GothiccCutie
In person & Online
Chattanooga TN US
Hiya! I’m a curvy alt girl with a praise kink. Just tell me how to please you 😈 looking to build online connections where we both benefit and enjoy each other thoroughly 🥰 Creating content is a hobby of mine- and I do customs as well.
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ArielleIvy
In person
New York NY US
As a born and raised NYer, I know all the best things to do around the city. I can plan a full day of activities (see my date ideas page) or lounge around in bed with some snacks and a movie. Depending on the day, you may find me playing D&D on a rainy day, sitting on the beach with a great book, museum hopping, or at a trivia game. Tucking my rate into your favorite nonfiction science book is a fast way to my heart! I want to try (almost) everything at least once, let's cross some things off our bucket lists together. I travel quite often and love to explore new cultures and landscapes. I've been to 5 continents and 38 states so far and still have so much left to see! Perhaps we could traverse some new terrain together? I'm passport-ready and happy to coordinate an entire trip for us, or come to your city on a FMTY and find gems you didn’t even know were there. Are you ready to go on an adventure?
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In person & Online
Berlin DE
"Sometimes I want to express something that is intelligent and horny at the same time" – Ellen Cantor
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What is discretion?
Shhh, it's a secret.
'Discretion' labelled on a Sensuali profile usually means that a Sensualist values their discretion or will value your discretion if needed. This means that they will make sure that the time you spend together is private and discreet, and will expect the same from you.
What makes it hot?
Respecting privacy has the ability to make an experience a lot more intimate. Knowing that your interaction is something that stays strictly between the two of you can build trust and bring you closer together as well as enhancing excitement. When somebody tags discretion on their profile, you can rest assured that this Sensualist will value your privacy by seeing the interaction as something totally separate from your 'normal' lives.
Discuss and establish a plan for handling public encounters to maintain discretion. This may involve having a discreet signal or prearranged response to ensure both partners are on the same page and comfortable navigating such situations.
Trust is paramount in maintaining discretion. Both partners need to trust that the agreed-upon boundaries will be respected. Open communication about feelings, concerns, and expectations helps build and reinforce trust over time.
Yes, discretion needs can evolve. Regularly reassess and communicate about your comfort levels and expectations. Be open to adapting boundaries as the relationship progresses to ensure that both partners remain on the same page.
DO
Communicate expectations clearly: Clearly communicate about the level of discretion both of you desire. Discuss boundaries, privacy preferences, and expectations regarding sharing relationship details with others.
Establish trust: Build a foundation of trust. Trust is crucial when discretion is valued, as it ensures that both people feel confident that their personal information will be handled with care and respect.
Respect privacy: Respect each others privacy and encourage an environment where both of you feel comfortable maintaining certain aspects of your lives discreet. Avoid prying into personal matters that the other person may wish to keep private.
DON'T
Share private information without consent: Avoid sharing personal details about the person without their explicit consent. Respect their boundaries regarding what information is kept private.
Pressure for public displays of affection: Avoid pressuring someone into public displays of affection or sharing relationship milestones on social media if they value discretion. Understand and respect their desire to keep certain aspects of the relationship private.