Intimacy and Relational Coaches in Los Angeles

Choose from our pool of experienced pleasure Coaches

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trevorjames

In person & Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

Helping men reconnect with touch, intimacy, and authenticity by integrating sex, spirit, and soul.

1 service, 1 event, 1 product

Author Coach Educator Facilitator Massage Therapist Professional Cuddler Tantric Practicioner

acidrani

Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

Bold, direct, let’s cut to the chase

BDSM Submissive Coach Performer Artist Muse Model

1 experience

Passport2Pleasure

In person & Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

Modern relationship coaching. Build the love life of YOUR dreams, not someone else’s.

1 service

Coach Educator Facilitator Host Speaker

1 experience

iamjocelynsilva

In person & Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

Intimacy work rooted in truth, integrity, and radical self-authenticity.

1 service

Coach Educator Facilitator Healer Sexologist Speaker

1 experience

Encanto Sensual Massage

In person

Los Angeles CA US

Sensual/Erotic Massage, Tantra, and Sexual Awakening.

1 service

Coach Educator Healer Massage Therapist Sexologist Tantric Practicioner Therapist

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3 experiences

GoddessEros

In person & Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

I take you in a journey through the senses and the mind, using the art and world of Sensual Shibari.

3 services

Author BDSM Coach Educator Massage Therapist Shibari artist

IntimacyLacey

Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

Certified Sex, Relationship, and Intimacy Coach dedicated to helping you heal from Purity Culture

Coach Educator

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1 experience

Vüdü Dähl

In person & Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

Where curiosity, kink, and healing hold hands.

1 service

Author BDSM Coach Educator Erotic creator Muse Streamer

I've been a part of sub culture for 22 years. I have extensive knowledge of D/s dynamics and find the most pleasure in being a service bottom. I like to spend my free time in communication with my Dom and exploring new sexual avenues. I also love writing erotica and find that writing erotic fiction for people who are looking for specific details to be included is quite enjoyable for me. The people who I feel who benefit most from an interaction from me are Dom types who are kind in nature, come from a pleasure perspective and love to communicate regularly. I also find that submissives who are curious about the deep ends of the lifestyle would also benefit from connecting with me. Lastly, if you enjoy erotica, I am open to writing for you, or reading to you, or collaborating on a story together.

Author BDSM Submissive Coach Therapist

breeleche

In person & Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

Warm, relatable somatic intimacy coach here to creatively support your goals in a judgement-free space.

Coach Muse Sexologist BDSM Model Photographer Professional Cuddler

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Unbound Collective

In person & Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

Contemporary Twists on Ancient healing arts

2 events

Artist BDSM Coach Designer Educator Erotic creator Kinkster Massage Therapist Model Muse Performer Shibari artist Tantric Practicioner Therapist

1 experience

kemoburns

In person & Online/Virtual

Los Angeles CA US

Experience & education Kemo draws on their passion for rope and kink to create personalized experiences for the people they connect with. They have been studying rope for 8+ years and consider themself a perpetual student of rope, on top of being an educator. Kemo first took classes locally in the greater Los Angeles area, and later invested in 1-on-1 instruction from leaders in the craft. Today they continue their rope education by frequenting intensives and occasional private lessons, while remaining active in the local rope scene. Kemo can often be found attending rope and kink events, munches and jams. Rope artist & teacher An acclaimed performer, Kemo Burns has showcased their tying skills and participated in panels and interviews on stages across the country. Some notable events include Lightning in a Bottle, The Laugh Factory, Burning Man, DomCon LA & NOLA, multiple sexual health/BDSM summits and countless kinky play parties. Along with their annual workshops at LIB and the Burn, Kemo was a resident rope bondage instructor at Kink Collective OC in Santa Ana, CA throughout 2024. Today they can be found teaching pop-up workshops on topics such as negotiating a rope scene, arms-free harnesses, and rope for couples at local dungeons and collectives. Testimonials: “Loved the perfect mix of sadism & sensuality… I really appreciated how when I needed an adjustment, you took care of that right away. Being able to attend to the adjustments while also being able to still keep the scene going meant a lot to me… I loved how challenging this was and how communicative you were, both with verbal play & check-ins! Overall, super naturally flowing scene… at a great pace. I'm so excited for more." “You always give me unforgettable experiences in rope. Your skill, knowledge and unique creativity lead to the hottest and most satisfying scenes. Your care, attentiveness and willingness to adapt to the present moment help build beautiful spaces. Our ties are connective and personal... mixing pain and pleasure in the most delicious ways... leaving me wanting more.” “All the ties we did were lovely... it was easier for me to surrender than [the] few other ties that I've done before... I think that's overall due to the atmosphere you created with your style. It's very connected and makes me feel like I can let go easier and trust you as the rope artist. I especially appreciated the consistent checking-in during the tie. And I am eager to do more ties with ya!” "I haven’t been taking the best care of my body because of depression and overwhelm and it has manifested in gaining a lot of weight... my hormones have been all over the place so my usual libido has plummeted, which is just weird for me. So it feels strange and uncomfortable in my skin... You made me forget about all that when I was in your rope and I was able to remember what it feels like to be me." "This sesh made me reflect on how a lot of my times in rope have been still - which is so lovely, but… your movement meant a lot to my masochism… I loved how not only super verbal you were but how interactive and attentive you were… creating so many different positions."

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Artist Dancer Performer Designer Photographer Videographer BDSM Dom Fetishist Kinkster Shibari artist Submissive Coach Educator Tantric Practicioner Erotic creator Streamer

Finding a Sensual Coach - What to look for

In Los Angeles you will find many people using the word coach, but intimacy and pleasure focused work is its own field. An intimacy coach helps you look at how you relate to yourself and others in close, vulnerable spaces. Sessions can focus on communication, boundaries, desire, trust, touch, pleasure, shame and the patterns that show up when things get close.

A pleasure coach in LA often works with people who want to feel more connected to their erotic energy without treating it like performance. That can include exploring what feels good physically, how to ask for it, how to receive, and how to stay present during intimacy instead of getting lost in stress or self judgment. A sensuality coach may place more emphasis on body awareness, nervous system regulation and reawakening sensory experience in everyday life, not only in the bedroom.

Unlike therapy, coaching usually looks forward. It is less about diagnosis and more about change you want to create. Your intimacy coach will blend communication tools, body based awareness, guided practices and simple experiments you can try between sessions. Some have backgrounds in psychology, somatic work or sexuality education. Others come from fields like yoga, tantra, embodiment training or creative arts. The mix is wide, so reading each profile carefully matters.

You can work with an intimacy coach as an individual or as a couple. Individuals may come because they feel blocked, shut down, anxious or overwhelmed around closeness and pleasure. Couples may arrive after a long plateau, a period of conflict, parenting stress or life changes that made intimacy slip to the background. A good coach does not take sides. They hold a neutral space where both people can be honest and learn new ways of relating.

When you look for intimacy coaching in Los Angeles, pay attention to how each coach describes their work. Do they name specific topics like boundaries, communication, pleasure, embodiment, trauma awareness. Do they explain how sessions are structured, how long they last and what you will actually do. Clarity in writing is usually a good sign that they are clear in practice.

Coaching is not a replacement for medical care or psychotherapy. It can sit alongside those forms of support. If you are dealing with acute depression, active addiction, self harm or unprocessed trauma, it is important to have therapeutic support in place as well. Many intimacy and pleasure coaches are open to collaborating with therapists when needed, and this can make the work safer and deeper.

The right coach will not try to fix you. They will help you understand how you work, offer you tools and stay with you while you experiment with new ways of showing up. You bring your courage and curiosity. They bring structure, reflection and a wider view.

An intimacy coach can help you with communication around desire, boundaries and needs, building confidence in expressing what you want, reconnecting with your body, working through shame, and creating more ease in relationships. Some focus more on dating and relational skills. Others lean into long term partnership, conscious sensuality or healing a disconnected relationship with pleasure.

A therapist usually works with mental health, trauma and emotional patterns, often over a longer period, and is regulated by a clinical framework. A sex coach tends to focus directly on sexual concerns such as libido, function, techniques or specific struggles in the bedroom. A pleasure coach looks at your relationship with pleasure more broadly, including body awareness, nervous system, mindset, beliefs and everyday habits. They offer exercises and practices you can integrate into your life, often in a more action oriented way.

Both are possible. Many sensuality coaches in Los Angeles work one to one to help people reconnect with their own body and senses. Others offer couple sessions where you practice communication and simple touch exercises together. Some coaches offer a mix, starting with individual work and then bringing a partner in later. Each profile will specify how they work, so you can choose what fits best.

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DO

Do arrive with a rough sense of what you want to work on
It can be as simple as “I feel shut down” or “we lost our spark,” as long as it is honest.
Do ask about their training and experience
Intimacy and pleasure work touches vulnerable areas. You are allowed to know what prepares them for that.
Do talk openly about your boundaries
Share what topics, exercises or formats you are not ready for so they can shape the work accordingly.
Do expect to be given tools and practices
Good coaching often includes concrete steps or experiments to try between sessions.
Do check in with yourself regularly
Notice if the coaching is helping you feel more resourced, clearer and more connected over time.

DON'T

Don’t treat the coach as someone who will “fix” you
The work is collaborative. You stay responsible for your pace and your choices.
Don’t hide important information
Significant mental health history, medication, trauma or relationship realities are relevant context.
Don’t ignore discomfort that keeps repeating
If you feel consistently unseen, shamed or pushed in ways that do not feel right, address it or move on.
Don’t expect instant transformation
Intimacy and pleasure patterns are often old. Sustainable change usually takes time and practice.
Don’t compare your process to someone else’s
Your nervous system, history and body are unique. Progress is not a race.