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Dominatrix NYC: Private & Couples Sessions

Professional dommes in New York City offering private and couples sessions, from sensual, luxury domination to strict sadism and rope. Explore practitioners, message freely and book an experience at your own pace.

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Sara Grace BDSM New York
3 11

Sara Grace

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In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

👑 Your Exclusive Mistress | FemDom • Findom • Foot Worship • Psychological Domination | Submit to My Rules

Dominatrix BDSM Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Erotic Photographer

Emma Colangelo BDSM New York
7

Emma Colangelo

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

Hi, I’m Emma! I’m a somatic sexologist, relationship coach, writer, and educator. I’m endlessly curi

Dominatrix BDSM Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Sex therapist

TrixieLaPointe BDSM New York
8 1

TrixieLaPointe

In person

New York NY US

Rope artist and disciplinarian based in NYC

Dominatrix BDSM Erotic Photographer Shibari

Priestess Francesca BDSM New York
15
1 service 1 service

Priestess Francesca

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

bring me your filthiest most shameful desires, and I’ll show you the pearls

Dominatrix BDSM Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Healer

Satine Laurent BDSM New York
5
3 services 3 services

Satine Laurent

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

The Psychology of Surrender

Dominatrix BDSM Educator

Priestess Mayra BDSM New York
8 1 4
8 services 8 services

Priestess Mayra

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

High Priestess of Embodied Power • Tantric Guide • Pleasure Socialite

Dominatrix BDSM Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Tantra

Rouxminate BDSM New York
1
1 service 1 service

Rouxminate

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

Divine Guide, Muse, Educator, Bodyworker and Alchemist Sweet & Spicy Offerings where Pain & Pleasure

Dominatrix BDSM Dancer Muse

Miss Stevie Shibari New York
10
3 services 3 services

Miss Stevie

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

The Petite Bondage Fanatic of NYC

Dominatrix Shibari

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Ruby Rose BDSM New York
10 5
1 service 1 service

Ruby Rose

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

I am ancient and timeless. A mistress of the erotic arts. An architect of experiences that take you

Dominatrix BDSM Dancer Pleasure & Intimacy Coach

nausilove BDSM New York
13 3

nausilove

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

195cm of Scandinavian Curiosity ✦ Dominatrix, Advisor, Traveller & Adventurer

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Creatrix of Chaos BDSM New York
5 1
3 services, 3 events 3 services +1

Creatrix of Chaos

In person

New York NY US

Power. Permission. Play.

Dominatrix BDSM Educator

MsGeminex BDSM New York
7 1

MsGeminex

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

Seductive in My ways to tease, torment and train submissive little pets. Traveling often. FMTY & in-calls.

Dominatrix BDSM Erotic creator

Angel-Amour BDSM New York

Angel-Amour

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

Intimacy coach and dominatrix

Dominatrix BDSM Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Erotic creator

Priestess Key BDSM New York
1 service 1 service

Priestess Key

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

NYC-based practicing Dominatrix with an intuitive, playful, and commanding style. I enjoy exploring

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mschellenyc BDSM New York
6

mschellenyc

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

sadistwaSmile

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leah BDSM New York
5
1 service, 1 event 1 service +1

leah

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

The tantra teacher your last relationship needed.

Dominatrix BDSM Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Educator

demuredomina BDSM New York
1 1
4 services 4 services

demuredomina

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

Ebony Sensual Domme🏙️Boston Sat-Sun🍎NYC Tue-Wed🔔Philly Thu-Fri🇺🇸FMTY✈️

Dominatrix BDSM Massage Therapist Dancer

Goddess Viktoria Sway BDSM New York
5 1
1 service 1 service

Goddess Viktoria Sway

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

Sex and sexuality have fascinated me for as long as I can remember. I am Goddess Viktoria Sway: NYC

Dominatrix BDSM Pleasure & Intimacy Coach Educator

Star.Seraphine Dancer New York
7 1 1
3 services 3 services

Star.Seraphine

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

Sensual alchemy and sacred indulgence.

Dominatrix Dancer Tantra

GoddessSuttonReign BDSM New York
8 4

GoddessSuttonReign

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

Sweet Sadist 🍭

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Trusted practitioners in New York

Dominatrices in New York

New York's pro-dommes bring real range. Domination and role play lead, with bondage and femdom close behind, and foot worship has a devoted following. Styles run from sensual and luxurious to openly sadistic, and some dommes describe their work as sacred indulgence.

Many combine domination with rope or impact play. The scene also includes butch dommes and male pro-doms, so you can find a style that fits who you are.

What people book

A first session opens with a conversation about limits and expectations, followed by the scene and aftercare. Couples book dommes to guide a dynamic between them, and regulars come back for ongoing training or specific fetishes.

Send any domme a message for free once you sign up.

Frequently asked questions.

Where do dominatrix sessions happen in New York?

In private dungeons, in a practitioner's own studio, or in a space rented by the hour, which is common here because dedicated rooms are expensive. Practitioners list New York, not a borough, so settle the location by message before you agree anything.

Can I find an NYC dominatrix who works with couples?

Yes. Many dominatrixes in NYC work with couples and offer sessions designed to support shared exploration, communication, and trust.

Couples may seek a dominatrix for different reasons. Some want to introduce BDSM or power exchange into their relationship in a guided and structured way. Others are curious about specific dynamics such as dominance and submission, roleplay, or cuckolding, and want to explore these experiences with professional support.

A dominatrix working with a couple typically begins with conversation involving both partners. This allows everyone to share their interests, boundaries, and comfort levels openly. The dominatrix acts as a guide, helping create a safe environment where both people feel respected and understood.

Sessions may involve one partner taking on a submissive role, while the other observes or participates. In other cases, the dominatrix may guide both partners through exercises or dynamics that help them explore power, trust, and communication together. The structure depends entirely on what the couple wants and agrees to beforehand.

Working with an experienced dominatrix can help couples explore BDSM without pressure or uncertainty. It can open communication, build trust, and allow both partners to explore fantasies in a safe, consensual, and intentional setting.

Does a session have to involve pain?

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