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Roja
In person & Online
Berlin DE
“Life is maybe all about lighting a cigarette in the lethargic period in between two lovemakings” This is a short excerpt from a long poem by Iranian famous poetess and director Forough Farrokhzad. A woman who I deeply admire. I'm Roja: Your Trans-Femme Dominatrix Welcome to my world, where pleasure intertwines with trust and exploration knows no bounds. I am Roja, a trans-femme dominatrix dedicated to creating a nurturing and empowering space rooted in embodied intersectional queer feminism for beautiful souls like you. With experience as a care worker assisting individuals with disabilities, including those who use wheelchairs, I possess a deep understanding of care and attentiveness to my clients' unique needs. This background enriches my approach to BDSM, allowing me to create safe, respectful, and inclusive experiences for everyone, regardless of ability. I embody a unique blend of nurturing and intensity. My style is both motherly and poetic, offering a comforting presence that invites you to explore your deepest desires. I specialize in impact play, shibari, bondage, and D/s dynamics, navigating the spectrum from soft, sensual domination to intense degradation and sadistic pleasure. This versatility allows us to delve into a variety of experiences tailored to your fantasies. As we embark on this journey together, you’ll find that my care is as fierce as my sadism. I am here to guide you into subspace, where you can safely release the stresses of everyday life while embracing the thrill of surrender. Whether you're new to BDSM or a seasoned explorer, I invite you to discover the depths of your desires in a space where you can truly be yourself. Together, we will craft an experience built on mutual respect and understanding, enabling you to connect deeply with your fantasies. Let’s explore the exquisite balance of nurturing and intensity that awaits us. Reach out, and let’s begin this exciting adventure together.
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Lili
Online
Denver CO US
Hi, I am Lili! 💕 ✨️I am a Findom looking for Finsubs (any gender). ✨️ I am also accepting Foot Worship/photo subs and gift giving subs. I have wishlists! 🎁I do accept other kinks, but Findom must be the primary one. I have a $30 tribute, which can be paid via CashApp or YouPay (link in the link section). I can be both a softdomme and a bratty domme. 💖😈 I have been in the kink/BDSM community for over 11 years as both a sub and a domme. I really enjoy creating long-term relationships with subs (if the sub wants more than just a session). I think its super important to build trust so that I can really psychologically dominant my subs. Additionally, I do offer Aftercare post-session, even if it's just something like a Drain. Some of my favorite Findom things: Drains 💸 Reimbursement subs 🧾 Coffee/tea subs ☕ Adopt-a-bill 🏧 Debt Contract💲 My finsubs can also look forward to some of my other favorite dynamics/kinks, such as: MommyDomme/SoftDomme 💕 Goddess Worship 🙇♂️ Feet Worship 👣 Owner/Pet (Pet Play) 🐾 Brat/Loser 🖤 Beta/Alpha 🐺 GFE (Girlfriend Experience) 🎀 Additionally, I love sending my bestest bois photos or audioclips when they have been especially good for me. 😇
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MasterSamael
In person
Berlin DE
Elegant sadist with a velvet voice. Come surrender your mind, body, and secrets to a true Dominus. 🖤
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SirKane
In person
New York NY US
• Trans Male • Sensual Sadist • Strap Enthusiast • Mean Impact Top • Great Massages • Amazing Company Feel free to ask any questions!
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Sunna
In person & Online
Haarlem NL
Queer Queen and magickal artist. Let me deprive you of your senses and you will be rewarded. PM for info.
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breeleche
In person & Online
Los Angeles CA US
Trained sexologist and certified sex and relationship coach. I love helping folks safely explore their desires and expand their skills. Warm and friendly BDSM enthusiast excited to play.
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What is pet play?
Let's get it on, right meow.
Pet play is a form of BDSM role-playing where individuals adopt the roles and behaviours of animals, typically pets, within a consensual and negotiated power dynamic. Participants may take on the persona of a pet (e.g., puppy, kitten, pony) and engage in activities that align with the chosen role, which can include playful behaviours, training rituals, and the use of accessories like collars and leashes.
What makes it hot?
The appeal of pet play lies in the opportunity for participants to explore a power dynamic where one takes on the role of a submissive "pet" while the other acts as the dominant "owner" or handler. This form of role-playing allows for creative expression, the fulfilment of specific fantasies, and the establishment of a unique and consensual dynamic where trust and communication are paramount. The arousal often comes from the blend of playfulness, power exchange, and the heightened sense of vulnerability or control.
Pet play can involve sexual elements, but it's crucial to establish boundaries and communicate about the level of intimacy and activities that all parties are comfortable with.
While it often involves a submissive role, pet play dynamics can vary. Some engage in a more equal power exchange, and roles can be negotiated to suit the desires of those involved.
Open communication is key. Start by discussing desires, boundaries, and any curiosities about incorporating pet play. Be attentive to your partner's comfort level and be prepared to address any concerns.
DO
Establish clear boundaries: Clearly communicate and establish boundaries for both the pet and the owner to ensure a safe and consensual experience.
Consent and communication: Regularly check in with all parties involved, ensuring ongoing consent and open communication to address any concerns or adjustments.
Safe words and signals: Implement clear safe words or signals that allow the pet to communicate discomfort or the need to pause the play. This ensures a quick response to any unexpected issues.
DON'T
Neglect aftercare: Aftercare is crucial in pet play, as it helps both parties transition back to their usual roles and provides emotional support. Neglecting aftercare can impact the overall well-being of those involved.
Assume preferences: Avoid assumptions about what activities or behaviors are enjoyable for the pet without explicit discussion. Preferences may vary, and open communication is key.
Push boundaries without discussion: Do not push or exceed established boundaries without prior discussion and consent. Respect for limits is essential in maintaining a safe and consensual environment.
