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Learn everything from the history of the world’s oldest profession to the psychology of sex.
Femdom: female power through history
Femdom is a wonderful part of BDSM that has gradually been emerging since the 20th century. But was there any sense of female domination before then? And how has femdom evolved today?
The girlfriend experience: on commodifying companionship
Love it or hate it, the Girlfriend Experience is an increasingly sought out service today. Let's understand the psychology behind it, and why the commodification of companion can be beneficial in modern society.
What is power play? 3 foundations of Dom/Sub dynamics within BDSM
What is Power Play? Contrary to what we see in porn, there’s a lot that goes on behind-the-scenes in Dominance and submission. Sarah at Sub in the City linked with Sensuali to break down the 3 main foundations that create successful Dom/sub dynamics.
BDSM myth busting: 5 misconceptions about kink that you need to know
Professional BDSM coach Sarah at Sub in the City explains some of the most common myths about BDSM and kink.
A beginner’s guide to BDSM
What does BDSM really stand for? Read our latest blog from Sarah at Sub in the City for a quick and dirty breakdown of this kinky acronym.
The top 5 benefits of sensual massage
Rubens Abreu, the London-based professional masseuse shares with Sensuali the top 5 benefits of sensual massage.
Sensual coach: reconnecting you to yourself
In our fast-paced world, where we live increasingly in our heads than in our bodies and natural surroundings, the sensual coach is here to bring you back to your body and the bodies of those around you.
Breath play: a short introduction
Breath play is one of the taboo kinks that has recently become a lot more openly accepted. Kinkcurious? Here is a basic introduction.
Bondage: the b in bdsm
The B in bdsm stands for bondage. Here's what it actually means.
Nuru massage: a short introduction
Nuru massage is one of the most intimate forms of sensual massage you can find today. Here's everything you need to know.
Edging: the excitement in restraint
Edging is a common sexual practice in today's increasingly open society. Kinkcurious? Here's what you need to know.
Pegging: a short introduction
Pegging is simply another portal to sexual pleasure, that’s why it’s becoming more and more popular. Here’s the rundown.
Kink and fetish: what’s the difference?
Did you know that there is actually a difference between the terms kink and fetish? Here's what it is.
Smoking fetish: a short introduction
After centuries of smoking being eroticised, the smoking fetish today is very much in full swing- especially in the BDSM community. Kinkcurious? Here's a short introduction.
What is a vulva massage ?
On Sensuali you can find vulva massages for stress relief, healing and of course, pleasure. Kinkcurious? Here's what vulva massages are all about.
What does ‘vers’ mean in the queer community?
'Vers' is a commonly used term in today's queer community. If you don't know what it means, you've come to the right place.
What is sploshing? Exploring sticky sensuality
'Sploshing' is a niche experience you can explore on Sensuali today. Kinkcurious? Here's the lowdown.
What is primal play?
The term 'primal play' is popping up everywhere recently. Kinkurious? Here's what it means.
Sensual spectrum: from DIY porn to exhibitionism
From DIY porn to exhibitionism, sensory play, kinks, and fetishes, this blog explores the spectrum of sensuality and celebrates sexual discovery.
Zentai : fetish wear for sensual adventures
Delve into the alluring realm of Zentai and fetish wear with us, as we discuss the thrilling possibilities they bring to sex parties and intimate encounters.
Inclusion at Sensuali: embracing unconventional forms of sexuality
This blog explores and celebrates unconventional forms of sexuality, including androgynosexuality, auralism, and objectum sexuality.
Journey to Ecstasy: The Transformative Power of Tantra
This comprehensive guide explores four transformative tantric practices: tantric massage, eye gazing, sacred womb healing, and goddess worship.
An Exploration into Period Play
Period blood has long been regarded as impure by mainstream religions but new-age hippies are rewriting this misogynistic narrative -- embracing it as a sacred elixir and using it for spiritual and physical healing.
A Beginner’s Guide to Erotic Hypnosis
This blog post takes a look into the brain science behind hypnosis, delving into the potential dangers and benefits of erotic hypnosis -- a kink that has become increasingly mainstream in recent years.
4 Things I Wish They Had Taught Me in Sex Ed
For years, my hypochondria and sexually risky behavior led me to agonize about being pregnant, infertile, or infected with an STD. This is the blog I wish I had read about sexual health when I first embarked on my slutty adventures.
The Sex Worker’s Guide to Shadow Work
An exploration of shadow work and how a sex worker who fully embraces the darkest parts of his or herself has infinite potential.
Q&A: Overcoming Vaginismus
This week, I sat down with a friend to talk about her experience getting and overcoming vaginismus -- a condition that makes sex for women painful and in some cases, impossible.
A deep dive into incel culture
This week I took it upon myself to learn about incel culture. Read on to learn about the origin story of incels, why they do what they do, and what society can do to help stop the viscous cycle of incel-fueled hatred.
From the Noughties to Now: Has Sex Changed in 20 Years?
So much has changed in our attitudes towards sex since 2000. Let's look back on how we've progressed, how we've regressed, and what the future may hold.
The Positivity Pressure: Sex Work Isn’t Always Fun
Sex worker's shouldn't have to love their jobs in order for the profession to be socially accepted.
The North South Sugar Divide
I chatted with an old friend Susanne*, who spent her university days in Newcastle sugaring, before moving down South and continuing her sugar baby life in London.
A Holistic Guide to Vaginal Health
It's time to set the record straight about vaginal pH imbalances like yeast infections and bacterial vaginosis. Check out this holistic health guide to learn about ways to keep your vaginal health in tip-top shape.
Contraception Q&A with a Public Health Professional
After writing about my own experience with birth control, I decided to sit down my mom -- a badass public health professional -- to get her thoughts on the matter.
3 Things That Happened When I Went Off Birth Control
Am opinion piece on the dangers of birth control and the systems that push it, and why I'm happy to be off of it.
Let’s talk about toxic femininity
We’ve all heard of toxic masculinity, but what about the less talked about but equally insidious concept of toxic femininity? This blog delves into three toxic feminine traits -- insecurity, being overly emotional, and victimization -- and offers solutions on how to overcome them so that you can rise into your full goddess power.
The Invisible Woman: What Happens Once We Hit Middle Age?
I interviewed my 62 year old single mother about how she feels her desires as a woman have been unacknowledged since she hit middle age.
De Wallen: A history of the world’s most famous red light district
Ever wonder the origin story of the Amsterdam's Red Light District? Educate yourself with this quick, 5 minute read.
When Is Sugar Dating Exploitative?
The blurred lines and the lack of transparency in sugar dating make it all too easy to get exploited. Here's what I wish I'd known starting out.
The sex worker’s body keeps the score
There's no denying how physically and spiritually draining sex work can be. But as long as you have the tools to heal yourself, there's nothing to worry about. Melt your pain away and cleanse your soul with four holistic healing techniques that stand the test of time.
The Art of the Blowjob
Looking to take your blowjob skills to the next level? The Art of the Blowjob breaks down filacio into four unique criteria.
Sugar Daddy Etiquette
Wannabe sugar daddy? Here's what to do (and what not to do) to be the gent of all gents and succeed in the game.
Dr. Maya Angelou: Cultural Icon and Unashamed Sex Worker
Dr. Maya Angelou: A Case Study in How We Can and Should Revere Woman with Sex Work Pasts for their Non-Sex Work Related Accomplishments.
Lilith: The Patron Saint of Sex Workers
Meet Lilith: the badass feminist icon we've been missing from our lives.
The Madonna-Whore Complex
A deep dive into Madonna-Whore Complex. What is it? What are its societal implications? What is it like to be a man who self-identifies as having it?
5 Things I Wish I Knew Before Becoming a Sex Worker
A how-to guide for slaying the sex work game.
The World’s Oldest Profession
A debunking of the term "World's Oldest Profession," paired with a brief history lesson on the sex trade.