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PleasureFWRD

Chicago IL US

Somatic Intimacy and Relationship Coaching for couples and individuals.

BDSM Facilitator Host Professional Cuddler Sexologist

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About me

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My experiences are for Everyone, Couple, Female, Gender fluid, Intersex, Male, Non Binary, Trans
I offer experiences
In person & Online/Virtual
30s , Female , Bisexual
Hispanic/Latino
I speak English, Spanish

PleasureFWRD empowers couples and individuals to overcome challenges related to sexuality, intimacy and relationships in a safe, non- judgmental space. With the guidance of somatic sexologist and relationship coach Mayra, we help people reconnect with their emotional and erotic selves to achieve fulfilling relationships and maximize pleasure.

I am Mayra, a sex and relationship consultant, and I’m a native speaker of sexuality. Let me be your translator. For the past 11 years, I’ve immersed myself in the beauty and complexity of human sexuality, and here is what I’ve learned: our sexuality is a powerful gateway to self-discovery, growth, and fulfillment. When we welcome it, we open ourselves to a deeper understanding of ourselves and others.

My work is somatic ( body) centered - fostering personal transformation through authenticity, vulnerability, and exploration.

Whether you are working through relationship challenges, seeking a higher plane of fulfillment, confronting past trauma, or navigating non-traditional relationship dynamics, I specialize in creating a safe and non-judgmental space for individuals and couples. I believe in the power of understanding core desires, attachment styles, relational wounds, boundaries, and fantasies to enhance intimate connections.

As your coach, I will lead you on a journey of self-discovery and growth. Utilizing a trauma-informed lens, we will reveal unrecognized needs and heal the relational damage that so often prevents us from achieving true intimacy.

Together, we will banish taboos and create pathways for the genuine communication necessary to strengthen relationships and achieve lasting pleasure. We all have the potential to master the language of sexuality. Join me in the pursuit deeper connection and personal empowerment.

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to message me .

My tags

Bondage Domination FemDom Impact play Latex Leather Role Play Taboo Tie and Tease Boundaries Communication issues Conscious kink Conscious Sexuality Corporal Punishment Counselling Couples coaching Dominatrix Educational 1 on 1 Embodiment Emotional Connection Erotic Meditation Experience for couples Foot worship Friendly Dominant Group Retreats Hair Pulling Healing bodywork Intimacy coaching Kink events Kink workshops Naturist Online Courses Open relationship Pet play Pleasure education Polyamory Private Workshops Professional Cuddler Psychological Play Relationships Rope bondage Self exploration Sensory Play Sensual Domination Sex coaching Sex magick coaching Sex toy advice Sober play parties Somatic Sexology Somatics Tickling Trauma healing Understanding Desire Voyeurism Wax Play Wheel Of Consent Wrestling Breathwork Connective rope Consent Dating advice Deshamify sexuality Electro play Energy work Erectile dysfunction Gender Exploration Libido mismatch Low libido Pelvic Floor Pleasure Mapping Power Dynamics Queer sex coaching Sex and relationship Task giving

FAQs

Somatic Sexology is holistic approach that combines principles from somatic practices and sexology to address sexual health and well-being. It focuses on the connection between the body and mind, exploring how physical sensations and bodily experiences influence sexual function, satisfaction, and emotional intimacy.

PleasureFWRD is rooted in the Somatica®️ Method. A unique approach that combines talk based coaching with an experiential methodology to facilitate transformative change in individuals and couples. This approach allows individuals to explore their innermost thoughts, emotions, feelings and behaviors in a supportive and non-judgmental environment. Through this process, individuals can gain a better understanding of themselves, their core desires, and their motivations. PleasureFWRD encourages individuals to develop empathy, step out of their comfort zones, confront their fears, build boundaries, and embrace new ways of being.

Learn tools to address issues like painful sex, sexless marriage, low libido, erectile dysfunction, and mismatched desire Overcome sexual shame Embrace your authentic sexual identity and challenge societal norms around sex and pleasure. Discover and articulate your core desires (your turn ons) with fluency. Gain confidence and skills for navigating the dating scene. Receive guidance on alternative lifestyles and non-traditional relationships. Explore kink, fetishes, BDSM, and D/s dynamics. Understand and apply principles of consent, boundaries, and respect in relationships. Explore techniques that connect body and mind to enhance self-awareness, emotional intelligence and well-being. Get specialized support to heal from past traumas and reclaim your sexual self. Engage in sensual exploration exercises to deepen pleasure and body connection. Enjoy inclusive, affirming support for LGBTQ+ individuals exploring sexuality, gender, and relationships.

Sex doesn’t have to be on the table to turn the heat up. Somatic sexology is all about diving into your body's deepest desires- all without the need to get naked. Though somatic practices, breathwork, touch and movement, we will awaken the fire indside you, revealing what truly turns you on and where you might be holding back. This experience is a tease- building intimacy, confidence and unlocking pleasure, so when you’re ready to step into the bedroom, youll be fully in tune with your body, knowing exactly what you want and how to take charge of your pleasure.

Experiences I offer

Somatic Sex and Relationship coaching for couples and individuals. service

Somatic Sex and Relationship coaching for couples and individuals.

From $300 Online/virtual & In-person

PleasureFWRD exists for people who are high-achieving, self-aware, and emotionally intelligent — yet...

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