FemDom (Female dominance) professionals
Let the matriarchy commence.
noashibari
In person & Online/Virtual
Amsterdam NL
My name is Miss Noa and I am a shibari artist and soft domme. The focus of my practice lies on expanding the very notion of sensuality. I am caring and grounded, allowing the people I touch quiet their mind and deeply submit themselves to pleasure. I provide a space where the energy of sex can freely exist without even having to take our clothes off. My main passion is rope bondage, I have been tying professionally for over three years now. My training consisted of private tuition from multiple female shibari artists (hua hua, Gorgone, Murasaki Haruan, Kasumi Hourai) and I travelled to Japan to learn straight from the source. It was very important to me to learn about the origins and cultural context of the craft. I do suspensions, but my natural tying style is floor or semi suspension based. I love being close to the person im tying, both physically as well as psychologically. To me personally, bondage is about sensuality and restraint, not about pain. This text written by one of my clients, describes my way of working perfectly: "Take a pause from the hands at work, the bodies, the rope, the knots and play - and watch her eyes - its her greatest trick - the slight of hand disguised in sex and power and play - but watch her eyes - thats where you will see the real work unfold. There is an intense attentiveness there. A rare, almost uncanny ability to sense what is held inside another person and deliberately draw it out. She doesn’t just tie rope; she unties things that were knotted long before the session began. I did not expect such tenderness. Beneath the power and control is deep empathy, care, and respect. Noana meets people where they are, holds them safely, and guides them somewhere new - with intention and trust. She is certainly a technical master of her craft, an artist in her execution, and quite possibly a witch (the best kind.)" That being said, in my Domme practice I do enjoy inflicting physical pain on others, just not through the medium of rope. The reason I call myself a soft domme is because the energy I tie, hurt, or penetrate people with, is joyful and loving, not derogatory. If you enjoy humiliation and degradation as a sub, I am not your woman! I love the tantalizing and the carnal, and letting all the weight of the world slip away in the heat of my scenes.
1 service
Dominatrix Rigger Shibari artist BDSM
Maxine Dreams
In person & Online/Virtual
Nuremberg DE
Artist, Domme, Romantic Hedonist, & Sensuous Pervert ˚ʚ♡ɞ˚
2 services
Dominatrix Fetishist Massage Therapist Tantric Practicioner Muse
Mx Lin
In person & Online/Virtual
Amsterdam NL
Multidisciplinary artist and domme
3 services, 1 event
Dominatrix Educator Facilitator Muse Rigger Shibari artist BDSM
Vale&Uria
In person
Berlin DE
Playful, kinky, and sex-positive partners weaving acro, laughter, and intimacy into erotic experiences.
4 services
BDSM Educator Kinkster Performer
BDSM Kinkster Dominatrix
Luna
In person
San Juan PR
Kink 1on1 custom exploration sessions with a certified Somatic Sexologist & BDSM Mentor
3 services
BDSM Dominatrix Submissive Sexologist
MissO.
In person & Online/Virtual
Köln
Sometimes gentle, sometimes merciless - You don't want freedom. You want permission.
3 services
BDSM Dominatrix Model
BDSM Educator Kinkster Therapist Dominatrix
giabruni
In person & Online/Virtual
Berlin DE
Pleasure Connoisseur & public health aficionado
1 service
BDSM Dom Fetishist Kinkster Coach Educator Massage Therapist Muse
BDSM Fetishist Muse Performer
Star.Seraphine
In person & Online/Virtual
Miami FL US
Sensual alchemy and sacred indulgence.
2 services
Artist Dancer Dominatrix Kinkster Facilitator Tantric Practicioner
PleasureFWRD
In person & Online/Virtual
Chicago IL US
Somatic Intimacy and Relationship Coaching for couples and individuals.
2 services
BDSM Facilitator Host Professional Cuddler Sexologist Coach Educator Healer
What is Femdom ?
Femdom, short for female dominance, refers to a BDSM relationship or activity where a female takes the dominant role. In such dynamics, the dominant woman (often called a dominatrix or mistress) controls the submissive partner, who can be of any gender. Activities in femdom can range from light, playful dominance to more intense forms of power exchange and can include a variety of practices like bondage, discipline, sadomasochism, and humiliation, depending on the preferences and limits of the participants.
What makes it hot?
Power dynamics: The power exchange dynamic, where the dominant partner takes control, can be exciting and arousing for those who enjoy exploring power imbalances consensually.
Exploration of fantasies: Femdom allows individuals to explore fantasies and desires in a consensual and negotiated manner, adding an element of creativity and variety to intimate relationships.
Communication and consent: Engaging in femdom activities requires clear communication and explicit consent, fostering trust and understanding between partners.
Role reversal: For some, the reversal of traditional gender roles in femdom scenes can be liberating and erotic, challenging societal norms around power and control.
Emphasis on consent and respect: The emphasis on consent, negotiation, and respect within the femdom community promotes healthy, consensual exploration of desires and boundaries.
No, femdom can encompass various aspects, including psychological dominance, role-playing, and consensual power exchange beyond physical activities.
No, femdom dynamics can be enjoyed in relationships of any sexual orientation and gender identity.
No, femdom activities can range from gentle dominance to more intense BDSM play. It depends on the preferences and limits negotiated between partners.
DO
Communication: Prioritise open and honest communication with your partner about desires, limits, and boundaries to ensure a consensual and enjoyable experience.
Consent: Obtain explicit consent before engaging in any femdom activities. Establish a safe word for both partners to communicate discomfort or the need to stop.
Education: Learn about different aspects of femdom, BDSM safety practices, and techniques. Knowledge enhances the experience and reduces the risk of harm.
Aftercare: Provide and receive aftercare, which involves physical and emotional support after a scene to ensure both partners feel safe and cared for.
Respect limits: Respect the agreed-upon limits and boundaries of your partner. Regularly check in on each other's well-being and adjust activities accordingly.
DON'T
Assume consent: Never assume consent or push your partner into activities they are uncomfortable with. Always obtain explicit agreement before proceeding.
Neglect safety: Do not neglect safety precautions. Be aware of physical and emotional limits, and have a plan for handling unexpected situations.
Disregard aftercare: Aftercare is essential. Avoid neglecting the emotional and physical well-being of both partners after engaging in femdom activities.
Ignore communication: Avoid neglecting communication during a scene. Continuously check in with your partner to ensure their comfort and well-being.
Skip negotiation: Don't skip the negotiation phase. Discuss desires, limits, and boundaries thoroughly before engaging in any femdom activities.
Hands-on Impact Workshop or Session
From €120 In-person
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By Vale&Uria
Berlin, DE
Extended kink 1 on 1 discovery package
From $65 Online/virtual
This is a Kink 1 on 1 discovery package. This deal is 8 sessions with discounted price. All of my on...
By Luna
San Juan, PR
Rope & Ritual
From €320 In-person
Rope, in my work, is a relational and embodied practice.Rope & Ritual sessions use Shibari as a way ...
By Indira
Berlin, DE
Shibari Discovery Workshop
From $200 In-person & Online/virtual
This class is an introduction to the world of Shibari for beginners, curious explorers, and couples ...
By VoudouRopes
Playa del Carmen, MX
The Tantric Kink Experience
From $180 In-person
This is for those who know there's something wilder waiting – and are ready to explore it with someo...
By JimmyGelato
Berlin
Kink / BDSM / Fetish Experience (In Person)
From $300 In-person
As a pervert, fetishist, and professional Domme, I look forward to creating a space for you to explo...
By Maxine Dreams
Nuremberg, DE
Sensual texting sessions
From $5 Online/virtual
I offer video sessions for $5 a minute to have a private call. I also do 30 min of sexting for $5 a ...
By naughtynymph89
Los Angeles, (CA) US
HYPNOTIC - IMMERSIVE BDSM RETREAT
From $1111 In-person
10 Apr 2026 - 16 Apr 2026 | 06:00
Join us in the forests of Ibiza for an intimate immersion into hypnotic BDSM, ritual, and altered st...
By Katarsis
Ibiza, ES
Consent: Maybe means No
From €60 Online/virtual
The Art of Kink NegotiationLet’s talk about the "before" and "after." After years of tying with inc...
By KnottyExperience
Stockholm, SE
Shaving session – for lovers of short hair
From $500 In-person
Attention lovers of shaving and bald heads.Are you fascinated by short hair – especially on women? T...
By MissO.
Köln
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Private Somatic Power Immersion Conscious BDSM • D/s Dynamics • Erotic Intelligence @PleasureFWRD
From $1200 Online/virtual & In-person
At PleasureFWRD, power is not about force.It is about trust and safety.This private somatic immersio...
By PleasureFWRD
Chicago, (IL) US
BDSM - with a twist.
From $300 In-person & Online/virtual
I lead, you follow. Tell me your deepest desires and I will tailor a BDSM session that fits your nee...
By GoddessType
Philadelphia