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lilabiene
BDSM, Companion, Massage, Kinkster, Erotic audio, Educator & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Berlin DE
Kinky Educator and Experience Creator
GoddessAnyaDivine
Content creator, Muse, Erotic audio, Companion, BDSM, Kinkster, Massage & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual, Pansexual
Chicago IL US
Dominant. Deviant. Divine.
Robinkeane
Content creator, Erotic audio, Companion, Sugar baby, BDSM & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual, Queer, Pansexual
New York NY US
Hairy alternative companion here for laughter and fun
Houston
Content creator, Artist, Muse, Photographer, Writer, Dancer, Erotic audio, Companion, Sugar baby, BDSM, Kinkster, Educator, Coach, Massage, Therapist, Retreat & Workshop
Services are In person
Male - Bisexual
New York NY US
GoddessAviva
Content creator, BDSM, Kinkster & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
New York NY US
Making femdom & findom fantasies come to life, NYC & Boston based
Queen_Bea
Content creator & BDSM
Services are Online
Female - Queer
New York NY US
Offering online domination to pets of all genders, come and be good for me.
juicyfruitoran
Educator, BDSM, Kinkster & Content creator
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Queer
New York NY US
Experienced kinkster ready to bring your play to the next level.
GoddessLilianna
BDSM & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Female - Prefer not to say
Los Angeles CA US
Upscale and beautiful *Professional* Foot Goddess, Fin-Domme, and fetish enthusiast for over 15 years.
MistressNatalie
Content creator, Companion, BDSM, Kinkster & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
New York NY US
Iconic New York City based pro dom who specialized in luxury domination. I have the most extensively equipped private dungeon in the city and love to explore the depths of kink, fetish, intimacy, submission and surrender. I am a curator of highly individualized experiences and building long lasting D/s relationships. I have been practicing my craft for decades and am not shy about sharing who I am. You can find abundant information on my website, socials, fan site, and podcasts. Looking forward to making new connections.
mistrixcleokali
Artist, BDSM & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Sydney AU
Kink Witch, Ritualist and Eco-Eroticist.
PetraBanx
Content creator, Muse, Artist, Companion, BDSM & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Dallas TX US
LucySweetkill
Content creator, Erotic audio, BDSM, Kinkster, Coach & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Prefer not to say
New York NY US
Come into My world of Mindful Domination
What is JOI?
Tell me how to touch myself.
JOI, or Jerk Off Instruction, is a form of sexual content or play where one person provides explicit instructions or encouragement to another person for the purpose of self-pleasure or masturbation. This can be presented in various formats, including written instructions, audio recordings, or video content. A content creator might be someone who is well-versed in JOI.
What makes it hot?
The excitement and arousal associated with JOI come from the explicit and often personalised guidance provided to individuals seeking solo sexual pleasure. The appeal lies in the combination of verbal encouragement, explicit instructions, and the fantasy of being guided by someone else's voice or words during the act of self-pleasure.
While JOI can be enjoyed in long-distance scenarios, it's not exclusive to them. Couples or individuals in close proximity can also engage in JOI as a form of erotic play and communication.
JOI can take various forms, ranging from explicit and intense to more sensual and teasing. It depends on the preferences of those involved.
Initiate a conversation about desires and interests. If both parties are comfortable, share fantasies and explore the possibility of incorporating JOI into the sexual repertoire.
DO
Communication and consent: Ensure clear communication and obtain consent before engaging in JOI. Establish comfort levels, boundaries, and preferences.
Customisation: If providing JOI content, consider the preferences and limits of the recipient. Customising instructions based on their desires can enhance the experience.
Create a comfortable environment: Set the mood by creating a comfortable environment, whether through lighting, music, or other elements, to enhance the overall experience.
DON'T
Assume preferences: Avoid making assumptions about the preferences or comfort levels of the individual receiving JOI. Always communicate and respect boundaries.
Disregard consent: Respectful and consensual engagement is essential. Do not proceed without explicit consent, and be attentive to any cues indicating discomfort.
Ignore aftercare: If applicable, consider aftercare. Some individuals may benefit from a debriefing or comforting interaction after the JOI experience, especially if it involves intense fantasies.