Providers for BDSM in Los Angeles

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acidrani

Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

Bold, direct, let’s cut to the chase

BDSM Submissive Coach Performer Artist Muse Model

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3 experiences

GoddessEros

In person & Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

I take you in a journey through the senses and the mind, using the art and world of Sensual Shibari.

3 services

Author BDSM Coach Educator Massage Therapist Shibari artist

mistressrozz

In person & Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

I am Mistress Rozz, and I tend the gateway of an amazing experience you are on the threshold of. If you're reading this you probably have submissive tenancies and fantasies. If you are a submissive; no matter your experience level, there are things that you need training in. There is no one-size-fits-all perfect sub. I will shape you thoughtfully, relentlessly and sadistically into what I prefer. When you come and serve me you turn yourself over to me, and throughout the course of our session I will test that. My interests include: Leather and Latex fetish, Bondage, Suspension, Predicament Bondage, Mummification, Corporal Punishment, Obedience Training, Objectification, Spitting, Human Ashtray, Sissification, Role Play, Humiliation, Chastity Training, Sensory Deprivation and Sensory Play, CBT, Ballbusting, Shoe, Stocking and Foot Worship, Trampling.

BDSM Dominatrix Erotic creator Fetishist Dom

4 1

1 experience

Vüdü Dähl

In person & Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

Where curiosity, kink, and healing hold hands.

1 service

Author BDSM Coach Educator Erotic creator Muse Streamer

ScorpioSins

Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

I've been a part of sub culture for 22 years. I have extensive knowledge of D/s dynamics and find the most pleasure in being a service bottom. I like to spend my free time in communication with my Dom and exploring new sexual avenues. I also love writing erotica and find that writing erotic fiction for people who are looking for specific details to be included is quite enjoyable for me. The people who I feel who benefit most from an interaction from me are Dom types who are kind in nature, come from a pleasure perspective and love to communicate regularly. I also find that submissives who are curious about the deep ends of the lifestyle would also benefit from connecting with me. Lastly, if you enjoy erotica, I am open to writing for you, or reading to you, or collaborating on a story together.

Author BDSM Submissive Coach Therapist

breeleche

In person & Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

Warm, relatable somatic intimacy coach here to creatively support your goals in a judgement-free space.

Coach Muse Sexologist BDSM Model Photographer Professional Cuddler

15 1

2 experiences

Unbound Collective

In person & Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

Contemporary Twists on Ancient healing arts

2 events

Artist BDSM Coach Designer Educator Erotic creator Kinkster Massage Therapist Model Muse Performer Shibari artist Tantric Practicioner Therapist

1 experience

kemoburns

In person & Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

Experience & education Kemo draws on their passion for rope and kink to create personalized experiences for the people they connect with. They have been studying rope for 8+ years and consider themself a perpetual student of rope, on top of being an educator. Kemo first took classes locally in the greater Los Angeles area, and later invested in 1-on-1 instruction from leaders in the craft. Today they continue their rope education by frequenting intensives and occasional private lessons, while remaining active in the local rope scene. Kemo can often be found attending rope and kink events, munches and jams. Rope artist & teacher An acclaimed performer, Kemo Burns has showcased their tying skills and participated in panels and interviews on stages across the country. Some notable events include Lightning in a Bottle, The Laugh Factory, Burning Man, DomCon LA & NOLA, multiple sexual health/BDSM summits and countless kinky play parties. Along with their annual workshops at LIB and the Burn, Kemo was a resident rope bondage instructor at Kink Collective OC in Santa Ana, CA throughout 2024. Today they can be found teaching pop-up workshops on topics such as negotiating a rope scene, arms-free harnesses, and rope for couples at local dungeons and collectives. Testimonials: “Loved the perfect mix of sadism & sensuality… I really appreciated how when I needed an adjustment, you took care of that right away. Being able to attend to the adjustments while also being able to still keep the scene going meant a lot to me… I loved how challenging this was and how communicative you were, both with verbal play & check-ins! Overall, super naturally flowing scene… at a great pace. I'm so excited for more." “You always give me unforgettable experiences in rope. Your skill, knowledge and unique creativity lead to the hottest and most satisfying scenes. Your care, attentiveness and willingness to adapt to the present moment help build beautiful spaces. Our ties are connective and personal... mixing pain and pleasure in the most delicious ways... leaving me wanting more.” “All the ties we did were lovely... it was easier for me to surrender than [the] few other ties that I've done before... I think that's overall due to the atmosphere you created with your style. It's very connected and makes me feel like I can let go easier and trust you as the rope artist. I especially appreciated the consistent checking-in during the tie. And I am eager to do more ties with ya!” "I haven’t been taking the best care of my body because of depression and overwhelm and it has manifested in gaining a lot of weight... my hormones have been all over the place so my usual libido has plummeted, which is just weird for me. So it feels strange and uncomfortable in my skin... You made me forget about all that when I was in your rope and I was able to remember what it feels like to be me." "This sesh made me reflect on how a lot of my times in rope have been still - which is so lovely, but… your movement meant a lot to my masochism… I loved how not only super verbal you were but how interactive and attentive you were… creating so many different positions."

1 service

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MistressEdenBerlin

In person & Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

Curated Power. Exquisite Control.

BDSM Dominatrix

GoddessLilianna

In person & Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

Upscale and beautiful *Professional* Foot Goddess, Fin-Domme, and fetish enthusiast for over 15 years.

BDSM Kinkster Dominatrix Fetishist

zeal

In person & Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

Let your desires lead. I’ll take it from there.

BDSM Kinkster Dom

maragenesis

In person & Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

Los Angeles Demonatrix ❖ Priestess of Pain ❖ Succubitch

BDSM Coach Dominatrix Erotic creator Hypnotist Dom

Where to find BDSM in Los Angeles

BDSM in Los Angeles covers a wide spectrum. For some it is about impact play, restraint or power exchange. For others it is more psychological, ritual based or sensual. It is not simply a kinky practice. It is a negotiation about how you want to relate, which roles you want to explore and which body and mind states you want to visit together.

The BDSM scene in LA includes professional dommes, private dungeons, studio spaces, parties and one to one sessions. A BDSM domme will usually specialise in holding a dominant role with skill and presence. That can include physical elements like spanking, flogging or restraint, as well as psychological dominance, ritual, protocol or more subtle forms of control. Good practitioners are clear about what they offer and what they do not do. They explain their style, boundaries and expectations before anyone meets.

Working with a professional can have many advantages. You are not guessing about skill level or safety. Sessions are framed with negotiation, rules and aftercare. This can make deep experiences feel held and contained. BDSM can help people explore limits, experience catharsis, access new forms of pleasure or learn about their own nervous system and responses. It can also bring a strong sense of relief to give up control in a structured way, or to claim authority in a role that feels authentic.

BDSM can bring up shame, fear, old memories or strong emotional reactions. Physical risk exists when people do not know what they are doing or ignore limits. Some providers use vague advertising or make unrealistic promises. This is why it is important to move slowly, ask questions and only step into dynamics that feel grounded. A few safety guidelines help a lot. Before any session, agree on limits, safe words or signals, health issues and topics that are off limits. Ask where the session will take place, how long it will last, which activities are possible and which are not.

A responsible BDSM domme will answer directly, suggest alternatives if something is unsafe and respect your no. During the session, you should feel able to speak up, slow down or stop. Aftercare matters too. This can be water, blankets, gentle touch, quiet time or a simple check in about how you feel.

Be clear about why you are interested and what you are not ready for. That does not mean you need a perfect script, but having a sense of your curiosities and hard limits will help. Take time to read profiles closely. A serious practitioner explains their role, style, activities they offer and how consent works. You always have the right to ask questions, say no and stop a session. If you feel rushed or confused, slow down.

Look for grounded, specific language. A professional BDSM domme describes experience, boundaries, safety practices and the general structure of a session. They do not rely on vague fantasy talk alone. Reach out with a short message and ask about limits, safety and logistics. Notice how they respond. Clear, steady answers are a good sign. If someone mocks your concerns, avoids questions or pressures you to commit, treat that as a red flag.

No. BDSM is a spectrum, not a pain contest. Some people enjoy impact or intense sensation, others are drawn to power dynamics, restraint, ritual, service, worship, control, or psychological play with very little or no pain involved. You can explore softness, slowness, teasing, anticipation and authority without ever using a whip. A good BDSM domme will ask what you are curious about, what you dislike and what your body responds to, then build a scene around that instead of pushing you toward pain you do not want.

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Do’s

Do communicate honestly before a session
Share your interests, limits, health issues and any past experiences that might matter.
Do learn basic safety concepts
Read up on things like safe words, nerve safety, marks and aftercare so you know what to ask.
Do start smaller than you think you can handle
It is easier to build intensity over time than to repair a session that went too far.
Do check in with yourself during and after
Notice how you feel physically and emotionally. Give yourself space to integrate.
Do respect the domme’s boundaries as much as your own BDSM is a mutual agreement, not a service where one person abandons their needs.

DON'T

Do not assume porn is a blueprint
Scenes online are not designed for safety or emotional impact. Real life needs more care.
Do not skip negotiation
Going in without a real conversation about limits and expectations is risky for everyone. An experienced BDSM provider will cover consent with you.
Do not hide injuries, mental health history or medications
This information helps a practitioner keep the session safe and appropriate.
Do not treat a domme like a fantasy object
They are a person with boundaries, training and emotional capacity, not a prop.
Do not ignore lingering distress after a scene
If something feels unresolved, reach out to the practitioner, a trusted friend or a professional for support. After-Care is part of the experience.