BDSM, Domination

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ScorpioSins

Online

Los Angeles CA US

I've been a part of sub culture for 22 years. I have extensive knowledge of D/s dynamics and find the most pleasure in being a service bottom. I like to spend my free time in communication with my Dom and exploring new sexual avenues. I also love writing erotica and find that writing erotic fiction for people who are looking for specific details to be included is quite enjoyable for me. The people who I feel who benefit most from an interaction from me are Dom types who are kind in nature, come from a pleasure perspective and love to communicate regularly. I also find that submissives who are curious about the deep ends of the lifestyle would also benefit from connecting with me. Lastly, if you enjoy erotica, I am open to writing for you, or reading to you, or collaborating on a story together.

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Sephira Dancer Berlín
8 2
5 experiences

Sephira

In person

Berlín DE

Awake your sexual energy exciting all your senses

4 services, 1 event

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breeleche Coach Los Angeles
1

breeleche

In person & Online

Los Angeles CA US

Warm, relatable somatic intimacy coach here to creatively support your goals in a judgement-free space.

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Unbound Collective Artist Los Angeles
15 1
1 experience

Unbound Collective

In person & Online

Los Angeles CA US

Contemporary Twists on Ancient healing arts

1 event

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A-BrandiKink Author El Paso
2 6
1 experience

A-BrandiKink

In person & Online

El Paso TX US

Neurotic, perverted, and confident Slut dismantling your internalized shame.

1 service

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Roxu Artist Berlin
6
3 experiences

Roxu

In person & Online

Berlin DE

From gentle to intense: tailored rope sessions that center you.

3 services

Artist BDSM Educator Kinkster Performer Shibari artist Rigger

goddessmadameasha

In person & Online

Linden GY

Dominatrix BDSM Fetishist Shibari artist Kinkster Dom Streamer Performer Coach Host Hypnotist Healer Therapist Professional Cuddler Tantric Practicioner Speaker Massage Therapist

AlexanderShu

In person

Riga LV

Photographer BDSM Kinkster

LouCanaille

In person & Online

Berlin DE

Professional dancer and pole dancer, amateur masseuse and experienced bdsm and fetish enjoyer, I offer an open mind and a shame free environment for you to explore and relish in your sensuality. One of my absolute favourite things is witnessing people take pleasure, no matter what the source of that pleasure is; so let us figure out together what deeply turns you on.

Dancer Massage Therapist BDSM Kinkster Erotic media

Relectrix BDSM Philadelphia
7 5

Relectrix

In person & Online

Philadelphia PA US

A sensual Domme with a mean streak

BDSM Erotic media Dom Fetishist Kinkster

Queen_Bea BDSM New York
3 1 8

Queen_Bea

Online

New York NY US

Offering online domination to pets of all genders, come and be good for me.

BDSM Erotic media

Mistress Lesly BDSM Lisbon
1 1 3

Mistress Lesly

In person & Online

Lisbon PT

Mistress Lesly, your truly blonde hypnotysing young lady. Available for BDSM sessions, CAM, finance dominance, etc.

BDSM Dancer Dominatrix

What is a BDSM practitioner?

What is a BDSM practitioner?

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A BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) practitioner is somebody who offers erotic services that involve consensual power exchange, role-playing, often including elements of restraint, pain, or sensory stimulation. It is a consensual exploration of power dynamics, fantasies, and intense sensations that enhance the sexual or psychological experience for those involved. As well sexual pleasure, it can also be considered a form of therapy and an art form. 

What makes it hot?

Exploring BDSM with a professional can be interesting and exciting due to the expertise, skill, and creativity they bring to the experience. Professionals in the BDSM field understand the importance of consent, safety, and communication. They can guide individuals through a journey of self-discovery, allowing them to explore their desires, boundaries, and fantasies in a controlled and consensual environment. 

No, BDSM is a diverse spectrum that includes a wide range of activities, from sensual play and role-playing to more intense experiences. It encompasses various elements beyond pain and dominance.

Yes, many professionals welcome individuals with varying levels of experience. They can provide guidance, education, and create a tailored experience that suits the individual's comfort and interests.

Research the practitioner's reputation, read reviews, and ask for recommendations within the BDSM community. A professional should prioritise safety, communication, and consent, providing a safe and enjoyable experience.

DO

Communicate openly: Clearly express your desires, limits, and expectations before the session. Effective communication is crucial for a consensual and enjoyable BDSM experience.

Establish safe words: Agree on safe words that allow you to communicate discomfort or the need to pause or stop during a session.

Prioritise aftercare: Aftercare is essential in BDSM. Ensure that there is a plan for emotional and physical support after the session, including reassurance and comfort.

 

DON'T

Assume anything: Avoid making assumptions about the professional's preferences or boundaries. Clearly discuss and agree upon activities and limits beforehand.

Skip negotiation: Before the session, engage in negotiation to discuss limits, preferences, and any potential triggers. This helps ensure a consensual and satisfying experience.

Forget consent: Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ensure that both parties actively communicate and respect each other's boundaries throughout the session.

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When refraining is entertaining.

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Your feet are my religion.

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Want to see my second skin?

Leather

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Leather

Dressed in leather whatever the weather.

Orgasm control

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Every control freak's dream kink.

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Torture and tickle time, all in one.