PrincessAurora
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Award winning Fetish Princess. Generally amused by abusing losers.
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papipistacchio
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Swedish/German. Viking roots, Berlin boots. D/s Dominant, explorer, expert cuddler.
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ozthorn
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I shoot adult photography and video and am a shibari (Japanese rope bondage) practitioner.
1 service
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sapieha
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Denver CO US
Evoking sensual witchcraft through the act of tight binding and intimate photography 🥀
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GoddessLilianna
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Upscale and beautiful *Professional* Foot Goddess, Fin-Domme, and fetish enthusiast for over 15 years.
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CamiRomero
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Tulum MX
Step into my world, where story dominates, shame melts, and you become the masterpiece you were afraid to desire.
1 service
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LeAngeHeurtebise
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Nijmegen NL
In the realm of sexual deviances I am more into the creative part of it, creating wonderful one-off experiences with other like minded people. Community is shaped by bringing something to the fore, and everybody has something to offer.
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SagaMoros
In person
Berlin DE
I will tower over you as I show you the meaning of caring cruelty.
1 service, 1 event
Muse BDSM Fetish Kink Domination Coaching Education Non-sexual intimacy Retreat Direct messaging Social media
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Bea.letsPlay
In person & Online
Copenhagen DK
body-positive kinkster fiercely dedicated to breaking down shame & turning up the volume on your desires
Art BDSM
What is spanking?
Spank me like you mean it.
Spanking is the act of striking the backside with the hand or an implement for pleasure, arousal, or as part of BDSM activities. It can range from playful and light swats to more intense and deliberate strikes, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. Spanking is often used as a form of erotic stimulation, power exchange, or a means of incorporating pain and pleasure in a consensual and negotiated manner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of spanking can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it introduces an element of power dynamics, where one person takes on the role of the giver and the other as the receiver. The act itself combines the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure, creating a unique and intense experience.
Additionally, spanking can elicit a sense of vulnerability and submission, adding to the erotic charge of the activity. The audible sounds produced during spanking can also contribute to the overall sensory experience, making it a popular and arousing element within BDSM practices.
While spanking is a common element in BDSM practices, it doesn't exclusively belong to BDSM. Some engage in spanking as part of playful or erotic activities outside the realm of BDSM.
Spanking specifically refers to striking the buttocks, while other forms of impact play may involve striking different parts of the body with various implements.
Yes, preferences can vary widely. Some individuals may enjoy light and playful spanking, while others prefer more intense and disciplinary experiences. Communication is key to understanding individual preferences.
DO
Communicate clearly: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences before engaging in spanking activities.
Start lightly: If new to spanking, start with light and gentle swats to gauge comfort levels. Gradually increase intensity based on the receiver's response.
Use safe words: Establish and use safe words to ensure clear communication and allow the receiver to communicate if the spanking becomes too intense or uncomfortable.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Always ensure that all parties involved have explicitly consented to engage in spanking activities. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Strike unsafe areas: Avoid striking the lower back, kidneys, or spine, as these areas can be sensitive and potentially harmful. Focus on the fleshy parts of the buttocks.
Rush: Take your time and pace the spanking activities. Rushing can lead to miscommunication, discomfort, or unintended harm.
