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joyenjoyen
Dancer, Muse & BDSM
Female, 38, Pansexual
Manila PH (Online)
JOYEN (Pronouns: Perceived) is a Sadistic Rope Bondage Dominatrix and Burlesque Stripper, with expertise in the art of macabre and seduction. Her favorite style is aesthetically-pleasing and acrobatic tormenting rope, and Her interest lies in the realm of elegant fetish and erotica. Nothing delights Her Infernal Majesty more than those willing to completely surrender their darkest and most vulnerable selves (and wallets) in the dangerous embrace of Her rope.
HentaiMistressKoto
BDSM, Sugar baby & Photographer
Female, 30, Sapiosexual
Berlin DE (In person & Online)
I could never get bored of playing Hentai, Shibari, and BDSM. It's my life.
ronhades
BDSM, Companion & Educator
Non Binary, 36, Pansexual
Berlin DE (In person)
Sensual sadist, Bondage enthusiast
mistresssade
Muse, BDSM & Kinkster
Female, 31, Pansexual
Auckland NZ (In person & Online)
Have you ever met a Real Dominatrix?
TheMominatrix
Content creator, BDSM & Companion
Female, 34, Bisexual
Seattle WA US (In person & Online)
Mommy is ready, are you?
lylaaa_boo
Dancer, Muse & BDSM
Female, 20, Straight
Hong Kong HK (In person & Online)
Experienced Rope Bunny who loves to challenge
Vik13
BDSM, Educator & Workshop
Male, 37, Straight
Barcelona ES (In person & Online)
Vik is a rigger from Barcelona. His first contact with shibari was 8 years ago, when he saw some pictures of a friend who was involved with this art. But it wasn’t until the beggining of 2019 that he felt an interest in learning and practicing it. He started tying and being tied, training with several riggers and exploring various styles. In ropes, he found a tool to explore and discover. Little by little as a rigger, he has found his own path, which he still explores today. His curiosity and interest for Semenawa led him to study with international instructors. In kinbaku, he found both simplicity and intricacy, a style that enhances the beauty of the body and emotions, simple in appearance but with a great purpose, intention and complexity. Along with his partner Gala, they have had the opportunity of doing performances or, as they prefere to call them, live sessions in public, both nationally and internationally, at La Gabia Studi, Makabre’s fest and Erostreet Festival in Spain, at Yūgen Studio in Milan, Rope Spirit in Prague, and more.
GoddessM
BDSM & Muse
Female, 37, Straight
New York NY US (In person & Online)
Deity of your sweetest nightmares/Dominatrix/Pro & Lifestyle
Missjadesmoke
Content creator & BDSM
Female, 28, Demisexual
Phoenix AZ US (In person & Online)
Blending seduction with unwavering control. Come see me at DOIAZ or topless services available. Check out my website
lolajean
Content creator, BDSM & Workshop
Female, 35, Queer
New York NY US (Online)
No Frills Sex Education
Light_Switch
Content creator & BDSM
Female, 24, Demisexual
Tallahassee FL US (In person & Online)
Im a BDSM educator and professional looking to share my skills and my knowledge with others. I have been a part of the BDSM scene and my local community for my entire adult life. Its important staying humble, you may think you know everything but there will always be more to learn.
LeAngeHeurtebise
Content creator & Artist
Male, 55, Straight
Nijmegen NL (In person & Online)
In the realm of sexual deviances I am more into the creative part of it, creating wonderful one-off experiences with other like minded people. Community is shaped by bringing something to the fore, and everybody has something to offer.
What is breath play?
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Breath play is a form of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, Masochism) activity that involves controlling or restricting a person's ability to breathe for erotic arousal or as part of a power dynamic. This can come in many forms, some being consensual choking or the use of water.
What makes it hot?
Arousal in breath play is often derived from the intense physical and psychological sensations it elicits. The deliberate restriction of airflow, when consensually explored within BDSM dynamics, creates a heightened sense of vulnerability, control, and intimacy. When our breath is restricted, our body can release endorphins which give us a rush of pleasure and make other physical sensations (such as penetration) feel more intense. It's the fusion of physical and psychological elements, carefully negotiated within the realm of trust and consent, that makes breath play a provocative and arousing experience.
Breath play is often associated with BDSM and sexual dynamics, but can it also be incorporated into non-sexual relationships for purposes of intimacy, trust-building, or shared experiences.
Yes, there are instances of controlled breathing practices in various cultural and historical contexts. Some cultures incorporate breath control in rituals, ceremonies, or meditative practices. Understanding these cultural and historical aspects provides a broader perspective on the significance and diversity of breath-related practices.
Yes, controlled breathing, including breath play in consensual BDSM dynamics, can influence mental and emotional states. The deliberate regulation of breath may contribute to altered mindsets, relaxation, or heightened states of awareness.
Breath play: a short introduction
Tuesday 12 September 2023
Breath play is one of the taboo kinks that has recently become a lot more openly accepted. Kinkcurious? Here is a basic introduction.
DO
Safe gestures and communication: Establish clear non-verbal safe signals or gestures to facilitate effective communication during breath play. This is crucial for the submissive partner to communicate comfort levels or the need to stop if verbal communication becomes challenging.
Consistent monitoring: Continuously monitor the well-being of the restrained partner during breath play. Pay attention to their facial expressions, body language, and any signs of distress. Regularly check in to ensure their comfort and adjust the intensity accordingly.
Gradual exploration: Begin breath play gradually and slowly increase the intensity based on the comfort and consent of both partners. This allows everyone involved to acclimate to the sensations and helps prevent sudden, unexpected reactions.
Quick-release mechanisms: Always have quick-release mechanisms readily available, such as safety shears or a quick-release knot. These tools are essential for swiftly removing restraints in case of an emergency or if the submissive partner needs to be released quickly.
DON'T
Solo breath play: Engage in solo breath play activities. Breath play carries inherent risks, and having a trusted partner present is essential for safety. Solo play significantly increases the likelihood of accidents or unintended harm.
Use unsafe materials: Use materials that can easily constrict airflow or cause harm during breath play. Avoid makeshift tools or materials that are not specifically designed for this purpose. Stick to safe, approved equipment.
Ignore discomfort: Ignore signs of discomfort or distress from the restrained partner. Immediate attention and action should be taken if the submissive partner exhibits any signs of distress, difficulty breathing, or discomfort during the breath play session.
Skip post-play debriefing: Skip the post-play debriefing. After a breath play session, it's crucial to discuss the experience, share feelings, and address any concerns. Open communication helps build trust and ensures the well-being of all parties involved.