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MissBecky
BDSM
Female, 27, Bisexual
London UK (In person)
I'm Miss Becky, a dominatrix specializing in the art of bullying and tease. With a decade of experience, I masterfully blend psychological dominance with physical control, creating unforgettable sessions for those who crave intensity and authenticity. My approach is rooted in understanding the desires and limits of my submissives, pushing them to their boundaries while ensuring a safe, consensual environment. I revel in the power dynamics, expertly wielding my words and actions to evoke vulnerability, excitement, and a deep sense of submission. Each session with me is a unique journey, tailored to your specific fantasies and fears. Whether you're a seasoned submissive or a curious newcomer, I will guide you through an experience that will leave you yearning for more. My tools of the trade include a sharp tongue, a keen sense of intuition, and an array of instruments designed to tease, torment, and tantalize. Step into my world, where the line between pleasure and pain blurs.
PreciousLillith
Dancer, BDSM & Sugar baby
Female, 26, Demisexual
Portland OR US (In person & Online)
Succubae
soma_rose
BDSM, Dancer & Massage
Female, 30, Queer
Providence RI US (In person & Online)
i am a priestess of deep, present and sensual embodiment. i am a sensual movement artist // performer with a focus on pole dance and contemporary movement. i am a midwifery student devoted to expanding sovereignty and freedom with pregnant folx in our community. i am a professional massage therapist with a focus on trauma-informed support in expanding pleasure and sensation. i am a practicing somatic astrologer and tarot reader as well. i am also a doctoral student writing a dissertation on mysticism and sexual ethics. i have been practicing and teaching around trauma-transforming BDSM practice as a submissive // gentle switch for many years now.
mistresslola
BDSM, Sugar baby & Artist
Female, 29, Pansexual
Paris FR (In person & Online)
Having a cute appearance doesn’t bother me from being mean, freaky and sadistic.
Feralfemme
BDSM
Female, 27, Queer
Swansea UK (In person)
A fiery feral redhead that loves to capture filth on film📸
MissLillyWatson
Content creator & Companion
Female, 28, Bisexual
London UK (In person & Online)
The world is my playground.
MirabaiBerlin
BDSM, Massage & Dancer
Female, 25, Bisexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Tantric and Kinky
knotsnacks
Content creator, Artist & BDSM
Non Binary, 36, Queer
Los Angeles CA US (In person)
Experience the beauty in suffering
Goddess_A
Content creator & BDSM
Female, 32, Bisexual
London UK (In person & Online)
I am London’s most statuesque Dominatrix, here to make your fantasies come true. I am a beautiful and strong Amazonian Mistress. Standing at a powerful 6’1” tall before I put on my high heels, I revel in making men feel inferior. I must be worshipped and obeyed. Some of my favourite activities include CP, humiliation and pegging. I also thoroughly enjoy beat downs; any excuse to practise my Muay Thai and show off my strength. I am available for in person sessions at Dungeons and Hotels based in London and Hertfordshire.
EffyLondon
Content creator & Companion
Trans, 28, Bisexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Approachable, easy to connect with, I can be your deeply passionate & affectionate sex kitten or your Sadistic Mistress
drippy1princess
Content creator & BDSM
Female, 30, Pansexual
London UK (In person & Online)
Scene sister, kink agony aunt. Look youthful but pre corrupted. Your new breast friend. Big booty and a bit bratty. Sugar baby, content, bdsm planning helper, agony aunt for love and sex life! * all contact that starts with private picture requests will be ignored Please make specific requests or comments, “hi hunny” is not how to get my attention
MistressEve
BDSM
Female, 41, Bicurious
London UK (In person)
English sensual Mistress in Earls Court - Welcome to Eves Place x
What is spanking?
Spank me like you mean it.
Spanking is the act of striking the backside with the hand or an implement for pleasure, arousal, or as part of BDSM activities. It can range from playful and light swats to more intense and deliberate strikes, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. Spanking is often used as a form of erotic stimulation, power exchange, or a means of incorporating pain and pleasure in a consensual and negotiated manner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of spanking can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it introduces an element of power dynamics, where one person takes on the role of the giver and the other as the receiver. The act itself combines the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure, creating a unique and intense experience.
Additionally, spanking can elicit a sense of vulnerability and submission, adding to the erotic charge of the activity. The audible sounds produced during spanking can also contribute to the overall sensory experience, making it a popular and arousing element within BDSM practices.
While spanking is a common element in BDSM practices, it doesn't exclusively belong to BDSM. Some engage in spanking as part of playful or erotic activities outside the realm of BDSM.
Spanking specifically refers to striking the buttocks, while other forms of impact play may involve striking different parts of the body with various implements.
Yes, preferences can vary widely. Some individuals may enjoy light and playful spanking, while others prefer more intense and disciplinary experiences. Communication is key to understanding individual preferences.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta CĂtrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
The disciplinarian dominatrix: meet Agent Ida
Friday 22 September 2023
Sensuali chatted with Agent Ida von Schmidt, the Disciplinarian Dominatrix with a passion for role play and traditional corporal punishment. We discuss her collection of punishment implements, some common misconceptions about Dommes, and BDSM as a form of therapy.
Cute kink illustration: meet Rebecca Lightbody
Friday 4 August 2023
We chatted with kink illustration extraordinaire and lingerie lover Rebecca Lightbody, about her fetish zines, the eroticism of lingerie, and her overarching mission to bring kink out of the shadows and into the light.
Sensual Domination: The Healing Kink The World Needs Right Now
Thursday 13 April 2023
It’s time for the collective consciousness to switch gears from pain-focused BDSM to sensual dominance. Mankind is in crisis and needs healing. Sensual dominance offers a solution.
Confessions of a London Spanky: Alina
Thursday 20 January 2022
Reflections from a retired spanky featuring a few epiphanies and loads of kinky sex experiences.
DO
Communicate clearly: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences before engaging in spanking activities.
Start lightly: If new to spanking, start with light and gentle swats to gauge comfort levels. Gradually increase intensity based on the receiver's response.
Use safe words: Establish and use safe words to ensure clear communication and allow the receiver to communicate if the spanking becomes too intense or uncomfortable.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Always ensure that all parties involved have explicitly consented to engage in spanking activities. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Strike unsafe areas: Avoid striking the lower back, kidneys, or spine, as these areas can be sensitive and potentially harmful. Focus on the fleshy parts of the buttocks.
Rush: Take your time and pace the spanking activities. Rushing can lead to miscommunication, discomfort, or unintended harm.
