LouCanaille

In person & Online

Berlin DE

Professional dancer and pole dancer, amateur masseuse and experienced bdsm and fetish enjoyer, I offer an open mind and a shame free environment for you to explore and relish in your sensuality. One of my absolute favourite things is witnessing people take pleasure, no matter what the source of that pleasure is; so let us figure out together what deeply turns you on.

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ScorpioSins

Online

Los Angeles CA US

I've been a part of sub culture for 22 years. I have extensive knowledge of D/s dynamics and find the most pleasure in being a service bottom. I like to spend my free time in communication with my Dom and exploring new sexual avenues. I also love writing erotica and find that writing erotic fiction for people who are looking for specific details to be included is quite enjoyable for me. The people who I feel who benefit most from an interaction from me are Dom types who are kind in nature, come from a pleasure perspective and love to communicate regularly. I also find that submissives who are curious about the deep ends of the lifestyle would also benefit from connecting with me. Lastly, if you enjoy erotica, I am open to writing for you, or reading to you, or collaborating on a story together.

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JayHeart

In person & Online

Dallas TX US

Sacred intimacy, body-based healing, and retreat facilitation for individuals & couples in Dallas

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AnitaElvgren

Online

Rotterdam NL

Hello, I'm Anita. Working on my profile.

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MsZoe

Online

Portland OR US

Retired Pornstar living the 24/7 BDSM lifestyle as a true Switchy witch. Im a Mommy Domme and sensual Goddess. Spoiled slut to my one & only Daddy + Mistress to my good boys and girls.

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Chatouille

In person

Asheville NC US

Transformative FemDom disciplinarian. Headmistress & curator of Lair Derriere, a private FemDom society.

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VelvetTales

In person & Online

Rome IT

"I’m a mischievous spark of sensuality, teasing the edges of your imagination with every glance and laugh, where desire"

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Dr_dom_travels

In person & Online

Santa Rosa CA US

Kinky Shibari Rigger willing to provide rope experiences in person or for events.

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desireesays

In person & Online

New York NY US

In my presence, they understand their place: beneath me, in awe of my power, eager to submit.

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KrystaRosina

In person & Online

Austin TX US

My Kink... Conscious Sexuality

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MistressVictoria

Online

Auckland NZ

I'm your new addiction, you will be intoxicated ....

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ReflectorForHire

In person & Online

New York NY US

Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in immersive experiences that blend somatic healing, ritual, and conscious kink. Her work is designed to help individuals regulate their nervous systems, enhance emotional resilience, and foster a deeper mind-body connection. Iryna curates transformative events such as the “Shamanic Kink Immersion”, "Tantric Somatic Immersion for Practitioners", and “Voyage into Presence,” which are multi-day retreats focusing on self-discovery and connection. These events are crafted to provide intimate, supportive environments for deep personal work.

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What is submission?

What is submission?

My happy place is my sub space.

In a sexual context, submission refers to the consensual act of willingly yielding control, authority, or power to a dominant partner. It involves engaging in activities, rituals, or dynamics that emphasise the power imbalance between the submissive and dominant individuals.

Submission is often a key element in BDSM practices, and it can encompass a range of activities, from physical restraint to psychological surrender, all within the framework of negotiated and consensual boundaries. The submissive party derives pleasure from surrendering and following the commands or desires of the dominant partner.

What makes it hot?

The idea of submission can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it taps into power dynamics, creating a sense of vulnerability and surrender that can intensify the erotic experience. The act of giving up control can evoke feelings of trust, intimacy, and heightened sensations.

Additionally, submission allows individuals to explore their desires and boundaries, providing a structured and consensual space to push personal limits and experience new facets of pleasure. The arousal may also stem from the psychological and emotional aspects of surrender, where the submissive finds pleasure in fulfilling the desires of the dominant partner.

Yes, submission can be consensual and part of various relationship dynamics, including those characterised by love, trust, and equality. It's about exploring shared desires within agreed-upon boundaries.

While submission often involves sexual activities, it can extend beyond the sexual realm. Some individuals may engage in non-sexual forms of submission, such as service-oriented tasks or rituals.

Communication is key. Clearly discuss desires, limits, and expectations with a partner. Start with less intense activities and gradually explore, prioritising ongoing consent and safety.

DO

Establish clear communication: Open and honest communication is essential in establishing boundaries, expectations, and consent when engaging in submissive activities.

Prioritise aftercare: After engaging in submissive activities, prioritize aftercare to provide emotional and physical support to the submissive partner. This can include reassurance, cuddling, and checking in on emotional well-being.

Regularly check in: Regularly check in with both partners to ensure ongoing consent and comfort. Consent is dynamic and can be withdrawn at any time, so clear communication is key.

DON'T

Neglect safety: Safety should always be a priority. Avoid activities that pose unnecessary risks, and establish safe words or signals to communicate discomfort or the need to stop.

Assume consent for all activities: Consent is specific to each activity. Just because someone consents to one form of submission doesn't mean they consent to all activities. Clearly negotiate and communicate desires and limits.

Rush the process: Submission is a gradual exploration. Avoid rushing into intense activities without proper communication, understanding, and consent. Take the time to build trust and explore gradually.