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Why is Intimacy coaching essential for the LGBTQ community?

Why is Intimacy coaching essential for the LGBTQ community?

We spoke to three LGBTQ-focused intimacy coaches to find out the benefits of going within to solve your most intimate issues

Tuesday 28 November 2023
Sexier than a screen: let’s talk erotic audio

Sexier than a screen: let’s talk erotic audio

The rise of erotic audio is something to be celebrated. Here's why this form of porn is not only a healthy option, but a sexy one too.

Monday 13 November 2023
Burlesque creates a space for the female gaze

Burlesque creates a space for the female gaze

The burlesque scene today has grown into a wonderful and thriving sub-culture where we can celebrate sexuality and femininity without fear of the male gaze.

Monday 6 November 2023
A brief introduction to erotic writing

A brief introduction to erotic writing

Porn, erotic art, sexy TV shows and kinky nudes are all the rage, but what about erotic writing? Here's a brief introduction to what could be considered the most intimate form of erotica.

Tuesday 24 October 2023
Facesitting: why do men love it?

Facesitting: why do men love it?

Everyone loves face sitting, especially the most unusual suspects- cis straight men (who have been socially conditioned to typically take a more dominant position during sex). So what's the appeal of face sitting? What makes it just as good (or better) than penetrative sex itself?

Monday 9 October 2023
3 types of Shibari experiences in London

3 types of Shibari experiences in London

Interested in Shibari but don't know where to begin? We've got you covered. Here are 3 main different ways of exploring Shibari today in London.

Tuesday 26 September 2023
The ultimate guide to nyc’s sex parties

The ultimate guide to nyc’s sex parties

The good, the great, and the greatest of the sex parties that nyc has to offer.

Tuesday 8 August 2023
Sensual kink experiences: the top 10

Sensual kink experiences: the top 10

Welcome to the wonderful world of kink. Sensuali looks beyond taboos and provides a space for us to understand our desires better. Whether you’re seeking or offering, it’s all about exploration for everyone. Here’s our top 10 crème de la kink experiences. 

Tuesday 11 July 2023
What your sexual fantasy reveals about you

What your sexual fantasy reveals about you

So you’re into wearing a collar and leash but you don’t want to even begin to figure out why? Well guess what? It’s time to face the music. And it’s nowhere near as bad as you think. Let’s explore the connection between some of today’s most obscure fantasies and what having that fantasy might reveal about you. 

Wednesday 5 July 2023
Can a throuple truly thrive?

Can a throuple truly thrive?

By now everyone has heard the phrase 'throuple'. But is the rage real? Are people just bored of monogamy, or is there more beauty behind the trend? Let's decode the dynamics of throuples and threesomes.

Monday 26 June 2023
The future of sensualist experiences

The future of sensualist experiences

This article delves into the trends and advancements shaping the future of sensualist experiences, including virtual reality, online platforms, and emerging technologies.

Sunday 25 June 2023
Instagram suspends major sex-positive accounts

Instagram suspends major sex-positive accounts

Instagram censorship has gone too far. Sensuali stands with all those out there trying to spread the harmless message of sex-positivity.

Friday 23 June 2023
Embracing alternative relationships and openness

Embracing alternative relationships and openness

Dive into the uncharted territory of alternative relationships, shattering taboos and embracing sexual openness for profound intimacy and exploration.

Tuesday 20 June 2023
Hotwife unleashed, why cheat when you can heat?

Hotwife unleashed, why cheat when you can heat?

Which phrase sounds more appealing: 'cheater' or 'hotwife'? Welcome to the 21st century, where wifeys can sleep with other men and everyone involved is cushty. Here's everything you need to know about hotwifing.

Sunday 18 June 2023
Tie and tease: sensual Bdsm

Tie and tease: sensual Bdsm

You might associate the phrase 'tie and tease' with all the pain and humiliation that BDSM can involve. But that couldn't be further from the reality of this intimate and sensual experience. Here's the lowdown.

Saturday 17 June 2023
London’s most progressive strip clubs

London’s most progressive strip clubs

Do you avoid strip clubs because of their seedy reputation? Avoid no longer! Here are London's most progressive clubs that still maintain an element of elegance and class.

Friday 9 June 2023
Vicarphilia: the pleasure of living through others

Vicarphilia: the pleasure of living through others

Vicarphilia unveiled: here’s everything you need to know about this type of paraphilia and its ever growing importance in today’s world.

Sunday 4 June 2023
The growth of paid sensualist experiences

The growth of paid sensualist experiences

Dating in modern times just ain't doing it for the majority of men. Is it time to wave goodbye to endless swiping and delve into the alluring world of paid pleasure? Let's find out.

Saturday 3 June 2023
Exploring petplay: discovering your Inner ‘Pet’ persona

Exploring petplay: discovering your Inner ‘Pet’ persona

I’ve dedicated this week to doing a deep dive into the wild world of petplay -- a 100% consensual form of role play between humans.

Monday 29 May 2023
The Cost of Loving: Cashing in on our Desires

The Cost of Loving: Cashing in on our Desires

In an increasingly sex-positive society where hookup culture is the norm, is there a new safe space forming for us to profit from our own sexual desires?

Sunday 28 May 2023
5 Ways to profit from your sensuality

5 Ways to profit from your sensuality

If you're a natural sensualist, there's countless things you can do to make serious dollar with your special energy. Here's just 5.

Sunday 28 May 2023
Menopause: Transcendence to Cronehood

Menopause: Transcendence to Cronehood

Society has conditioned women to fear menopause. This blog is here to set the record straight.

Sunday 21 May 2023
The psyches of a submissive

The psyches of a submissive

There's more complexity to just 'being submissive' in BDSM. There's many different psyches that make us feel submissive in very different ways. Here are the 4 main types. Most subs can relate to at least one.

Thursday 18 May 2023
The World’s First Virtual Camgirl is Still Thriving

The World’s First Virtual Camgirl is Still Thriving

It's been almost 4 years since Projekt Melody became the first virtual Hentai cam girl, and she's still one of the most popular users on Chaturbate over plenty of real life models. But why?

Saturday 13 May 2023
Consensual non-consent: harmless kink or recipe for disaster?

Consensual non-consent: harmless kink or recipe for disaster?

This op-ed explores the power dynamics behind the consensual non-consent kink, delving into its expectations versus reality.

Saturday 6 May 2023
Why is Sexual Voyeurism So Popular?

Why is Sexual Voyeurism So Popular?

Sexual voyeurism has always been big and as a fetish it continues to grow in popularity. But what is it about watching people that turns us on? And how can we explore it safely?

Sunday 30 April 2023
Dating In Modern Times: Why Men Have it Rough

Dating In Modern Times: Why Men Have it Rough

This blog delves into the harsh realities of dating as a man in modern times, while presenting a silver lining that offers them a way to reclaim their power.

Friday 21 April 2023
Sensual Domination: The Healing Kink The World Needs Right Now

Sensual Domination: The Healing Kink The World Needs Right Now

It’s time for the collective consciousness to switch gears from pain-focused BDSM to sensual dominance. Mankind is in crisis and needs healing. Sensual dominance offers a solution.

Thursday 13 April 2023
Power Versus Connection: What Makes for the Ideal Man?

Power Versus Connection: What Makes for the Ideal Man?

In this op-ed, I explore the ways in which patriarchal capitalist conditioning influences men's behavior and speculate on what makes for the ideal man.

Sunday 19 March 2023
Is Erotic Fashion Still…Erotic?

Is Erotic Fashion Still…Erotic?

High fashion has normalised kinkwear & BDSM fashion. And the 'barely-there' y2k trends like the micro-mini skirt are back for good. In an increasingly sexually liberated society, is erotic fashion still erotic, or is it just the norm?

Friday 10 March 2023
Exploring Differences in Hookup Culture Between Gen-Zs and Millennials

Exploring Differences in Hookup Culture Between Gen-Zs and Millennials

A deep dive into the rapidly changing views surrounding feminism, consent, and sexual empowerment.

Tuesday 14 February 2023
Do Gen Z Care Less About Sex?

Do Gen Z Care Less About Sex?

After revisiting the city where I went to university last week, I learnt some things about cultural shifts and how it has impacted Gen Z and their approach to sex.

Thursday 9 February 2023
Historical Erotic Icons: Honeysuckle Divine

Historical Erotic Icons: Honeysuckle Divine

Honeysuckle Divine: sex freak, multiple arrests for obscenity and the president as her client- a true erotic icon! Here 's the details.

Thursday 2 February 2023
A Buddhist Approach to Sex Work: Transactionality Versus Non-Attatchment

A Buddhist Approach to Sex Work: Transactionality Versus Non-Attatchment

How Buddhism shifted my relationship with sex from one of transactionality to that of non-attachment.

Thursday 26 January 2023
Q&A with a Plastic Surgeon: Empowering Women Through Choice

Q&A with a Plastic Surgeon: Empowering Women Through Choice

I went on a date with a plastic surgeon, expecting him to be a total misogynist. Turns out, I was the shallow one.

Tuesday 24 January 2023
The Sex Worker Hierarchy

The Sex Worker Hierarchy

The sex worker community is guilty for being judgemental towards forms of sex work different to their own. Especially as the industry becomes more and more class divided.

Monday 23 January 2023
Navigating Consent when Money is on the Table

Navigating Consent when Money is on the Table

Defining and navigating consent in modern times is become increasingly difficult. Throw money into the mix and the waters get even murkier.

Tuesday 17 January 2023
Kissing: The Forgotten Form of Intimacy

Kissing: The Forgotten Form of Intimacy

In today's society, kissing is underrated. Especially the telepathic kind...

Wednesday 11 January 2023
Sex Work as an Art Form

Sex Work as an Art Form

In this op-ed, I delve into the argument that sex work is an art form and should be revered as such.

Friday 6 January 2023
Why I Chose Sex Work Over One Night Stands

Why I Chose Sex Work Over One Night Stands

A think-piece on why I find sex work very bearable but one night stands very unbearable.

Wednesday 4 January 2023
8 Types of Escort Clients

8 Types of Escort Clients

A pessimist's take on some of the characterful clients you encounter as an escort.

Wednesday 21 December 2022
13 Signs She Had A Real Orgasm

13 Signs She Had A Real Orgasm

I’m talking about the top tier kind. And how loudly she moans isn’t one of them…

Friday 16 December 2022
Inside the World of Pickup Artists

Inside the World of Pickup Artists

This week I did a deep dive into the world of pickup artists. Read on to learn more about the rise of this bizarre community of wannabe Casanovas.

Thursday 1 December 2022
Feminism in a Post #MeToo World

Feminism in a Post #MeToo World

An op-ed about navigating feminism in a post #metoo world. While jumping on the “men are trash” bandwagon can be tempting, real power comes from understanding the plight of the so-called enemy and banding together to enact change.

Tuesday 29 November 2022
Exploring the power dynamics behind sexwork

Exploring the power dynamics behind sexwork

An op-ed that explores the internal and external forces behind sex work and power, and provides insight into how to overcome biases and self-limiting beliefs.

Tuesday 22 November 2022
The female gaze: what really turns women on

The female gaze: what really turns women on

The simple truth: women just love to be loved!

Friday 18 November 2022
How To Be A Good Female Customer At A Strip Club

How To Be A Good Female Customer At A Strip Club

If you're only there to look like a 'cool girl', and have no intention of spending your £, better not to go at all.

Wednesday 2 November 2022
That Time I was Diagnosed as a Sex Addict

That Time I was Diagnosed as a Sex Addict

An exploration into what happens when shame culture intersects with a well-intentioned spiritual support group.

Tuesday 1 November 2022
My Experience at Les Chandelles, the Infamous Paris Swingers Club

My Experience at Les Chandelles, the Infamous Paris Swingers Club

Looking back at my first ever sugar baby holiday- an escapade to Paris and a night at its most famous sex club, Les Chandelles.

Tuesday 25 October 2022
The Sex Worker’s Guide to Halloween Fits

The Sex Worker’s Guide to Halloween Fits

A sex worker's guide to dressing for halloween: the fits that make you stand out, the fits that look boujee, and the fits that make horny men even hornier.

Friday 21 October 2022
The Commodification of Sex Through Tech: An OpEd

The Commodification of Sex Through Tech: An OpEd

A seemingly innocent trip to a sex toy convention sparked an existential crisis within me. The convergence of sex culture, tech, and capitalism has stripped away the humanity of sex and it's time to start fighting back.

Thursday 20 October 2022