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lilabiene
•BDSM, Companion, Massage, Kinkster, Erotic audio, Educator & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Berlin DE
Kinky Educator and Experience Creator
Queen_Bea
Content creator & BDSM
Services are Online
Female - Queer
New York NY US
Offering online domination to pets of all genders, come and be good for me.
missangelafromhell
BDSM, Companion & Therapist
Services are In person & Online
Female - Sapiosexual
Mexico City MX
Nothing youve ever imagine
senseme_waxplay
Artist, BDSM & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Lisbon PT
Will support u on your way to sub space
GoddessLilianna
BDSM & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Female - Prefer not to say
Los Angeles CA US
Upscale and beautiful *Professional* Foot Goddess, Fin-Domme, and fetish enthusiast for over 15 years.
GoddessAnyaDivine
Content creator, Muse, Erotic audio, Companion, BDSM, Kinkster, Massage & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual, Pansexual
Chicago IL US
Dominant. Deviant. Divine.
nadirah_khalisa
BDSM
Services are In person
Female - Queer
Berlin DE
Berlin-based & FMTY Pro Dominant | Ready to serve Me? >>> https://www.nadirahkhalisa.com
goddesssage
BDSM, Companion & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Gender fluid - Pansexual
Los Angeles CA US
I am a nourishing escape for those who trust me with their time. My clients find my leadership freeing, and my presence akin to medicine they didn’t know they needed. I am no stranger to levity and fun, silly times. I am also not afraid of the depths of my sadism. My touch, as well as my bite, is intuitive. When I'm in charge, safety and consent come first. I thrive on creating spaces where you can fully surrender and connect with your true self. Together, we'll navigate the delicious tension between discipline, affection, pain, and pleasure. Every command comes from a place of care. My dominance is not made in your image. My dominance is divinity itself. Should you book me for social time, I'm down-to-earth. I connect easily with others and make every encounter feel natural. Whether we're sharing a quiet dinner or enjoying a night out, I bring delightful conversation and an air of sophistication that ensures each moment is special. Do your research before you approach me.
LucyFaire
Artist, Content creator, Sugar baby, Companion, BDSM, Kinkster, Massage, Workshop & Educator
Services are In person
Female - Demisexual, Prefer not to say
Berlin DE
Embodied sensuality waiting for you to obey and experience me.
ReflectorForHire
Content creator, Muse, Photographer, Artist, Companion, BDSM, Kinkster, Coach, Educator, Massage, Retreat, Therapist & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Gender fluid - Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual
New York NY US
Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in immersive experiences that blend somatic healing, ritual, and conscious kink. Her work is designed to help individuals regulate their nervous systems, enhance emotional resilience, and foster a deeper mind-body connection. Iryna curates transformative events such as the “Shamanic Kink Immersion”, "Tantric Somatic Immersion for Practitioners", and “Voyage into Presence,” which are multi-day retreats focusing on self-discovery and connection. These events are crafted to provide intimate, supportive environments for deep personal work.
lolajean
Content creator, BDSM & Workshop
Services are Online
Female - Queer
New York NY US
No Frills Sex Education
XCallxMexSirX
Artist, BDSM & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Pansexual
Boston MA US
✨️BDSM ✨️ Impact ✨Latex ✨ ✨ Pet Play ✨️ Ageplay ✨️ Femization ✨ ✨️ All Things Emersive ✨️
What is Femdom ?
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Femdom, short for female dominance, refers to a BDSM relationship or activity where a female takes the dominant role. In such dynamics, the dominant woman (often called a dominatrix or mistress) controls the submissive partner, who can be of any gender. Activities in femdom can range from light, playful dominance to more intense forms of power exchange and can include a variety of practices like bondage, discipline, sadomasochism, and humiliation, depending on the preferences and limits of the participants.
What makes it hot?
Power dynamics: The power exchange dynamic, where the dominant partner takes control, can be exciting and arousing for those who enjoy exploring power imbalances consensually.
Exploration of fantasies: Femdom allows individuals to explore fantasies and desires in a consensual and negotiated manner, adding an element of creativity and variety to intimate relationships.
Communication and consent: Engaging in femdom activities requires clear communication and explicit consent, fostering trust and understanding between partners.
Role reversal: For some, the reversal of traditional gender roles in femdom scenes can be liberating and erotic, challenging societal norms around power and control.
Emphasis on consent and respect: The emphasis on consent, negotiation, and respect within the femdom community promotes healthy, consensual exploration of desires and boundaries.
No, femdom can encompass various aspects, including psychological dominance, role-playing, and consensual power exchange beyond physical activities.
No, femdom dynamics can be enjoyed in relationships of any sexual orientation and gender identity.
No, femdom activities can range from gentle dominance to more intense BDSM play. It depends on the preferences and limits negotiated between partners.
DO
Communication: Prioritise open and honest communication with your partner about desires, limits, and boundaries to ensure a consensual and enjoyable experience.
Consent: Obtain explicit consent before engaging in any femdom activities. Establish a safe word for both partners to communicate discomfort or the need to stop.
Education: Learn about different aspects of femdom, BDSM safety practices, and techniques. Knowledge enhances the experience and reduces the risk of harm.
Aftercare: Provide and receive aftercare, which involves physical and emotional support after a scene to ensure both partners feel safe and cared for.
Respect limits: Respect the agreed-upon limits and boundaries of your partner. Regularly check in on each other's well-being and adjust activities accordingly.
DON'T
Assume consent: Never assume consent or push your partner into activities they are uncomfortable with. Always obtain explicit agreement before proceeding.
Neglect safety: Do not neglect safety precautions. Be aware of physical and emotional limits, and have a plan for handling unexpected situations.
Disregard aftercare: Aftercare is essential. Avoid neglecting the emotional and physical well-being of both partners after engaging in femdom activities.
Ignore communication: Avoid neglecting communication during a scene. Continuously check in with your partner to ensure their comfort and well-being.
Skip negotiation: Don't skip the negotiation phase. Discuss desires, limits, and boundaries thoroughly before engaging in any femdom activities.
