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Roja
In person & Online
Berlin DE
“Life is maybe all about lighting a cigarette in the lethargic period in between two lovemakings” This is a short excerpt from a long poem by Iranian famous poetess and director Forough Farrokhzad. A woman who I deeply admire. I'm Roja: Your Trans-Femme Dominatrix Welcome to my world, where pleasure intertwines with trust and exploration knows no bounds. I am Roja, a trans-femme dominatrix dedicated to creating a nurturing and empowering space rooted in embodied intersectional queer feminism for beautiful souls like you. With experience as a care worker assisting individuals with disabilities, including those who use wheelchairs, I possess a deep understanding of care and attentiveness to my clients' unique needs. This background enriches my approach to BDSM, allowing me to create safe, respectful, and inclusive experiences for everyone, regardless of ability. I embody a unique blend of nurturing and intensity. My style is both motherly and poetic, offering a comforting presence that invites you to explore your deepest desires. I specialize in impact play, shibari, bondage, and D/s dynamics, navigating the spectrum from soft, sensual domination to intense degradation and sadistic pleasure. This versatility allows us to delve into a variety of experiences tailored to your fantasies. As we embark on this journey together, you’ll find that my care is as fierce as my sadism. I am here to guide you into subspace, where you can safely release the stresses of everyday life while embracing the thrill of surrender. Whether you're new to BDSM or a seasoned explorer, I invite you to discover the depths of your desires in a space where you can truly be yourself. Together, we will craft an experience built on mutual respect and understanding, enabling you to connect deeply with your fantasies. Let’s explore the exquisite balance of nurturing and intensity that awaits us. Reach out, and let’s begin this exciting adventure together.
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Lili
Online
Denver CO US
Hi, I am Lili! 💕 ✨️I am a Findom looking for Finsubs (any gender). ✨️ I am also accepting Foot Worship/photo subs and gift giving subs. I have wishlists! 🎁I do accept other kinks, but Findom must be the primary one. I have a $30 tribute, which can be paid via CashApp or YouPay (link in the link section). I can be both a softdomme and a bratty domme. 💖😈 I have been in the kink/BDSM community for over 11 years as both a sub and a domme. I really enjoy creating long-term relationships with subs (if the sub wants more than just a session). I think its super important to build trust so that I can really psychologically dominant my subs. Additionally, I do offer Aftercare post-session, even if it's just something like a Drain. Some of my favorite Findom things: Drains 💸 Reimbursement subs 🧾 Coffee/tea subs ☕ Adopt-a-bill 🏧 Debt Contract💲 My finsubs can also look forward to some of my other favorite dynamics/kinks, such as: MommyDomme/SoftDomme 💕 Goddess Worship 🙇♂️ Feet Worship 👣 Owner/Pet (Pet Play) 🐾 Brat/Loser 🖤 Beta/Alpha 🐺 GFE (Girlfriend Experience) 🎀 Additionally, I love sending my bestest bois photos or audioclips when they have been especially good for me. 😇
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MasterSamael
In person
Berlin DE
Elegant sadist with a velvet voice. Come surrender your mind, body, and secrets to a true Dominus. 🖤
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Dr_dom_travels
In person & Online
Santa Rosa CA US
Kinky Shibari Rigger willing to provide rope experiences in person or for events.
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Bea.letsPlay
In person & Online
Copenhagen DK
body-positive kinkster fiercely dedicated to breaking down shame & turning up the volume on your desires
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mistresslola
In person & Online
Paris FR
Having a cute appearance doesn’t bother me from being mean, freaky and sadistic.
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Chatouille
In person
Asheville NC US
Transformative FemDom disciplinarian. Headmistress & curator of Lair Derriere, a private FemDom society.
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What is a taboo?
Rules were made to be broken.
When Taboo is listed on a Sensuali profile, it means that the Sensualist is offering experiences or happy to be affiliated with topics or kinks that could be considered controversial or 'taboo'. This might be things like period play, BDSM, age play, exhibitionism, you get the picture.
What make it hot?
Shock factor, baby! Sometimes purely the concept of something being considered 'wrong' or 'forbidden' is exciting to us. Additionally, these kinks can appeal to those who see past the idea of them being taboo. For example, period play can be exciting for those who disregard societal conditioning to find it 'gross'- to some, period play is simply a very intimate and trusting form of intimacy. Exploring topics considered 'taboo' is crucial to help reduce shame and stigma in society.
No, consent and comfort are paramount. If you're uncomfortable with a specific activity, it's important to communicate this to your partner, and understand together why it makes you uncomfortable.
Choose a comfortable and private setting to have an open and honest conversation. Use "I" statements to express your desires and be receptive to your partner's feelings and boundaries.
Yes, for some couples, consensual exploration of taboo elements can lead to increased intimacy due to sharing something that you might not share with everybody.
DO
Prioritise communication: Openly discuss desires, boundaries, and expectations with your partner before exploring taboo elements. Establishing clear communication ensures that both parties are on the same page.
Establish safe words and signals: Especially when exploring intense or potentially triggering activities, having safe words and non-verbal signals is crucial. This allows either partner to express discomfort or the need to pause without breaking the mood.
Educate yourself: Before delving into taboo activities, educate yourself on the associated risks, safe practices, and consent dynamics. Understanding the nuances helps ensure a consensual and safe experience.
DON'T
Judge: When someone opens up about a fantasy of theirs that is considered taboo, don't cast judgement. Remain open minded, taboo fantasies may not be discussed openly, but many people have them.
Disregard emotional well-being: Some taboo activities can be emotionally intense. Be mindful of each other's emotional well-being and be ready to provide support or reassurance as needed.
Rush into extreme activities: Start with less intense taboo activities before exploring more extreme elements. Gradual exploration allows both partners to gauge their comfort levels and build trust.