Ah, the power of music! When it comes to good sex, sometimes the background music is almost as important a factor as the person you’re doing it with. It makes sense, given that just like music, sex is so much about rhythm and energy. Speaking from experience, I can confirm that if you play a sensual enough song, it can transform even the most clinical date into something special. So for all the girlfriend experience escorts out there having to see plenty of clients whilst making them all feel like they’re the only one, here’s some tunes that might help you and your clients feel the lurrrvv.
Know the Way – Grimes
Grimes’ ethereal soprano voice is enough to make anyone weak at the knees. This song sounds like literal purity. I’d say it’s a good one to play near the start of a session when the action is just beginning. It’s whispery and dreamy and probably perfect for slow kissing.
Underwater Love – Smoke City
This is one of those obscure tracks that you find at 3AM deep into the depths of Youtube. The sensuality in this song is fully unmatched. It’s all slow and slippy and perfect for when you’re on top and going nuts with your hip rolling as your clients stares up at you in dumbstruck awe. The free-spirited, experimental style makes it great for free-spirited, experimental sex 😉
Intimate – Erika de Casier
The ultimate R&B sensual pro has got to be Erika de Casier. This one is perfect to play during a long session where you’re taking everything very slow. The entire album ‘Essentials’ is worth a listen if you’re a fan of slow beats and soft voices.
You’re Too Precious – James Blake
I once spent a whole summer playing this on repeat and thinking about my ex, and I’m still not tired of it. It’s kind of electronic-y and has a beat whilst still being super soft and delicate. Perfect for a daytime session where the window’s open and the sunlight is just spilling into the room ever so slightly…
Playground Love – Air
It’s on the Virgin Suicides soundtrack, so it’s bound to be beautifully ethereal. The soft sax and the whispered words of French duo, Air put you into a trancelike haze and you’ll be slow fucking with your eyes closed in no time at all.
Nothing’s Gonna Hurt You Baby – Cigarettes After Sex
Definitely a song for sultry evenings, with wine and dim lights. You’re dancing, you start to slowly remove your clothes, one piece at a time…in that exact moment your client falls in love with you- even you fall in love with you.
Wild Is The Wind – Nina Simone
If any song is going to make you cry during sex, it’s probably this. But hey- who said that’s always a bad thing? David Bowie’s OG version is great, but Nina’s version is very great. The trembling piano that builds and builds and then falls and falls is perfect for the changing tempos of sex. You cannot have fast sex to this, it’s actually not possible. It’s all about intense, slow fucks.
Fade Into You – Mazzy Star
Mazzy- the OG sad girl. Something about Fade Into You, her most well known song just stays with you, long after listening. This song feels perfect for first times, so a gooden for a new client perhaps.
Milk – Kings of Leon
Kings of Leon aint my usual poison for a sex playlist, but this song is the only exception. It’s upbeat and kind of chill yet somehow still super intimate. The drum build, Caleb Followill’s husky voice, the soft guitar; it all goes together to make an anthem made for a candlelit incall sex sesh.
Ocean Bed – King Krule
The soulfulness in King Krule’s deep south London voice is hard to come by. He could sing about anything and it would sound sensual, so when he sings: ‘The warmth of your tides, They’re breaking in, All across my coastline’ it’s enough to melt you. Perfect for morning sex under the covers on a rainy day after an overnight.
Redbone – Childish Gambino
I’m sure everyone’s heard Childish Gambino’s famous ‘Redbone’, but what would this playlist really be if I left it out? Better for a light hearted vibe, when you don’t have the mental energy to act too sentimental, but still want to create a sensual, feel-good atmosphere.
Nightcall – Kavinsky
Perfect for- you guessed it, night calls. The dark electro vibe is perfect for very late night hook ups and the cinematic feel makes you feel like you’re acting out a scene in your very own escort biopic.
This Feeling – Alabama Shakes
This song has wholesome vibes. It’s not necessarily anything to do with sex or relationships, but listening to it makes you feel sentimental and strangely safe. Perfect for a client who you’re kind of friends with.
Lover, You Should’ve Come Over – Jeff Buckley
This song starts soft and gets pretty heavy. Great for crazy passionate sex, so if you’ve got a reg client with whom the sex tends to be pretty intense, this one’s for you.
Yayo – Lana Del Rey
Obviously Lana is an icon to many sex workers, therefore it would be wrong to not include her on every single playlist. 🙂 In a generation of female music artists who tend to be more apathetic regarding love and sex, Lana stands out for her blatant acknowledgement of her vulnerability and sensuality. This one is perfect to play with an older client (surprise surprise) and it would probably be a great slow strip tease tune.
Ever Fallen in Love – Nouvelle Vague (feat. Melanie Pain)
The way more sensual cover of The Buzzcocks original version. The breathy vocals and playful beat makes for those cutesy femme vibes that GFE clients often love.
Song to the Siren – This Mortal Coil
Surely up there with one of the best songs e v e r, does life get much better than making love whilst listening to This Mortal Coil? Not in my experience! Such a beautifully intimate song is perfect for sex where you’re side by side holding the backs of each other’s heads and staring deep into each other’s eyes like your very life depends on it.