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Miss_Kirsch
In person & Online/Virtual
Berlin DE
If the Queen is happy, there is peace in the queendom .
Anya Max
In person & Online/Virtual
Berlin DE
Not just domination. An experience worth surrendering to.
Mistress Liz
In person & Online/Virtual
Portland OR US
Erotic healer and dominatrix, a catalyst to help liberate you into your fullest erotic expression
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Mistress PTK
In person & Online/Virtual
Bellevue WA US
I am Mistress PTK, the woman behind The Kat’s Lair, bringing 25 years of experience in BDSM, FemDom,
Master Samael
In person
Berlin DE
Surrender your mind, body & secrets to a true Dominus - alone, or to two of us.
Helina
In person & Online/Virtual
Paris FR
I am a conscious kink facilitator and Dominatrix, passionate about creating transformative, empoweri
Roja
In person & Online/Virtual
Berlin DE
Nurturing yet strict dominatrix, I create a safe space for you to explore your unique subspace and deepest desires
Karla Tantra Magic
In person & Online/Virtual
Mexico City MX
“I guide individuals and couples to reconnect with their bodies, embrace sacred sexuality, and awaken presence—creating
What is spanking?
Spanking is striking the buttocks with the hand or an implement, as play or as part of a BDSM dynamic. It is one of the most common forms of impact play and can range from light, playful swats to firmer, more structured scenes.
What a session looks like
A session starts with a conversation: what you are curious about, your limits, any health concerns and a safeword. The practitioner builds intensity gradually, checks in with you throughout and leaves time for aftercare at the end. You can pause or stop at any moment.
Negotiate before you start: agree on intensity, implements, limits and a safeword with the practitioner before the session.
Start lightly: let intensity build slowly so you can notice how your body responds.
Ask questions: message practitioners on Sensuali to understand their experience, how they work and what a session includes.
Ignore your limits: you can use your safeword or stop at any time, and a good practitioner checks in with you regularly.
Accept strikes on unsafe areas: the lower back, kidneys and spine should never be hit; the fleshy part of the buttocks is the target.
Skip aftercare: leave time after the session to rest, talk and drink water.
Frequently asked questions.
Is spanking always part of BDSM?
No. Spanking is common in BDSM, but many people enjoy it as light, playful contact without any wider power dynamic. What a session includes is agreed beforehand.
How is spanking different from other impact play?
Spanking focuses on the buttocks, usually with the hand or a paddle. Other impact play can use different implements, such as floggers or canes, on other safe areas of the body.
I have never been spanked. Can I try it?
Yes. Tell the practitioner it is your first time. They will start gently, explain what they do and check in with you often. Agreeing on a safeword before you begin is essential.