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Spank me like you mean it.
mistressmayapoison
Female, Bisexual, Bristol UK
Submit to me...
daddyra
Trans, Queer, New York NY US
Submitting to me feels like bathing in sunshine ☀️ let Daddy praise you while you dress up 👗 BDSM 🖤 outbound only
XCallxMexSirX
Non Binary, Pansexual, Boston MA US
XCallxMexSirX (Will update my bio soon) ❤️🩷🧡💛💚💙💜
papipistacchio
Male, Straight, Berlin DE
Swedish/German. Viking roots, Berlin boots. D/s Dominant, explorer, expert cuddler.
MistressEtta
Female, Bicurious, Glasgow UK
The mean Mother you have always wanted.
CalieRain
Female, Pansexual, London UK
I started reviewing pleasure products around 2012 and that spiralled into joining the kink and swinging scenes, working at fetish events and sex toy/lingerie retail and teaching classes. I offer a range of services including: * Sex and kink education classes (inc spanking, D/s, sex toy 101, kink 101, female pleasure, spicing it up in the bedroom, anal, strap on, Femdom, etc). These can be 1on1, for a couple, or small groups * Advice sessions on topics such as how to introduce new things in the bedroom, joining the kink or swinging scenes, choosing sex/kink toys * Dungeon monitor, House Domme, event crew * Pro Domme (inc impact play, sensation play, wax play, watersports, trampling, face sitting, body worship, sounding, strap on, event companion and more) * Limited availability escort and sugar baby services
Frayed_knots_
Male, Queer, London UK
Let me show you the ropes
Dublinrigger
Male, Straight, Dublin IE
Rigger, writer, photographer
PrincessAurora
Female, Queer, Manchester UK
Award winning Fetish Princess. Generally amused by abusing losers.
Scarlett
Female, Bisexual, London UK
Sex educator + sensual switch
Elizabeth_24
Trans, Lesbian, Manchester UK
Your favourite Trans Bunny Girl Up and down for basically anything ;)
MissMoon
Female, Bicurious, Cape Town ZA
Step into the Moons shadow & serve me
What is spanking?
Spank me like you mean it.
Spanking is the act of striking the backside with the hand or an implement for pleasure, arousal, or as part of BDSM activities. It can range from playful and light swats to more intense and deliberate strikes, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. Spanking is often used as a form of erotic stimulation, power exchange, or a means of incorporating pain and pleasure in a consensual and negotiated manner.
What makes it hot?
The idea of spanking can be arousing for various reasons. Firstly, it introduces an element of power dynamics, where one person takes on the role of the giver and the other as the receiver. The act itself combines the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure, creating a unique and intense experience.
Additionally, spanking can elicit a sense of vulnerability and submission, adding to the erotic charge of the activity. The audible sounds produced during spanking can also contribute to the overall sensory experience, making it a popular and arousing element within BDSM practices.
While spanking is a common element in BDSM practices, it doesn't exclusively belong to BDSM. Some engage in spanking as part of playful or erotic activities outside the realm of BDSM.
Spanking specifically refers to striking the buttocks, while other forms of impact play may involve striking different parts of the body with various implements.
Yes, preferences can vary widely. Some individuals may enjoy light and playful spanking, while others prefer more intense and disciplinary experiences. Communication is key to understanding individual preferences.
Black and Blue: a story on spanking
Wednesday 24 July 2024
'He told me to lift up my skirt and slid down my thong all the way to my knees.' To celebrate world BDSM day, Berlin-based erotic writer, Pimenta Cítrica shares a short and spicy spanking story.
The disciplinarian dominatrix: meet Agent Ida
Friday 22 September 2023
Sensuali chatted with Agent Ida von Schmidt, the Disciplinarian Dominatrix with a passion for role play and traditional corporal punishment. We discuss her collection of punishment implements, some common misconceptions about Dommes, and BDSM as a form of therapy.
Cute kink illustration: meet Rebecca Lightbody
Friday 4 August 2023
We chatted with kink illustration extraordinaire and lingerie lover Rebecca Lightbody, about her fetish zines, the eroticism of lingerie, and her overarching mission to bring kink out of the shadows and into the light.
Sensual Domination: The Healing Kink The World Needs Right Now
Thursday 13 April 2023
It’s time for the collective consciousness to switch gears from pain-focused BDSM to sensual dominance. Mankind is in crisis and needs healing. Sensual dominance offers a solution.
Confessions of a London Spanky: Alina
Thursday 20 January 2022
Reflections from a retired spanky featuring a few epiphanies and loads of kinky sex experiences.
DO
Communicate clearly: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and preferences before engaging in spanking activities.
Start lightly: If new to spanking, start with light and gentle swats to gauge comfort levels. Gradually increase intensity based on the receiver's response.
Use safe words: Establish and use safe words to ensure clear communication and allow the receiver to communicate if the spanking becomes too intense or uncomfortable.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Always ensure that all parties involved have explicitly consented to engage in spanking activities. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time.
Strike unsafe areas: Avoid striking the lower back, kidneys, or spine, as these areas can be sensitive and potentially harmful. Focus on the fleshy parts of the buttocks.
Rush: Take your time and pace the spanking activities. Rushing can lead to miscommunication, discomfort, or unintended harm.
