MirabaiBerlin Domination Berlin
10 2

MirabaiBerlin

In person

Berlin DE

Tantric and Kinky

BDSM Massage Dancer

Ixchel Domination Pāhoa
5 1

Ixchel

In person & Online

Pāhoa HI US

I am here to love you! BDSM, trance, role play and am formally trained as a Somatica practitioner.

Artist Dancer Erotic audio Writer BDSM Kinkster Coach Educator Massage Retreat Therapist Erotic media

Bendix Domination Hamburg
8 4

Bendix

In person & Online

Hamburg DE

strong hands - dirty smile

Artist BDSM Kinkster Educator Coach Erotic media

voncaustic Domination Madrid
15 1

voncaustic

In person & Online

Madrid ES

Your local succubus

Artist BDSM Muse Photographer Kinkster Erotic media

SagaMoros Domination Berlin
11 5

SagaMoros

In person

Berlin DE

I will tower over you as I show you the meaning of caring cruelty.

Muse BDSM Fetishist Kinkster Pro-Domme Coach Educator Non-sexual intimacy Retreat Direct messaging Social media

PrincessHalo Domination Philadelphia
6 1 3

PrincessHalo

In person & Online

Philadelphia PA US

Your friendly, neighborhood Dominatrix

BDSM Erotic media

dominaaurelia Domination San Francisco
1

dominaaurelia

In person & Online

San Francisco CA US

Step into my world of mystery

Artist Erotic audio Muse Pro-Domme BDSM Retreat Direct messaging Livestream Erotic media Non-sexual intimacy

melfire Domination São Paulo
4

melfire

In person & Online

São Paulo BR

Expertise in sensual domination and teasing

Artist Performer BDSM Pro-Domme Direct messaging Erotic media

Queen_Bea Domination New York
3 1 8

Queen_Bea

Online

New York NY US

Offering online domination to pets of all genders, come and be good for me.

BDSM Erotic media

MmedeMaisonChardon

In person

Paris FR

Artist Photographer BDSM Kinkster Retreat Therapist

LindseaTeel

Online

Dorado PR

Writer Artist Muse Photographer BDSM Kinkster Coach Educator Erotic media

TrixieLaPointe Domination New York
8 1

TrixieLaPointe

In person

New York NY US

Rope artist and disciplinarian based in NYC

Photographer BDSM Pro-Domme Shibari Kinkster

What is domination?

What is domination?

Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.

Domination refers to a consensual power exchange between individuals where one partner (the dominant) takes on a controlling or authoritative role, while the other (the submissive) willingly surrenders control. This dynamic, coming under the larger realm of BDSM, can involve a range of activities that can include bondage, spanking, role-playing, and the use of specific props or implements.

What makes it hot?

To varying degrees, many people enjoy the feeling of power of powerlessness. Power is something that is almost unavoidable in this world. Whilst it is intangible and subjective, if you look at any situation, power dynamics are subtly present, and sometimes not so subtly. Exploring power and domination in sex is a wonderful way for us to embrace and almost role-play many situations we experience through our lives. People who are naturally dominant might enjoy taking control in the bedroom too, however some people who feel they have little power in everyday life, might find it very thrilling to be dominant in the bedroom.

 

No, domination encompasses a wide range of activities, including psychological dominance, control, and various forms of play beyond physical pain.

Yes, dominance and submission are roles that individuals can explore consensually, regardless of gender, orientation, or personality, and you can even be a switch, meaning that sometimes you're dominant, and sometimes you're submissive.

No, being a dominant involves control and authority, which can be expressed in various ways. It doesn't necessitate constant aggression and can involve nurturing aspects as well.

DO

Incorporate sensual rewards: Integrate sensual rewards for the submissive based on their responses and behaviour. This could involve pleasurable activities or experiences that serve as positive reinforcement and deepen the submissive's connection to the dominant.

Customise punishments to fit dynamics: Customise punishments to fit the established dynamics. Tailor disciplinary actions to align with the submissive's limits and preferences, ensuring that punishments are perceived as corrective and consensual rather than harmful.

Do Prioritise Aftercare Planning: Prioritise planning for aftercare. Consider the specific needs of both partners and have a post-scene routine that includes physical and emotional aftercare tailored to the unique dynamics of the relationship.

DON'T

Neglect the mental aspect: Don't focus solely on the physical aspects of domination. Acknowledge the mental and psychological elements involved. Work to understand why you like what you like and the impact of psychological stimulation. Plan activities that cater to both the physical and mental aspects of the submissive experience.

Disregard subtle feedback: Don't disregard subtle feedback during a scene. Pay attention to non-verbal cues and reactions from the submissive. Adjust the intensity and direction of the scene based on their responses to ensure a mutually satisfying experience.

Rely solely on stereotypes: Avoid relying solely on stereotypes of domination and submission. Every dynamic is unique, and individuals have different preferences and boundaries.

 

Domination related experiences

Bondage

Bondage

Bondage

All tied up with nowhere to go?

CBT

CBT

CBT

Cock and ball torture: the best kind of therapy.

Chastity

Chastity

Chastity

When refraining is entertaining.

Dominatrix

Dominatrix

Dominatrix

Good girls go to heaven, bad girls go to dungeons.

FemDom

FemDom

FemDom

Let the matriarchy commence.

Findom

Findom

Findom

Financial domination. The art of the human ATM.

Foot worship

Foot worship

Foot worship

Your feet are my religion.

Latex

Latex

Latex

Want to see my second skin?

Pegging

Pegging

Pegging

It's only fair to take turns!

Role Play

Role Play

Role Play

Because sometimes getting arrested is very...liberating.

Sensual Domination

Sensual Domination

Sensual Domination

Killing me softly.