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lilabiene
•BDSM, Companion, Massage, Kinkster, Erotic audio, Educator & Workshop
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Female - Queer
Berlin DE
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Ixchel
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Female - Queer
Pāhoa HI US
Femme queer here to dominate! I love BDSM role play and am formally trained as a Somatica practitioner.
Kitsune
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Lyon FR
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AKASH
BDSM, Artist & Massage
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Gender fluid - Queer
Berlin DE
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mistresslola
BDSM, Sugar baby & Artist
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Paris FR
Having a cute appearance doesn’t bother me from being mean, freaky and sadistic.
Otto
BDSM & Sugar baby
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Male - Gay
New York NY US
God gave me an experience beyond limits. Your pain is my pleasure.
arika
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Berlin DE
I love sex - if you know, you know I love sexuality - to talk, to geek about it, to go deep I am eros - sexual power
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Content creator, Erotic audio, Photographer, Writer, Companion, Sugar baby, BDSM, Kinkster, Coach, Educator & Workshop
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Gender fluid - Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual
El Paso TX US
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GoddessAnyaDivine
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Chicago IL US
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Robinkeane
Content creator, Erotic audio, Companion, Sugar baby, BDSM & Kinkster
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KhaleesiElectra
Content creator, Erotic audio, Companion, BDSM & Kinkster
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Female - Straight
Berlin DE
Versatile bizarre lady with a preference for humiliation, role play & lust
Houston
Content creator, Artist, Muse, Photographer, Writer, Dancer, Erotic audio, Companion, Sugar baby, BDSM, Kinkster, Educator, Coach, Massage, Therapist, Retreat & Workshop
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Male - Bisexual
New York NY US
What is spanking?
Spank me like you mean it.
Spanking is the act of striking the backside with the hand or an implement for pleasure, arousal, or as part of BDSM activities. It can range from playful and light swats to more intense and deliberate strikes, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. Spanking is often used as a form of erotic stimulation, power exchange, or a means of incorporating pain and pleasure in a consensual and negotiated manner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of spanking can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it introduces an element of power dynamics, where one person takes on the role of the giver and the other as the receiver. The act itself combines the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure, creating a unique and intense experience.
Additionally, spanking can elicit a sense of vulnerability and submission, adding to the erotic charge of the activity. The audible sounds produced during spanking can also contribute to the overall sensory experience, making it a popular and arousing element within BDSM practices.
While spanking is a common element in BDSM practices, it doesn't exclusively belong to BDSM. Some engage in spanking as part of playful or erotic activities outside the realm of BDSM.
Spanking specifically refers to striking the buttocks, while other forms of impact play may involve striking different parts of the body with various implements.
Yes, preferences can vary widely. Some individuals may enjoy light and playful spanking, while others prefer more intense and disciplinary experiences. Communication is key to understanding individual preferences.
DO
Communicate clearly: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences before engaging in spanking activities.
Start lightly: If new to spanking, start with light and gentle swats to gauge comfort levels. Gradually increase intensity based on the receiver's response.
Use safe words: Establish and use safe words to ensure clear communication and allow the receiver to communicate if the spanking becomes too intense or uncomfortable.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Always ensure that all parties involved have explicitly consented to engage in spanking activities. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Strike unsafe areas: Avoid striking the lower back, kidneys, or spine, as these areas can be sensitive and potentially harmful. Focus on the fleshy parts of the buttocks.
Rush: Take your time and pace the spanking activities. Rushing can lead to miscommunication, discomfort, or unintended harm.
