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Emotional Connection
Wanna be the little spoon?
autumnlefay
•Companion, Massage & Muse
Female, 33, Pansexual
Oakland CA US (In person & Online)
I want to know you. Your desires, wishes, and your body. Pleasure has infinite expressions: it can be hot, it can be deep, or just really fun. My photos will tell you part of the story: not an inch over 5 feet, I am petite, whimsical, and like to dress up. The sexy side is inherently a part of me and is not a show. I am a performance art pole dancer and crave expressing my raw sensuality through movement and creativity. A mix of familiar sweetness and tantalizing edginess, I have a handful of elegant body piercings and tasteful tattoos though my long, honey-colored hair and love of all things feminine, soft, and lacy are just as much of my aesthetic. There is another side to me, too: with a postgraduate degree from a Southern Ivy, my mind is as dynamic as my body. I am trained in holistic health and sacred intimacy and I see people for who they are as entire beings: the parts that are easy to love and the parts that like to stay in the shadows. I welcome explorations around all things body and soul and am delighted to be your guide in giving and receiving pleasure. I am sweet, playful, and take pride in my unique attunement skills. The service that I offer is my genuine presence. When you are with me, you are getting the real me-my own desires, curiosities, and quirks. I want to get the real you, too. I show up as my full self and I reserve my time for other curious, kind souls who appreciate what an authentic connection feels like. My innate curiosity has led me to have many adventures in the realm of self discovery and pleasure, blessing me with the ability to offer a variety of experiences that I truly enjoy sharing with you. Some energies and practices we can explore during our time together: *Genuine, affectionate girlfriend experience *FBSM and bodywork *Tantra & sacred sexuality, including breathwork, eyegazing, and full body orgasm *Role play *Sensual domination *Erotic dance and movement, including pole dance performance and sensual wrestling (Oakland incall only) *Erotic skill building And so much more... Please note: I largely abstain from substances, including alcohol. I kindly ask that you are mindful of your use during our time together so we can both be fully present with each other. Please disclose any usage. Couples & moresomes: as a proud bisexual woman, I would love to help you explore new (or familiar!) facets of your relationship. I am honored to be your special guest, no matter how new or experienced you are with group dynamics. Women & AFAB folks: if you are looking for a sensual femme to connect with, look no further! Queer curious? I am a safe and attuned companion to explore with at your own pace. I am most attracted to intuitive chemistry-I connect with a wide range of body types, genders, and abilities.
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What is an emotional connection?
Wanna be the little spoon?
The tag 'emotional connection' on a Sensuali profile means that the Sensualist prioritises interaction with people where there is a genuine and natural emotional connection. It is a sugar baby who often uses this tag, as they are generally looking more for a more long-term personal relationship.
What makes it hot?
As a sugar baby or sex worker, having a true connection with somebody is often preferred for those who are looking for interactions that feel real and natural. For those looking for a long-term thing, an emotional connection is quite essential for it to be something healthy and sustainable. When it comes to sex, an emotional connection often heavily intensifies the experience also.
Yes, many individuals seek emotional connections in sugar relationships while acknowledging and negotiating financial aspects.
Respect their autonomy and communicate openly about emotional expectations. Regularly check in on boundaries and ensure ongoing consent.
Yes, sugar babies especially tend to look for an emotional connection, because sugaring is considered to be in more of a grey area between sex work and a real relationship.
DO
Communicate openly: Communicate openly about expectations, desires, and boundaries. Establishing clear communication from the beginning helps create a mutual understanding of the emotional connection both parties are seeking.
Prioritise respect: Treat sugar babies and sex workers with respect and dignity. Acknowledge their autonomy, listen to their preferences, and ensure that interactions are consensual and based on mutual understanding.
Discuss emotional boundaries: Have open discussions about emotional boundaries. Understand what emotional connection means to both parties and ensure that there is clarity on the level of involvement desired within the relationship.
DON'T
Assume uniform expectations: Avoid making assumptions about what emotional connection means in each specific context. Everybody has different expectations, so it's crucial to discuss and align on these expectations.
Disregard consent: Never disregard consent, especially in the realm of emotional connection. Ensure that both parties are comfortable with the level of emotional involvement and that any boundaries or changes are communicated and respected.
Don't forget mutual benefit: While seeking emotional connection, don't lose sight of the mutual benefit in the relationship. Be transparent about any financial arrangements or other terms to ensure a consensual and mutually satisfying connection.
