With over 30 years of experience as a professional dominatrix and fetish model, Natalie King is a true pioneer in the world of conscious kink. Based in New York City, she blends sensuality, empowerment, and psychological depth in her work, which now also includes certified life coaching and kink education.

We caught up with Natalie to talk power exchange, transformation, and what really goes on inside her legendary dungeon.

Can you describe yourself in 3 words?

kinky, sensual, empathetic

Tell us more and yourself and what you do…🦹‍♀️

I’m Mistress Natalie King, and I’ve been a professional dominatrix and fetish model based in New York City for over 30 years. My work is deeply rooted in empowerment, and over time I’ve expanded my practice to include certified life coaching and kink education.

My approach is grounded in mindful, ethical domination and power exchange, where I guide clients to explore their inner selves, unlock confidence, and even heal through intentional kink.

At the heart of what I do is transformation—helping people reconnect with their bodies, desires, and potential in an authentic, embodied way.

I’ve had my own dungeon in New York for almost 20 years and it has one of the most comprehensive BDSM gear collections in the city. It’s a magical space.

What services do you provide on Sensuali?

Traditional domination, fetish exploration, medical play, role play, feminization, KinkyCoaching™, lifestyle domination, modeling, BDSM lessons, couples coaching.

What turns you on?

As a service top my biggest turn on is figuring out what makes my subs tick, any kind of power exchange and getting my subs to embrace their vulnerability.

What was your journey into this world?

A stroke of pure serendipity actually. My journey began in 1993 when I was only 18 and was the best thing that could have happened to me.

What do the first 60 minutes of your day look like?

I usually wake up naturally around 9:00 AM—I’ve found that alarm clocks feel too jarring, so I prioritize a gentler start. I quickly check my phone to make sure there are no urgent issues that need immediate attention, then move into my morning self-care routine.

That includes oil pulling, light stretching, brushing and flossing, and staying hydrated with electrolytes and amino acids. I make myself a proper espresso, take my vitamins, and sip my coffee while reviewing and responding to any high-priority messages or emails.

Then I get dressed for either yoga or the gym—movement is a non-negotiable part of starting my day with focus and intention.

Why do you do what you do?

I do what I do because it’s who I am at my core.

This work isn’t just a profession—it’s a profound part of my identity. It gives me purpose, direction, and a deep sense of fulfillment.

I honestly can’t imagine my life without it.

What is an unexpected pleasure you discovered in your work?

The extraordinary relationships that have developed over decades.

What should more people know about your work?

At its core, BDSM is built on consent, communication, and trust. It’s about negotiated power exchange—not harm.

Pain does not have to be a part of what I do.

What’s your superpower?

My work ethic.

We love vices. What’s yours?

Extravagant shoes, bougie dinners and anything with a skull print.

Who are your sensual inspirations?

Betty Page, Brigitte Bardot, Marilyn Monroe, and Sophia Loren

Closing thoughts? 

I am more passionate about my career than ever and look forward to meeting new people to explore with.

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Iso

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Iso is a writer and filmmaker based in East London. She is passionate about all things erotic and leads a sexy, shame-free life in hope that she can inspire others to do the same. Originally from a Northern seaside town, she is naturally drawn to the best things in life: candyfloss, trashy karaoke bars and heart-shaped sunglasses.

Natalie King

Author

Mistress Natalie King is a New York City–based professional dominatrix with over 30 years of experience in the art of conscious power exchange. Deeply rooted in empowerment and transformation, her practice has evolved to include certifications in life coaching, NASM personal training, and yoga instruction. She is the creator of KinkyCoaching™, a trademarked method that blends BDSM with wellness practices to support personal growth, goal-setting, and holistic well-being. Through mindful and ethical domination, Natalie guides clients to explore their inner worlds, cultivate confidence, and even heal through intentional kink. At the heart of her work is transformation—reconnecting people with their bodies, desires, and authentic selves through embodied, conscious play.