It's so easy to fall into routines as a couple, but desire loves novelty.
I love the idea of creating a little bucket list together. It doesn't have to be sexual, you may allow yourself to think out of the box and be creative. Maybe there's a workshop you've always wanted to try, a fantasy you've never shared, a place you've dreamed of visiting, or simply a new way of touching and connecting.
It can be learning to massage each other, going to a sensual event, spending a day together offline or anything that makes you feel more alive and connected together.
For me, the important thing is to communicate clearly, listen to the wishes and needs of your partner and consciously finding ways to nurture your connection.
What do we still want to experience together?
Asked anonymously by a reader · 27 July 2026
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