Trusted practitioners in New York
Femdom NYC: Pro-Dommes & Mistresses
Find trusted femdom practitioners in NYC. Private sessions built on trust, communication and clear limits. Explore practitioners, message freely and book an experience at your own pace.
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Sara Grace
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
👑 Your Exclusive Mistress | FemDom • Findom • Foot Worship • Psychological Domination | Submit to My Rules
2 events
2 events
ReflectorForHire
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in
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Emma Colangelo
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Hi, I’m Emma! I’m a somatic sexologist, relationship coach, writer, and educator. I’m endlessly curi
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FemDom BDSM Erotic Photographer Shibari
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1 service
1 service
Priestess Francesca
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
bring me your filthiest most shameful desires, and I’ll show you the pearls
FemDom BDSM Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Healer
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3 services
3 services
FemDom BDSM Educator Dominatrix
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8 services
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Priestess Mayra
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
High Priestess of Embodied Power • Tantric Guide • Pleasure Socialite
FemDom BDSM Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Tantra
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desireesays
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
In my presence, they understand their place: beneath me, in awe of my power, eager to submit.
FemDom BDSM Massage Therapist Pleasure writer
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Rouxminate
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Divine Guide, Muse, Educator, Bodyworker and Alchemist Sweet & Spicy Offerings where Pain & Pleasure
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3 services
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FemDom Shibari Dominatrix
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1 service
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Ruby Rose
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
I am ancient and timeless. A mistress of the erotic arts. An architect of experiences that take you
FemDom BDSM Dancer Pleasure & Intimacy Coach
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FemDom BDSM Educator Dominatrix
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MsGeminex
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Seductive in My ways to tease, torment and train submissive little pets. Traveling often. FMTY & in-calls.
FemDom BDSM Erotic creator Dominatrix
1 service
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Priestess Key
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
NYC-based practicing Dominatrix with an intuitive, playful, and commanding style. I enjoy exploring
FemDom BDSM Dominatrix
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FemDom BDSM Dominatrix
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1 service, 1 event
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4 services
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demuredomina
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Ebony Sensual Domme🏙️Boston Sat-Sun🍎NYC Tue-Wed🔔Philly Thu-Fri🇺🇸FMTY✈️
FemDom BDSM Massage Therapist Dancer
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Goddess Viktoria Sway
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Sex and sexuality have fascinated me for as long as I can remember. I am Goddess Viktoria Sway: NYC
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3 services
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Where to find a Femdom in New York
Discover a femdom practitioner in NYC who fits what you are looking for. Choose an experience for him or for couples. Our practitioners are experts in their fields.
Femdom is a dynamic where a dominant woman leads and you follow, inside an agreement you both set beforehand. It can mean strict protocol and physical control. It can also be playful, psychological, sensual or ritual based. The constant is that the power exchange is chosen and negotiated.
New York dommes list their specialisms on their profiles. Impact play, bondage, role play, psychological control, teasing and denial, foot worship, service dynamics and scenes built from scratch.
Where femdom happens in New York
Three setups, and the profile will say which one applies.
- A private studio or dungeon the domme runs herself, fully equipped
- A rental space booked for the session, common in Manhattan where dedicated rooms are expensive
- Travel to you, at your place or a hotel, for scenes that need less equipment
Ask which it is when you first message, along with the neighbourhood. It changes the cost, the equipment available and how far you are travelling on a weeknight.
Before you book a Femdom Session in NYC
A good session is shaped long before you meet. You talk through what you are curious about, what you cannot tolerate, any health considerations and how much emotional intensity feels manageable. The domme designs the scene from that.
Worth asking every time:
- Hard limits, and how you say no once a scene has started
- Your safe word or signal
- Physical risk, and marking
- Discretion and how your details are handled
- What aftercare looks like
A responsible domme will respect a limit, offer an alternative and never make you feel small for having it. During the session you should be able to speak up and be heard. Afterwards, even a short landing helps: a check in, water, a few grounding words.
Read an interview with a New York dominatrix or 5 common approaches to femdom in our magazine.
Frequently asked questions.
What should I know before booking a practitioner offering femdom in New York for the first time?
Start by getting honest with yourself about what attracts you to femdom. This will help you to narrow down the type of practitioner that will be right for you. For your experience, you do not need a full script, but you need a sense of direction. When you read profiles, look for clarity about boundaries, style and safety. Before booking, ask about experience, typical session flow and how limits are handled. You have the right to say no, to ask for adjustments and to walk away if something feels wrong.
How do I choose a safe and professional practitioner for femdom in NYC?
Look for grounded language, not only fantasy. A professional practitioner will outline what they offer, what they decline, how consent works and how they manage risk. They will not promise “everything you dream of” without details. Reach out with a short message about your experience level and a few interests. Notice if they respond with clarity and respect. If you feel pressured, mocked or ignored when you ask about safety, look elsewhere.
Do I need to be “very submissive” to see a femdom?
No. Submission is not a fixed identity you either have or you do not. Many people explore it in stages. You can be curious, unsure, nervous and still be a valid client. A good femdom will meet you where you are, not demand a fully formed submissive persona from day one. What matters is your willingness to be honest, to respect their boundaries and to commit to the agreements you make together.
