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HouseOfVF
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Please note all applications are to be made through my website. I am Mistress Vera V.F. - a strict, yet caring, dominatrix. Classic, yes, but with something of a contemporary twist. I adore protocol and discipline, which I bring a uniquely personal approach to. I will remain strict and poised looking down at you, but I will also put you at ease. You are in safe hands with me. I will dominate you with a smile on my face. Passionate about kink and BDSM, I truly adore exploring and facilitating fantasies - I strive to learn what makes you tick, and use it to bring you pleasure, pain and ultimate subspace. I offer real-time dungeon sessions, social dates, shopping trips and cashpoint meets in London. You can apply via my website. Occasionally, I might consider online sessions. Note you should be deposit ready at the time of your application. I have seen people of all types, from devoted submissives to those with specific fetishes. Whether you're an obedient and experienced sub or a complete beginner, if you are lucky together we will explore your deepest, darkest desires. I have a wide range of interests, but some of my favourites are: Protocol Corporal punishment Bondage CBT Key holding Slave training I am a BDSM chameleon, and love exploring many types of play. Feel free to still fill out my form if what you are looking for isn't mentioned above and we can discuss. I am not interested in the following kinks at this time. Requests for any of these will be ignored. -Hardsports -Wrestling -Needles -Electrics
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ServeQueenVee
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Santa Clara CA US
Mean Mommy. Toxic Girlfriend. Supreme Cult Leader.
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galavanting
In person
Sydney AU
I'm a queer woman with 20 years' experience in the sexuality field, working across adult film production and performance, sugaring, BDSM service provision, sexuality education, advocacy, and writing. I currently provide BDSM services and support others to cultivate practices of BDSM, hedonism, and somatics as the founder and director of Hedon House, with locations in Sydney and Melbourne. While my hard BDSM skills have been developed over the last 12 years through BDSM education, a traditional House apprenticeship, and thousands of hours of personal and professional play, my soft skills and my deep understanding of the use of body-based practices as tools for liberation, sublimation and self-exploration are what defines my practice. I am highly skilled at supporting others to help define exactly what they want to receive and how they'd like to receive it. To achieve this, I use a combination of verbal consultation, consent containers, lines of somatic inquiry, sensory experimentation, and a sharp read on your energetic and physical presentation in every moment (or communicating with you where that's not possible). I can play with or without protocol, power exchange, or roleplay. Sometimes BDSM play is psychodrama, and other times it's a body-based practice. Sometimes it's both. We work together to discover and cultivate the best possible conditions for your surrender, and I facilitate session content within that container. I am a one-way practitioner; this means that I'm the giver and you're the receiver. This being said, you'll get the most out of our time together when you bring your full self and clear intentions to our play. I provide services to people of all genders and sexualities, and have experience providing gender-affirming services to people on the spectrum of trans experience. I have also completed the Touching Base PDAT training and am able to adapt to different physical abilities, sensory needs and other access requirements. My ethics and politics our queer, and this will be in the room with us when we play, regardless of your gender identity. I currently practice on the lands of the Gadigal people in so-called Sydney and the lands of the Wurundjeri Woi-wurring people in so-called Melbourne. I session primarily from my lovingly-crafted, comfortable and well-equipped Hedon House locations, but am open to providing services from other locations for those with access restrictions that preclude the use of either space.
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FuckingOriginal
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Sensual Sadist and Domina. Experience the power of intimacy in my fully equipped cosy play room.
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Light_Switch
In person & Online
Tallahassee FL US
Im a BDSM educator and professional looking to share my skills and my knowledge with others. I have been a part of the BDSM scene and my local community for my entire adult life. Its important staying humble, you may think you know everything but there will always be more to learn.
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saintvalentine
In person
Denver CO US
Let me indulge you in your erotic fantasies. Devote to me and I will unveil your true purpose -my ultimate pleasure.
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Cleo08
In person & Online
Jakarta ID
A mixed Asian harlot, dominatrix who's based in Bali, Indonesia 🖤
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MissSkylaGold
In person & Online
As soon as I could speak, I could bend those around me to my will. I’m charismatic, charming and disarming - a dangerous combination, and one you will not forget. To me, Domination is an art, as well as my natural disposition. I’ve been practicing Domination for almost a decade, which has given me ample time to turn my innate way of being into a deadly weapon. A weapon I use to bring men to their knees. My words have authority, my touch has purpose and my gaze leaves you pliable for my needs. Building a connection with those I play with is integral, and each session I conduct differs. I curate and create sessions around the skills, experience and preferences of the submissive, this way I get the best out of you. For example, your time in my presence may be spent appreciating the scent of my dainty feet and ensuring that each and every toe is cleaned by your mouth. Or, your desires may lead you to spend hours consuming my waste. I will know what’s best for you, and how best you can please me, and in turn be proud of yourself. I relish in your weakness for me. I will create a space for you to safely explore the corners of your mind, a place where you can have ultimate freedom to be yourself, unapologetically with no judgement. Give yourself over, know yourself better. As well as being a Pro-Domme, I am a well-established fetish photographer, educator, creator of One Night Parties and pleasure professional. I’m a foodie, lover of high end lingerie and all-round indulgence. I enjoy social dates and shopping trips, I’m very good at both.
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What is watersports?
Sometimes self-care is asking to be urinated on.
Watersports in the context of sex refers to activities involving urine play. This can encompass various acts, such as urinating on a partner, being urinated on, or incorporating urine into sexual activities. It's considered a fetish within the broader spectrum of BDSM and fetish practices, often involving a power dynamic between participants.
What makes it hot?
The arousal associated with watersports often stems from the taboo nature of the act. Participants may find excitement in the transgressive aspect, breaking societal norms around bodily fluids. Additionally, the power dynamics involved can be very arousing- it's seen as a form of humiliation for the receiver and also marking of territory by the dominant. For those who are intrigued by pushing sexual boundaries and exploring unconventional forms of intimacy, watersports can provide a unique and heightened level of arousal.
While urine is generally sterile, it can contain bacteria. Hydration and good personal hygiene are essential to minimise potential risks.
Yes, watersports is a fetish that can be incorporated into BDSM scenes, particularly for those interested in power dynamics and alternative forms of intimacy.
Approach the conversation with openness and honesty, expressing your desires while being receptive to your partner's feelings. Open communication is key to exploring such activities consensually.
DO
Prioritise communication: Openly discuss desires, boundaries, and expectations with your partner before engaging in any watersports activities.
Practice hygiene: Maintain good personal hygiene during watersports to minimise health risks, watersports is often explored in the shower.
Establish clear boundaries: Clearly define what activities are acceptable and unacceptable for both partners, ensuring a consensual and respectful experience.
DON'T
Neglect hydration: Staying hydrated is crucial for diluting urine and reducing its potential irritant effects. Both partners should be well-hydrated before engaging in watersports.
Engage without consent: Watersports, like any BDSM activity, must be entirely consensual. Never pressure or coerce a partner into participating.
Forget aftercare: After engaging in watersports, engage in aftercare to ensure emotional well-being. Comfort and reassurance are essential for both partners.