All blog posts in Culture
Dive into the complexities of sex, society, and politics through poignant op-eds and light-hearted listicles.
Exploring the power dynamics behind sexwork
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 22 November 2022
An op-ed that explores the internal and external forces behind sex work and power, and provides insight into how to overcome biases and self-limiting beliefs.
The female gaze: what really turns women on
Posted by Iso
Friday 18 November 2022
The simple truth: women just love to be loved!
How To Be A Good Female Customer At A Strip Club
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 2 November 2022
If you're only there to look like a 'cool girl', and have no intention of spending your £, better not to go at all.
That Time I was Diagnosed as a Sex Addict
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 1 November 2022
An exploration into what happens when shame culture intersects with a well-intentioned spiritual support group.
My Experience at Les Chandelles, the Infamous Paris Swingers Club
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 25 October 2022
Looking back at my first ever sugar baby holiday- an escapade to Paris and a night at its most famous sex club, Les Chandelles.
The Sex Worker’s Guide to Halloween Fits
Posted by Iso
Friday 21 October 2022
A sex worker's guide to dressing for halloween: the fits that make you stand out, the fits that look boujee, and the fits that make horny men even hornier.
The Commodification of Sex Through Tech: An OpEd
Posted by Jules
Thursday 20 October 2022
A seemingly innocent trip to a sex toy convention sparked an existential crisis within me. The convergence of sex culture, tech, and capitalism has stripped away the humanity of sex and it's time to start fighting back.
Rewriting the “Damaged Goods” Sex Worker Narrative
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 18 October 2022
Out with the "damaged goods" label society is so eager to throw at sex workers, in with the "layered gods and goddesses" one.
Five Yoga Poses to Boost Your Sexual Prowess
Posted by Jules
Thursday 22 September 2022
Take your sex game to the next level with these five beginner-friendly yoga poses.
Adventures in Sugarland: What Happens in Vegas
Posted by Jules
Thursday 15 September 2022
A weekend in Vegas set the stage for me to play a whole cast of characters: the “bitchy” hipster who will not stand for political incorrectness; the big sister who feels compelled to take care of the other women on the trip; and the shaman who tries desperately to enhance the consciousness of the group through psychedelics and tarot.
Why Coerced Sex Damaged Me More Than Violent Rape
Posted by Iso
Thursday 8 September 2022
TW: Rape. I found instances of coerced sex more damaging than my experiences with rape and attempted rape. Here’s why.
Sex Culture at Burning Man
Posted by Jules
Wednesday 7 September 2022
This week I sat down with a friend to talk about his recent experience at Burning Man. As a psychedelic psychiatrist, he had a unique perspective to offer about the event and the sex culture surrounding it.
A Beginner’s Guide to Kundalini
Posted by Jules
Wednesday 31 August 2022
Kundalini is an ancient practice designed to unblock chakras and elevate consciousness. Read on to learn how practicing Kundalini can enhance your creativity, boost your sexual prowess, and heal ailments -- both physical and mental.
The Narcissist & Empath: A Moth to a Flame
Posted by Jules
Friday 26 August 2022
I’ve recently come to terms with an uncomfortable truth. Many of the men I’ve become entangled with over the years suffer from narcissistic personality disorder. In sharing my story, I hope to educate readers on the intoxicating narcissist-empath dynamic, as well as to inspire hope and confidence in fellow empaths who find themselves trapped in a relationship with a narcissist.
Society’s Scorn of Mothers and Older Women
Posted by Iso
Thursday 25 August 2022
Let's talk about society's disregard for older women, how misogyny impacts a family dynamic, and how not only men, but all of us, grow up with sexism ingrained into us.
Sex and the (Working Class) City
Posted by Iso
Thursday 11 August 2022
After watching working class feminist solo show 'Dear Little Loz' at Edinburgh Fringe, I remembered how starkly different sexual attitudes in working class places are in comparison to more privileged areas of the UK.
Sex and Makeup: Do’s and Don’t
Posted by Jules
Saturday 6 August 2022
Three women weigh in on the do’s and don’ts of navigating sex with makeup.
The gender double standards in sex
Posted by Iso
Friday 5 August 2022
Some light-hearted gender role reversals of common scenarios that occur during sex.
Why is Sex Often Mediocre?
Posted by Iso
Friday 22 July 2022
There's good sex, bad sex, then there's plain old mediocre sex. Here's how to combat it.
6 Sugar Babies You’ll Find In London
Posted by Iso
Friday 1 July 2022
Which London sugar baby are you? Cool Baby? Toe-Dipper Baby? Baby Girl Baby? The list is here.
4 Reasons Women Cheat
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 21 June 2022
After doing a post on why men cheat, it only seemed fair to do a follow-up blog about why women cheat.
The Sunny Side of Sugar Dating
Posted by Iso
Monday 13 June 2022
Sugar dating gets its fair share of hate in the sex work community, but it's got its good points- be it the hedonistic thrill of meeting rich strangers in fancy bars or the genuine, emotionally charged relationships that can blossom.
4 Reasons Men Cheat
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 7 June 2022
A look into the psychology of why men really cheat.
Me and My 6 Girlfriends Discuss Good and Bad Sex
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 1 June 2022
7 girls, in a villa, forced to get drunk and talk about sex whilst I record the whole thing. What could go wrong?
Hugh Hefner: Oppressor or Liberator?
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 31 May 2022
While Hugh Hefner's name has become synonymous with misogyny, he started the Playboy empire as a progressive thought leader and was a champion for the oppressed. Read on for a nuanced look into the life of this complicated visionary.
Romanticising Our Own Subjugation
Posted by Iso
Friday 27 May 2022
Ever felt bad for calling yourself a feminist but still finding yourself prancing around your bedroom to Lana Del Rey's 'Lolita' and begging to be choked in bed? Here's my think-piece on why we as women often romanticise our own subjugation.
Why a 50 Something Dates 20 Somethings
Posted by Jules
Thursday 26 May 2022
Continuing my investigation into the age old trope of middle aged men dating women in their twenties. This time I interviewed a high achieving dom daddy who is in a sexless marriage and who is constantly telling me how the white picket fence life isn't all it's cracked up to be. The grass is always greener...
Why a 40 Something Dates 20 Somethings
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 24 May 2022
Investigating the age old trope of middle aged men dating women in their twenties. Meet Jacob, a 42 year old who seems to have accepted mid-life crisis as a way of life. From the vintage sports car to the women half his age, Jacob shows no signs of slowing down his attempts to feel young again.
Dating in Modern Times: A Bunch of Socially Awkward Commitment-Phobes
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 17 May 2022
Five ways dating has changed since the rise of dating apps and what it means for younger generations.
How Thailand Got It’s Sexy Reputation
Posted by Jules
Thursday 12 May 2022
Ever wonder how Thailand became synonymous with sex tourism? This week, I took a deep dive into the historical, socio-economic and cultural factors that contribute to this narrative.
That Time I Almost Joined a Sugar Daddy Sex Ring
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 10 May 2022
A sugar daddy meetup turns into a Jeffrey Epsteinesque orgy.
A feminist approach to porn
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 3 May 2022
Porn gets a reputation for being degrading towards women and for good reason. Luckily, there’s filmmakers out there who are working hard to change that. This blog takes a look into the careers of three female pioneers in the adult entertainment industry whose focus on the female perspective has ushered in a much needed revamp of this male-dominated industry.
The Whoresona: Let’s Talk About Class Drag
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 26 April 2022
Doing sex work is way more acceptable when you're a rich girl who doesn't need the money. Hence why I became guilty of doing class drag.
Sex Worker Social Media: The Accounts to Follow
Posted by Iso
Friday 22 April 2022
At the forefront of internet community are the sex positive influencer accounts. Dig deeper and you'll find the more accounts that voice the unfiltered lives.
How Sex Work Made Me a Better Lover
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 19 April 2022
Sex work often gets a bad rap for what it does to a woman's psyche and her relationship to sex. But there are some ways in which sex work unequivocally make you a better lover, namely communication, health & safety, and practice.
Pretty Woman: A love story for the ages
Posted by Jules
Thursday 14 April 2022
Unpacking the film that launched Julia Roberts' career and uncovering the real love story: sisterhood.
Why Every Sex Worker Should Watch Zola
Posted by Iso
Monday 11 April 2022
Zola is one of the newest sex work stories out there. It's based on a true Twitter thread, it's shockingly hilarious and every sex worker needs to see it.
Taking Breaks From Sugar Dates
Posted by Iso
Thursday 7 April 2022
My best friend recently decided to take a break from sugar dating. She gave me the four main reasons why she stopped.
4 Things I Learned from Watching Sex, Love, & Goop
Posted by Jules
Thursday 7 April 2022
Looking for a lighthearted yet educational series to binge with your latest conquest? Check out Netflix's Sex, Love, & Goop and while you're at it, read about the 4 things I learned from watching it in the post below.
Psychology of Sugar: The Baby Has All the Power
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 5 April 2022
In the words of famed psychologist Alfred Adler: “If we were to ask ourselves who is the strongest person in our culture, the logical answer would be, the baby. The baby rules and cannot be dominated.” So what exactly does that mean and how does it relate to sugar babying?
Exploring Your Dominant Side
Posted by Jules
Thursday 24 March 2022
3 ways to explore your dominant side without having to sling a whip in stilettos .
The 4 types of guys you’ll encounter as a sex worker
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 22 March 2022
All men can be categorized into four types: the ones who make you cum but don't pay, the ones who make you cum and do pay, the ones who don't make you cum and pay, and the ones who don't make you cum and don't pay.
Dating While Sugaring: Andy
Posted by Jules
Thursday 17 March 2022
I sat down with a friend who held nothing back about the ups and downs of sugaring while dating.
3 things I learned at amateur burlesque night
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 8 March 2022
This week I tagged along to Amateur Burlesque Night at Brooklyn's iconic House of Yes with a friend. I went in with no expectations and left feeling inspired. Read below for my three biggest takeaways.
A Night at the Modern Day Moulin Rouge
Posted by Iso
Saturday 5 March 2022
Me and my bestie ventured to Paris. Here’s our experience of the modern day Moulin Rouge.
Inside the mind of a punter
Posted by Jules
Thursday 3 March 2022
What really goes through the mind of a guy when he’s selecting an escort? I interviewed one to find out.
The Feminist Sex Worker: Coming to Terms with My Internalized Misogyny
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 1 March 2022
Three disempowering thoughts I’ve had as a sex worker and how I overcame them.
JenniCam: The Story of the World’s First Camgirl
Posted by Jules
Thursday 17 February 2022
The origin story of camming culture starring a girl next store turned cultural icon.
Shibari: The Japanese Bondage Technique You’ve Been Missing in Your Life
Posted by Jules
Thursday 10 February 2022
A beginner's guide to shibari, featuring a testimonial by yours truly, a brief rundown of its dynamic history, and some practical advice from sexperts.
A Sex Worker’s Guide to London’s Underground Bars
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 8 February 2022
Trashy disco dives, smooth jazz bars and ancient wine cellars; these are London's best underground bars for inconspicuous dates.
The astrologer’s guide to sex work
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 1 February 2022
A who's who of sex work: astrology style.