Meet Shaft Uddin, a self-proclaimed intimacy alchemist and international retreat leader whose work sits at the intersection of sacred sexuality, performance art, and deep emotional healing.

Shaft helps people rewire their relationship to pleasure, guiding couples and individuals into a more connected, spiritually grounded way of loving. From yoni de-armouring and tantric lovemaking to semen retention and sacred rituals, his offerings are as unconventional as they are transformative.

Having left behind a life of numbing and shallow connection, he now travels the world sharing the art of devotion, depth and divine intimacy.

How would you describe yourself in 3 words?

Sexy, fun, creative

Tell us more about yourself and what you do…

I’m Shaft Uddin — intimacy alchemist, international retreat leader, and your guide into the deeper realms of love, pleasure, and sacred sexuality.

I help couples reawaken passion, teach women how to feel safe enough to fully surrender, and train men to become divine, present lovers who actually know how to touch a woman’s soul (and cervix).

I’ve devoted my life to the art of conscious lovemaking not performative porn mimicry, but real, body-based tantra that melts trauma, opens hearts, and turns sex into ceremony.

I retired at 35 through the magic of sex transmutation and sacred union. Now I teach others how to biohack their love lives, deepen intimacy, and fall in love… for real.

My life is part sacred theatre, part divine romance, and 100% devoted to helping people remember who they are through how they love.

What services do you provide on Sensuali?

I offer bespoke, transformative experiences that blend ancient tantric practices with modern intimacy coaching.

My 1:1 private immersions and mentorships are designed to guide you (or you and your partner) into sacred connection, full-bodied pleasure, and heart-expanding love.

Here’s what you can explore with me:

🕊️ Yoni De-armouring & Mapping – Release tension, awaken sensitivity, and reconnect with your body’s natural wisdom. A 4 stage Package.

🔥 Tantric Lovemaking Guidance – Learn the art of sacred sex, energy transmutation, and extended states of bliss.

🧘 Semen Retention & Sacred Masculinity – For men ready to master their energy and step into presence-led power.

💫 Couples Immersions & Rituals – Rebuild erotic polarity, deepen trust, and bring the spark (and soul) back to your relationship.

💌 Private Mentorships (Online & In-Person) – High-touch guidance for those ready to transform their love life from the inside out.

This isn’t massage or fantasy play.
This is soul work, love as a spiritual path, and a devotion to awakening the divine in every touch.

Only for the curious, the courageous, and the lovers who know they’re here for something deeper.

What turns you on?

Being a lover of life

Being on stage giving a double yoni massage with a live orchestra as a performance art piece and opening a temple space

spending 3 days with a client opening up their hearts and yonis in sacred rituals

What was your journey into this world?

I got sober in 2014 — not just from alcohol, but from numbing, from hiding, from shallow love that never touched my soul.

I was craving more… but I didn’t know what more was.

Until I discovered Tantra. And it cracked me open.

I found practices that didn’t just excite the body — they awakened the spirit. They healed shame. They brought me home to myself.

I devoted the next decade to learning the sacred arts of pleasure, presence, and love. I became a student of the feminine — not just her body, but her mystery. Her chaos. Her genius. Her surrender.

And what I discovered was this:

Making love can be a ceremony.
Touch can be a prayer.
And in the right hands, your entire nervous system can remember what safety feels like.

Since then, I’ve become the world’s #1 Yoni Whisperer (so I’ve been told).
I’ve guided thousands into deeper love, deeper orgasms, and deeper truth.

Now? I travel the world teaching Sacred Sexuality, Yoni Mapping, Semen Retention, and Tantric Devotion — one breath, one session, one lover at a time.

This is my art.
This is my offering.
This is my love.

What do the first 60 minutes of your day look like?

I wake up and speak my mantras out loud like a spell:
“I love my life. I love my body. I love myself. And I love making £10k a day.”

Then I devote 8 sacred minutes to mindful self-pleasure — my secret to eternal youth, radiant skin, and magnetic energy.

After that? A coffee-sharing meditation ritual with my beloveds.
Presence. Connection. Caffeine. The holy trinity.

Then it’s off to the gym to worship the temple of the body.

Start the day with pleasure, power, and purpose — always.

Why do you do what you do?

Because I couldn’t not do it.

This work is my devotion, my dharma, my art form.

It’s the way love moves through me. If I don’t share it — it builds in my body like unspoken poetry.

I don’t sleep unless I’ve touched a soul, helped someone feel again, or opened a heart that’s been closed for too long.

This isn’t a job.

It’s creative life force, pure and untamed, moving through me — demanding to be shared.

What is an unexpected pleasure you discovered in your work?

The biggest plot twist?

That pleasure is the work.

That deep transformation can happen in laughter, in dance, in a well-timed moan, or during a sunset yoni massage.

I just had a £50k client pay me to come on holiday, to relax, to play — because that’s where the magic lives.

It still blows my mind that I get to live this way.

Helping people come home to themselves, while sipping coconuts and making love to the moment.

What should more people know about your work?

I’m a living, breathing ayahuasca journey — without the purge.

Shamanic, sexy, sober.

I guide people through altered states of love, healing, and embodied ecstasy… using nothing but breath, touch, and truth.

Think of me as your pleasure oracle in human form.

What’s your superpower?

Orchestrating cosmic group orgasms while screaming:

“I love my life, I love my body, I love myself!”

Some play stadiums — I play nervous systems in stadiums.

We love vices. What’s yours?

Scrolling. Deep, trance-like scrolling.

(But it’s research. For memes. And humanity.)

Closing thoughts? 

The world needs better lovers.

I’m here to teach the art of devotion, depth, and divine f*cking.

Come find yourself in the mirror of sacred touch.

Explore all retreat offerings on Sensuali.

Iso

Author

Iso is a writer and filmmaker based in East London. She is passionate about all things erotic and leads a sexy, shame-free life in hope that she can inspire others to do the same. Originally from a Northern seaside town, she is naturally drawn to the best things in life: candyfloss, trashy karaoke bars and heart-shaped sunglasses.

Shaft Uddin

Author

Shaft Uddin is a self-proclaimed intimacy alchemist and international retreat leader whose work sits at the intersection of sacred sexuality, performance art, and deep emotional healing. Shaft helps people rewire their relationship to pleasure, guiding couples and individuals into a more connected, spiritually grounded way of loving. From yoni de-armouring and tantric lovemaking to semen retention and sacred rituals, his offerings are as unconventional as they are transformative. Having left behind a life of numbing and shallow connection, he now travels the world sharing the art of devotion, depth and divine intimacy.