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Why is Intimacy coaching essential for the LGBTQ community?
We spoke to three LGBTQ-focused intimacy coaches to find out the benefits of going within to solve your most intimate issues
Sexier than a screen: let’s talk erotic audio
The rise of erotic audio is something to be celebrated. Here's why this form of porn is not only a healthy option, but a sexy one too.
Burlesque creates a space for the female gaze
The burlesque scene today has grown into a wonderful and thriving sub-culture where we can celebrate sexuality and femininity without fear of the male gaze.
A brief introduction to erotic writing
Porn, erotic art, sexy TV shows and kinky nudes are all the rage, but what about erotic writing? Here's a brief introduction to what could be considered the most intimate form of erotica.
Facesitting: why do men love it?
Everyone loves face sitting, especially the most unusual suspects- cis straight men (who have been socially conditioned to typically take a more dominant position during sex). So what's the appeal of face sitting? What makes it just as good (or better) than penetrative sex itself?
3 types of Shibari experiences in London
Interested in Shibari but don't know where to begin? We've got you covered. Here are 3 main different ways of exploring Shibari today in London.
The ultimate guide to nyc’s sex parties
The good, the great, and the greatest of the sex parties that nyc has to offer.
Sensual kink experiences: the top 10
Welcome to the wonderful world of kink. Sensuali looks beyond taboos and provides a space for us to understand our desires better. Whether you’re seeking or offering, it’s all about exploration for everyone. Here’s our top 10 crème de la kink experiences.
What your sexual fantasy reveals about you
So you’re into wearing a collar and leash but you don’t want to even begin to figure out why? Well guess what? It’s time to face the music. And it’s nowhere near as bad as you think. Let’s explore the connection between some of today’s most obscure fantasies and what having that fantasy might reveal about you.
Can a throuple truly thrive?
By now everyone has heard the phrase 'throuple'. But is the rage real? Are people just bored of monogamy, or is there more beauty behind the trend? Let's decode the dynamics of throuples and threesomes.
The future of sensualist experiences
This article delves into the trends and advancements shaping the future of sensualist experiences, including virtual reality, online platforms, and emerging technologies.
Instagram suspends major sex-positive accounts
Instagram censorship has gone too far. Sensuali stands with all those out there trying to spread the harmless message of sex-positivity.
Embracing alternative relationships and openness
Dive into the uncharted territory of alternative relationships, shattering taboos and embracing sexual openness for profound intimacy and exploration.
Hotwife unleashed, why cheat when you can heat?
Which phrase sounds more appealing: 'cheater' or 'hotwife'? Welcome to the 21st century, where wifeys can sleep with other men and everyone involved is cushty. Here's everything you need to know about hotwifing.
Tie and tease: sensual Bdsm
You might associate the phrase 'tie and tease' with all the pain and humiliation that BDSM can involve. But that couldn't be further from the reality of this intimate and sensual experience. Here's the lowdown.
London’s most progressive strip clubs
Do you avoid strip clubs because of their seedy reputation? Avoid no longer! Here are London's most progressive clubs that still maintain an element of elegance and class.
Vicarphilia: the pleasure of living through others
Vicarphilia unveiled: here’s everything you need to know about this type of paraphilia and its ever growing importance in today’s world.
The growth of paid sensualist experiences
Dating in modern times just ain't doing it for the majority of men. Is it time to wave goodbye to endless swiping and delve into the alluring world of paid pleasure? Let's find out.
Exploring petplay: discovering your Inner ‘Pet’ persona
I’ve dedicated this week to doing a deep dive into the wild world of petplay -- a 100% consensual form of role play between humans.
The Cost of Loving: Cashing in on our Desires
In an increasingly sex-positive society where hookup culture is the norm, is there a new safe space forming for us to profit from our own sexual desires?
5 Ways to profit from your sensuality
If you're a natural sensualist, there's countless things you can do to make serious dollar with your special energy. Here's just 5.
Menopause: Transcendence to Cronehood
Society has conditioned women to fear menopause. This blog is here to set the record straight.
The psyches of a submissive
There's more complexity to just 'being submissive' in BDSM. There's many different psyches that make us feel submissive in very different ways. Here are the 4 main types. Most subs can relate to at least one.
The World’s First Virtual Camgirl is Still Thriving
It's been almost 4 years since Projekt Melody became the first virtual Hentai cam girl, and she's still one of the most popular users on Chaturbate over plenty of real life models. But why?
Consensual non-consent: harmless kink or recipe for disaster?
This op-ed explores the power dynamics behind the consensual non-consent kink, delving into its expectations versus reality.
Why is Sexual Voyeurism So Popular?
Sexual voyeurism has always been big and as a fetish it continues to grow in popularity. But what is it about watching people that turns us on? And how can we explore it safely?
Dating In Modern Times: Why Men Have it Rough
This blog delves into the harsh realities of dating as a man in modern times, while presenting a silver lining that offers them a way to reclaim their power.
Sensual Domination: The Healing Kink The World Needs Right Now
It’s time for the collective consciousness to switch gears from pain-focused BDSM to sensual dominance. Mankind is in crisis and needs healing. Sensual dominance offers a solution.
Power Versus Connection: What Makes for the Ideal Man?
In this op-ed, I explore the ways in which patriarchal capitalist conditioning influences men's behavior and speculate on what makes for the ideal man.
Is Erotic Fashion Still…Erotic?
High fashion has normalised kinkwear & BDSM fashion. And the 'barely-there' y2k trends like the micro-mini skirt are back for good. In an increasingly sexually liberated society, is erotic fashion still erotic, or is it just the norm?
Exploring Differences in Hookup Culture Between Gen-Zs and Millennials
A deep dive into the rapidly changing views surrounding feminism, consent, and sexual empowerment.
Do Gen Z Care Less About Sex?
After revisiting the city where I went to university last week, I learnt some things about cultural shifts and how it has impacted Gen Z and their approach to sex.
Historical Erotic Icons: Honeysuckle Divine
Honeysuckle Divine: sex freak, multiple arrests for obscenity and the president as her client- a true erotic icon! Here 's the details.
A Buddhist Approach to Sex Work: Transactionality Versus Non-Attatchment
How Buddhism shifted my relationship with sex from one of transactionality to that of non-attachment.
Q&A with a Plastic Surgeon: Empowering Women Through Choice
I went on a date with a plastic surgeon, expecting him to be a total misogynist. Turns out, I was the shallow one.
The Sex Worker Hierarchy
The sex worker community is guilty for being judgemental towards forms of sex work different to their own. Especially as the industry becomes more and more class divided.
Navigating Consent when Money is on the Table
Defining and navigating consent in modern times is become increasingly difficult. Throw money into the mix and the waters get even murkier.
Kissing: The Forgotten Form of Intimacy
In today's society, kissing is underrated. Especially the telepathic kind...
Sex Work as an Art Form
In this op-ed, I delve into the argument that sex work is an art form and should be revered as such.
Why I Chose Sex Work Over One Night Stands
A think-piece on why I find sex work very bearable but one night stands very unbearable.
8 Types of Escort Clients
A pessimist's take on some of the characterful clients you encounter as an escort.
13 Signs She Had A Real Orgasm
I’m talking about the top tier kind. And how loudly she moans isn’t one of them…
Inside the World of Pickup Artists
This week I did a deep dive into the world of pickup artists. Read on to learn more about the rise of this bizarre community of wannabe Casanovas.
Feminism in a Post #MeToo World
An op-ed about navigating feminism in a post #metoo world. While jumping on the “men are trash” bandwagon can be tempting, real power comes from understanding the plight of the so-called enemy and banding together to enact change.
Exploring the power dynamics behind sexwork
An op-ed that explores the internal and external forces behind sex work and power, and provides insight into how to overcome biases and self-limiting beliefs.
The female gaze: what really turns women on
The simple truth: women just love to be loved!
How To Be A Good Female Customer At A Strip Club
If you're only there to look like a 'cool girl', and have no intention of spending your £, better not to go at all.
That Time I was Diagnosed as a Sex Addict
An exploration into what happens when shame culture intersects with a well-intentioned spiritual support group.
My Experience at Les Chandelles, the Infamous Paris Swingers Club
Looking back at my first ever sugar baby holiday- an escapade to Paris and a night at its most famous sex club, Les Chandelles.
The Sex Worker’s Guide to Halloween Fits
A sex worker's guide to dressing for halloween: the fits that make you stand out, the fits that look boujee, and the fits that make horny men even hornier.
The Commodification of Sex Through Tech: An OpEd
A seemingly innocent trip to a sex toy convention sparked an existential crisis within me. The convergence of sex culture, tech, and capitalism has stripped away the humanity of sex and it's time to start fighting back.