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RubyvanderBerg
Calgary AB CA
A Gem of an Experience
About me
Hello, it is certainly my pleasure and privilege to make your acquaintance.
I'm a playful nurturer, skilled in the art of pleasure, dedicated to your comfort and satisfaction. I'll elevate your day, boost your confidence, and leave you wanting more. Your personalized adventure awaits! Let's craft a unique date, tailored just for you.
My Dutch heritage has blessed me with intelligence that is as sharp as my wit, a classic elegance and grace that are both alluring and understated. I'm playful, flirtatious, naughty and enjoy going with the flow. A perfect combination to be your bedroom muse.
I am a tall stunning MILF, possessing piercing blue eyes that are deep and intense. I have a warm coy smile, long legs, scrumptious booty and beautiful feet. I can easily switch between dynamics from being a soft and gentle girlfriend or a contemptuous brat, to taking control and making you beg. I am a squirter and am passionate for BBBJ and Greek servicing. Whether you're a seasoned enthusiast or new to the scene, I'm here to guide and indulge you.
Please tell me all about your kinks, fantasies and interests as I also love connecting through shared pleasures. Though I am genuinely sexually adept, I also love cuddling and sharing stories of our experiences with each other. Bonus if you're bringing something to the table that I have yet to try, there's a high chance I'll say yes! I believe sexual expression is necessary in life which I have personally embraced and would love to help you embrace your own.
All types of persons are welcome and admired. My calm demeanor will make you feel welcome and at home and I strive to create a safe and comfortable space for you. Please don't hesitate to share any limitations or preferences. I'll do my best to meet your needs.
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