SARAH OKAFOR
RELATIONSHIP & INTIMACY COACH
Look at profiles together, out loud. Say what draws you in and what puts you off - that conversation tells you more about each other than any bio. Choose someone both of you feel at least 7/10 about; if one of you is hesitant, keep looking. A good practitioner will offer a short call first. Use it. You're allowed to ask anything: what happens, what doesn't, what you can say no to.