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What is spectatoring? Why it happens and how to stop it Editor's pick
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What is spectatoring? Why it happens and how to stop it

Ever find yourself worrying about how you look or perform during intimacy, instead of enjoying how it feels? This is called spectatoring. Explore why it happens and simple ways to get out of your head…

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