Women’s pleasure & empowerment coach: meet Sheila Shupe
Meet your new mentor and best friend, Sheila Shupe. As a women’s pleasure coach, she guides women into embodied pleasure and self-love, dancing along the way. You can book her sessions and courses on Sensuali.
Ready to awaken your pleasure, your confidence, your joy, and dance through the process? Meet Sheila Shupe.
A certified Women’s Pleasure Coach, she guides clients to move, feel, and expand through embodied practices that celebrate desire and sisterhood. Offering in-person and virtual services, she is open to working with clients across the world.
Warm, witty, and wild, Sheila’s work is about more than pleasure, it’s about learning to serve yourself.
How would you describe yourself in 3 words?
Fun, Bawdy, Quick
Tell us more about you & what you do as a women’s pleasure coach…
Hey! I’m Sheila Shupe.
I am a pleasure coach, and I work with women one on one or in groups to deepen their pleasure in life in order to step into their true power.
This is an embodied modality, and we do a LOT of dance including dance to turn on radiance, dance to move through shadow emotions, and dance to connect with your erotic energy. Then we process, observe, and work in sisterhood to expand.
What services do you provide on Sensuali?
I provide remote one on one coaching sessions and online courses.
👉 Book a 45 minute pleasure and desire session with Sheila here.
What turns you on?
MMMM… hot springs, Amazing food, laughing with women, dance, books, trees, adventure and travel.
What was your journey to being a women’s pleasure coach?
I started meditating in 2021 and got super into some intense meditation/manifestation work in 2022-2024.
Then I found The School of Womanly Arts in 2024 and I just knew in my whole body that this work around sexuality and bringing women into unabashed connection with their sexual selves was my destiny.
What do the first 60 minutes of your day look like?
Take a Shower, make a cup of my favorite coffee, run my kids to school and take a walk in nature.
Why do you do what you do as a women’s pleasure coach?
I have always been deeply connected to my own sexuality. My Mom was a sex education teacher, and I appreciated her openness and honesty about sex, but I felt shame around how to express my sexual nature when I became a Mom, and this work has been a process of remembering/ reconnecting with my sexual self.
What is an unexpected pleasure you discovered in your work?
Dancing!!
I love dancing, but have struggled to ‘fit in’ but now I dance multiple times a day! No formal classes or gyms, just me and my bootie shakin’!
What should more people know about your work as a women’s pleasure coach?
These practices seem simple- dancing, talking, processing, but they have CATAPULTED me into my next level of juice and power.
AND, this power expands into my whole life- I am a better mother because of this work, better at being myself, a better friend, less stressed. . . the biggest thing I want women to know is that this work taps into your sexuality, but that power translates to ANYTHING you desire.
So this isn’t just about having better sex (though that happens too), it’s about reclaiming your self- and this ripples all through your life.
What’s your superpower?
Two things- I am a super connector, and this is because of my core power- I SEE the light in people. When you are with me you feel held, loved, and accepted in exactly who you are- so when I get a group together and everyone feels free to shine because of my love, then fireworks happen!
We love vices. What’s yours?
Chocolate cake. Take me anytime!
Who are your sensual inspirations?
Marguerite Duras, Anais Nin, Maya Angelou, the courtesans in the School of Womanly Arts.
Closing thoughts?
Because of this work I move through the world in a new way. I am electric, amazing.
In sisterhood anything is possible.
Ready to jump in? Check out Sheila’s six week online desire course here.
Toe dipping? Start with a 15 minute guided session with Sheila here.
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