Welcome to Sensuali! Ready to book an experience? Here’s what you gotta do and here’s how you gotta do it.

1️⃣. Read the profile 🧐

So you’ve come across a profile that has caught your eye, and you’re interested in booking a sensual experience. Before you jump straight to ‘hey hottie’, the first fundamental thing to do is read the profile. This saves you asking for an incall on Saturday at 3pm when their profile explains that they only do outcalls and aren’t available on weekends. Showing in your message that you have read a provider’s profile properly is the most telling indication that you’re serious.

 

2️⃣. Be sure of what you want ✔️

Whilst it’s completely okay to be hesitant and unsure of what you’re looking for whilst browsing, make sure that before you actually message a provider, you’re as confident as you can be that you want to go ahead with booking a experience. Just like you probably wouldn’t call up to book a hair appointment if you weren’t sure that you wanted one, you should only reach out to a provider when you’re pretty positive that you want to go ahead, to save time for everyone involved.

 

3️⃣. Send a clear & kind request 💌

Okay, you’ve read a provider’s profile and have decided which sensual service you’re interested in and when you’d like to meet. Time to reach out!  Rather than back and forth short messages, it’s better for everyone to send a concise, polite message which states everything that you’re looking for:

Hi, I’m Alex. I just read your profile and I love the sound of what you do. I’m interested in booking an incall yoni massage session with you next Saturday (16th). Would 5pm work for you? Thank you and looking forward to hearing back. 😊

If you have any concerns, questions, or special requests, now is the time to raise them. Get everything out in the open to ensure that your session is going to run smoothly and fulfil your desires.

 

4️⃣. Respect boundaries ✋

You got a response? Woop! Congrats. If required, this might be the time to pay a deposit, and prompt payment always indicates that you have a serious attitude. If a provider has explained that there are some things that they will not do- this is the time to respect their boundaries. Trying to push for something will only result in the conversation ending pretty swiftly.

If the provider doesn’t respond or rejects your request, then remember that there are plenty more sensualists in the sea and move on. Spam messages aren’t helpful to anybody.

 

5️⃣. Confirm & keep communicating 📞

Make sure to double confirm once your provider has agreed to your booking. If you realise that you can’t make it, that you need to reschedule or you’re going to be late, let them know as soon as possible. Communicating efficiently builds trust for a long term rapport.

 

Final Tip !

Keep things light and respectful. A little charm and good manners can go a long way.

 

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Iso is a writer and filmmaker based in East London. She is passionate about all things erotic and leads a sexy, shame-free life in hope that she can inspire others to do the same. Originally from a Northern seaside town, she is naturally drawn to the best things in life: candyfloss, trashy karaoke bars and heart-shaped sunglasses.


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