions

You’ll leave with actionable guidance, clear next steps, and assurance that your journey is valid and respected.

Who’s Intimacy Coaching For?

• Anyone curious or new to intimate tools and wants guidance
• Anyone who feels anxious, overwhelmed, or lost in a sea of options
• Anyone experiencing challenges like dryness, discomfort, or performance-related issues
• Anyone in need of a safe, judgment-free space to ask questions and learn
• Anyone looking for a personalised input rather than one-size-fits-all advice

Why This Service Matters

Sexual wellness isn’t a one-size-fits-all checklist; in fact, it’s an ongoing journey, and sometimes having the right guidance makes all the difference. My Intimacy Toolkit Coaching helps you navigate this phase with clarity, avoiding the frustration, wasted money, or uncertainty that can come from trial and error. It’s not just about finding the right products, but about learning how to use them safely, with respect for your body and its unique needs.

This service also empowers you to feel confident in your choices, providing you with the knowledge to understand why something works for you, rather than simply following generic advice. Most importantly, it creates a shame-free and judgment-free space where curiosity is encouraged, misinformation is clarified, and pleasure becomes something you can approach with confidence and ease.

FAQs & Logistics

• Duration: 2 hours
• Format: Online (video call) Must be in a private, comfortable space
• Included: After the session, you’ll receive a personalised follow-up email with notes, curated product recommendations, and next steps
• Pricing & Booking: £150
• Privacy & Comfort: Everything is done with respect, confidentiality, and no pressure

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the choices in the intimate products world or hesitant to explore because of fear, shame, or uncertainty, then the Itimacy Toolkit Coaching is your guided path. I’m here to support you as you take steps toward pleasure, curiosity, and confidence.

Enquire about a session today with April Maria 

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April Maria

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April Maria is a qualified sex educator, sex and relationships coach and training psychosexual and relationships therapist. For the last four years, April has been working in the field of sex education, sex tech and pleasure, endometriosis awareness and helping others when it comes to sexual wellness, intimacy, dating and relationships.