Roxu is a Berlin-based shibari rigger and educator whose practice is rooted in patience, safety, and direct communication. He prioritises the person over the pattern, adapting each session to the body and boundaries in front of him.
In this interview, he speaks about his practice, his influences, and why attention matters more than elaborate shapes.
- How would you describe yourself in 3 words?
- Tell us more about yourself and what you do...
- What services do you provide on Sensuali?
- What turns you on?
- What was your journey into this world?
- Why do you do what you do?
- What is an unexpected pleasure you discovered in your work?
- What should more people know about your work?
- What’s your superpower?
- We love vices. What’s yours?
- Who are your sensual inspirations?
- Closing thoughts?
How would you describe yourself in 3 words?
Curious. Grounded. Mischievous.
Tell us more about yourself and what you do…
I’m Roxu, from the south of Spain, now based in Berlin. I’m a shibari rigger and I keep things simple: listen, check in, go slow.
Most days I’m practicing, studying, doing sessions, and sometimes teaching. I care more about how someone feels than about big shapes. We take our time and communicate clearly.
What services do you provide on Sensuali?
I offer tailored rope sessions: floorwork, partials, and full suspensions when appropriate.
If you’re learning, I also provide focused coaching and teaching with my partner Ena Dahl—from technical structure to soft skills based in communication, movement and presence. The pace and depth are set together.
What turns you on?
Playful power dynamics—agreed edges, challenge offered and accepted, trust given and received.
What was your journey into this world?
I saw a rope performance in Madrid in 2016 that stayed with me. I began training seriously since then and haven’t stopped. Now, almost ten years after discovering Kinbaku, I moved to Berlin to keep exploring, keep learning, and be more involved in the practice.
Why do you do what you do?
Because love feels like motion to me.
When we pace, lift, and place a body with care, something in the heart follows—rope is one of my love languages.
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It also keeps me present: attention, patience, and listening are skills I want in the rest of my life too.
What is an unexpected pleasure you discovered in your work?
In sessions, it was really unexpected discover how much impact a single rope can have on the person I’m tying with.
In 1:1 coaching, how much the practice improves communication outside rope—clearer asks, softer landings, fewer assumptions.
What should more people know about your work?
I adapt rope to the person in front of me, not to a template. You don’t need to be “flexible” or experienced; we plan around your body that day, including injuries or limits.
Consent is ongoing—changing your mind, dialing down, or stopping is normal and respected. Suspensions are a tool, not the goal.
What’s your superpower?
Attunement with the person I’m tying—I’m good at reading people and translating those signals into clear and conscious rope.
We love vices. What’s yours?
Definitely geeking out over rope.
Who are your sensual inspirations?
Right now, my sensual inspiration is my partner, Ena Dahl. Her writing on sensuality and conscious kink—and the way she links presence, healing, and erotic energy—keep reshaping how I live this part of my life.
Closing thoughts?
I don’t promise intensity; I promise attention. The rest we decide together. Rope is just the tool; the point is how you feel during and after.
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Roxu
Roxu is a Berlin-based shibari rigger and educator from the south of Spain. Nearly a decade after discovering kinbaku, his approach has evolved toward something essential—patience, presence, and the belief that rope is simply a tool for deeper human connection. His work proves that the most powerful experiences often come from the smallest, most attentive gestures.
