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MelissaD
Ritual Play, Guide, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Tantric Touch: Old stories and pressures can dissolve.... In their place, new languages of touch, desire, and expression are discovered. If youâre stuck in your head, tired of routine, or yearning for deeper connection, my work supports you in awakening to your erotic aliveness. Letâs explore new ways to touch, talk, and play. Who My Work Is For: For Men: Tired of the pressure to perform? Learn to trust your body, slow down, and expand pleasure without chasing a goal. Move from anxiety into embodied erotic confidence and full-body presence. Wholistic approach to rapid ejaculation, ED, grief, shame around desires. For Women: Longing to feel safe, free, and fully alive in your sensual body? Whether youâre navigating numbness, disconnection, or deep desire, come home to yourself. Reclaim your voice, your power, and your pleasure at any age. For Couples: Feeling distant, out of sync, or stuck in a routine? Together, weâll shift from mundane to meaningfulâfrom disconnection into erotic play. Youâll learn new ways to communicate, co-regulate through sensual practices, and rediscover each other. Even mismatched desire can become a doorway to deeper connection. Or maybe things already feel fantastic, and youâre simply wondering, âWhatâs next for us?â This work can open new horizons of play, intimacy, and pleasure for couples at any stage. About Melissa D: Magical. Clinical Hypnotherapist. Certified Somatic Sex Educator. Sexological Bodyworker. Director of BodyJoy Intimacy School. With over 15 years of experience supporting men, women, and couples, I weave lived experience, science, sensuality, and spirit to guide people back to the wisdom of their bodies and the truth of their desires. Training & Lineage Highlights: Current Facilitator â HimErosProject.com (since 2017) Guest Practitioner â Back to the Body with Pamela Madsen (ongoing) Duel Certificates in Clinical Hypnotherapy (CHt) â SWIHA & Rainya Dann (2009) Certified Sex Educator â SFSI (2014) Taoist Sexual Mastery - Mantak Chia - Tao Garden Thailand 2015 Certified Somatic Sex Educator â ISSSE (2016) Sexological Bodyworker â ACSB (2016) Wheel of Consent â Like a Pro for Professionals. Dr. Betty Martin (2017) Urban Tantra Practitioner â Barbara Carrellas (2018) Intimacy Training â Caffyn Jesse (2016) Kink Mentorships / training with Pro Dom Max, and JD (of Two Knotty Boys), and Mistress Chloe (SF) Shadow EFT â The Sanctum with MosJeff Genital De-armoring Training - Rahi Chun Continued mentorship with Dr Charla Hathaway PhD and Dr Susan Kaye: Masters and Johnson's intern who coined the term Surrogate Partner Therapy. My training and explorations have been enriched by years of mentorship and supervision with some of the most brilliant minds in the field- a treasure I carry with me into every aspect of my work. My work is for those who value depth, skill and grounded guidance. Your time is preciousâand you deserve a premium experience. Letâs begin with a conversation......
Lu
Hi, Iâm Luisa I am a space holder and facilitator trained in Reiki energy work, yoga, breathwork, and embodied practices. I create intentional spaces where you can slow down, reconnect with your body and access a deeper sense of presence & emotional awareness. My approach is rooted in devotion and slowness honoring the natural rhythm of your body. This work is especially supportive for those feeling disconnected from themselves or for anyone who feels called to explore their sensuality and sensory awareness in a safe, respectful and held space. Through energy work, movement, breath and conscious touch, I guide experiences that invite you to soften, feel and come back to your truth đš...
Calliope the Coyote
I am a coyote, a trans woman, a dominatrix, and a kinkster with more than a decade of experience on both sides of the slash. I love helping people discover more about themselves through kink. I am of the belief that kink is the ideal arena in which to explore things like identity, power, desire, and more. After all, kink is where I first discovered myself, and where I continue to learn more about myself every day. As a dominatrix with over a decade of experience in the Chicago, London, and Netherlands kink scenes, I am well-versed in discipline and punishment. Over the years, I have developed my own style of sadism blending impact, humiliation, service, CNC, teasing/denial, and more. A particular passion of mine is petplayâfew things are more satisfying than training good boys and good girls, and I think every sub looks better with a collar around their neck. Come get clicker trained and see what I mean. This is no run-of-the-mill impersonal serviceâI spend time before every session working with my subs to craft unique experiences. I pride myself on providing a boutique experience, creating a comfortable and safe environment for subs to explore and get exactly what they are looking for: the fulfilling experience of true submissionâemotional, psychological, and physical. I offer something for everyone, whether you are new to BDSM or are experienced in kink, whether you want to focus on a specific niche or you want to sample many types of submission. Because I focus exclusively on BDSM, you can rest assured that you will be submitting to an expert, someone who is passionate and truly enjoys what she does. You will enjoy it too, I'm very sure. My transition and my other identity explorations have given me an intimate understanding of how what happens within a scene can translate to the world outside the dungeon. For me, it was a series of lightbulb moments: "Oh, I think this [pet play, gender play, etc] is speaking to something much deeper in me. I think I need to understand what that 'something' is." Play can be affirming in so many ways, and I am committed to all our play being an affirmation of who you are, who you want to be, and who you're becoming. I believe strongly in RACKâRisk-Aware Consensual Kink. I recognize that some of the things that I enjoy, both as a sub and as a dom, like heavy impact and breathplay, are risky. The important thing is recognizing your own personal risk tolerance and how it fits into the play or lifestyle that you want. My risk profile has shifted over the years, and I have learned how to understand and talk about risk in a way that is non-judgemental and safe. Part of my risk management is knowledge. I never go into play thinking that I will learn a technique as I go. It is very important to me that I know what I am doing before I get into the room, in order to keep both (or all) of us safe. For that reason, my experience in impact, breathplay, hypnosis, predicament bondage, and other arenas is an invaluable asset. I really love what I do, and I would love to share my passions with you....
Goddess Sasha
As a PlayCoach and event planner, Sasha founded Come Play Heal to create matriarchal spaces, transformational ritual, and connected community to unlock non-sexual intimacy, fearless manifestation, and embodied freedom. Through play, she helps you stop performing your life and start living itâ deeply connected and unapologetically alive. Through her Self Discovery Dive method, people are able to reconcile past traumas and reintegrate their lost parts. In Thetahealing, she gently clears old beliefs that no longer serve your highest good. Deprogram your mind of societal norms that hold you back from the relationship of your dreams in Purple Circle, her sex ed and relationship curriculum / group discussions. Take off your airs and clothing every Tuesday during Nudesday to connect with like-minded, body positive community. One-on-one coaching, sensual sessions, and kink exploration are available. sashazeilig.com...
PetraBanx
Accepting session requests for My tours â Houston, TX | Berlin, DE | San Antonio, TX | Austin, TX | St. Petersburg, FL | Detroit, MI My name is Goddess Petra Banx. I'm a Dallas-based lifestyle and professional dominatrix â formally trained, a genuine hedonist, and very hard to forget. I work from real passion, not performance. The people in My reviews will tell you: there is no caricature here. What you get is Me, fully present, commanding the room. My clients â submissives, fetishists, and play partners â are generous with their time, money, and energy, and attentive to My desires. Respect is mandatory. One-sided obsession is expected. My favorites are consistent and understand that what I offer isn't a quick transaction â it's something built on trust, presence, and real power exchange. I don't do rushed. I don't do disconnected. And I can't be bribed into a bad fit â if the alignment isn't there, no number changes that. I DO do: keyholding/chastity, CBT, tease & denial, FinDom, body & foot worship, scent play, feminization/sissification, corporal punishment, homewreck fantasy, CFNM, verbal & physical humiliation/degradation, affectionate Mommy, FBSM, orgasm control, roleplay, fantasy wrestling, smothering, trampling, facesitting, CNC, electroplay, slave/sub training, sounding, smoking, breath play, and more. Session formats: 10-min call or 20-min text session | 30-min (rarely accepted) | 1-hr+ | Cash meets | Shopping sprees | Dinner + Domme | Half day/Overnight | Domme GFE weekend You are booking My time. I do not keep a menu or make sexual promises via any form of contact. What happens in session stays between U/us. My booking protocol lives at PetraBanx.com/domme â read it. Apply at PetraBanx.com/domme....
GoddessType
Greetings, Those who know me professionally simply call me Goddess (she/her). I have 7 years experience as a professional Dominatrix, and 10+ years as a professional cuddler. I always had one foot in the "BDSM" pool, but my work as a cuddler drove me to dive deeper, at the behest of some of the individuals I served. I believe in fostering a safe and nurturing environment for you to explore and uncover parts of yourself you never knew existed....
Juli Maroux
Iâm Juli Maroux - a Ritualist, Edge Educator, and Priestess of Eros. Iâve always been drawn to the edges of human experience - the places where things become real. For many years, I worked in emergency care, holding people through moments where control, identity, and certainty fall away. That shaped how I see and meet people. Today, my work lives in a different setting, but the essence is the same. Iâm deeply devoted to working in the realms of sensuality, sexuality, and power - because this is where so much of what we hide, suppress, or disconnect from lives. Not as something separate from the rest of life, but as something deeply interwoven with how we feel, relate, and move through the world. I create spaces where you donât have to hold yourself together. Where you can step out of performance, out of self-judgment, and into a more honest experience of yourself - including the parts youâve learned to hide. My approach is grounded, present, and attuned. I work with the body, sensation, and conscious power dynamics as a way to access depth that canât be reached through thinking alone. Safety, for me, is not just about boundaries and consent - itâs about creating a space where you feel seen without being judged, and where nothing needs to be forced. Everything unfolds at a pace your system can actually integrate. I do this work because Iâve seen what becomes possible when people allow themselves to be met more fully - not as who they think they should be, but as they are....
Atena
Shaped by 15 years spent living in different countries around the world â an experience that profoundly transformed my perspective and refined my sensitivity â and nourished by a decade of study and certification in yoga, I have deepened my path through five years of training in sex education. I am an Ecstatic Dance DJ, a guardian and sharer of the wisdom of Yoga, a Nuru massage therapist, a dancer and erotic performer devoted to the art of liberation. I weave playful and sacred experiences â from private sessions to immersive group workshops and captivating performances â creating spaces where healing, pleasure, and awareness can flourish. https://www.instagram.com/atenayoga/...
DonaMorbida
Hi, Iâm Dona. I provide support and guidance in matters of intimacy and sexuality, as well as meditative touch experiences. Many people believe that sexuality and intimacy are strictly about anatomy or climax. However, from a sexological perspective, it is so much more. It is about who you are, the relationship you have with yourself and how you relate to others. It is about connecting with presence and discovering pleasure in a more expansive way. My approach is warm and slow-paced. My goal is to help you feel confident enough to explore yourself beyond societal prejudices, ensuring you feel seen, supported and welcomed. I will help you navigate the conflicting feelings that often arise when we begin to test our boundariesâboth within ourselves and in our relationships. I have experience in BDSM, Non-monogamy (Polyamory and other forms of ENM), Shibari, and bodywork, developed through both formal courses and dedicated self-study. Additionally, I organize and facilitate sex-positive events, ranging from intimate gatherings to mid-sized experiences. I am currently training to become a certified Sexuality Educator and Coach. Please review my list of services for more details. Each session is as unique as the person receiving it; these descriptions are simply a starting point for our conversation. Feel free to reach out if you have specific needs or would like to tailor an experience to your personal journey....
PolaPava
My name is Pola, I'm 30 years-old. Currently based in Berlin. Originally latina, visual artist and musician-performance. Focusing my projetcs in sex-positivisim, healing through music, touch and erotism. You can follow some of my work on Instagram: @pavaax. There you can find my photography account and my Spotify page....
Akira
Embodied dominance. Tantric presence. Sensual performance. Where conscious kink meets artistry. I move between roles: Tantric energy worker, mystic seductress, feminine leader, Dakini. Dominant, sensual, slow-burning. Depth over performance.â¨I embody feminine softness and fierceness. I am a channel of life force energy, love, presence, erotic energy and truth. I am devotional of being in service to support awakening and cultivation of eros through the body. Youâll feel the influence of dominatrix archetypes, ritual aesthetics, striptease flow and lapdance grace â always grounded in consent, depth and emotional intelligence. My work weaves together Swedish massage, Lomi Lomi, Thai yoga massage, and Tantra massageâan intuitive fusion of grounding touch, fluid movement, and conscious presence. I blend strength and softness, devotion and direction, to guide you into deeper connection with your body, breath, and inner truth....
Leia Lalita
Namaste, I am Leia, a french muse, a passionate tantric masseuse, a sacred sexual therapist, a tantric priestess Tantra has been a deep part of my life for 6 years now. I am at the service of Love and dedicated to guiding you into the depths of your heart. My aim is to offer you a blissful sanctuary and to take you into deeper sensitive layers of yourself. For this purpose I offer the tantric rituals listed in my Experiences. I invite you to be authentic. The tantric space offers a space for all your emotions, all the parts of your being, especially the unseen ones. I invite you to let your heart speak, raw and unfiltered. I will be there for you, with my loving full presence, my straightforward honesty and my sensitivity. In my eyes, deep and gentle, through my voice, clear and true, I hope you'll find a way to get closer to your core, your nature. To reconnect with your purity, your sovereignty and your life force. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ BOOKING Incall or Outcall in hotel A session includes a pre-talk, two showers and an optional post-talk. This means that the tantric ritual time is about 30 minutes shorter than the total duration of the session. Contact me via Telegram: @heartencounter or Whatsapp or SMS : +49 157 75071210 Please write me the following information: -Your first name -Your age & nationality / mother language -A short introduction about yourself and what you are looking for -If you have any previous experience with tantra -Booking information : as far as you can tell, where, when & how long you wish to meet -the codeword âBlissâ, as a sign that you have read my text I look forward to hearing from you and going on a sensual emotional journey with you, Yours, Leia Lalita ~~~~~~~~~~~~ ⨠â¨â¨ Testimonials ⨠â¨â¨ "Dear Leia, I will be able to draw on the positive energy from our tantra session for a long time to come. Due to my lack of tantra experience, I was a little nervous beforehand about what to expect and whether I would be able to get involved. But from the very first moment I felt at ease with you. It was an incredible journey with very sensual touches. On the one hand I felt a great sense of security, calm and warmth and at the same time an energy that is hard to put into words flowed, which made me leave the session feeling reborn. Mysterious" Julius "Hey Leia, thank you for the great tantra session. You have a very inviting and sympathetic energy. Your expertise and empathy made it possible to listen to me within a few moments. I have never had such an intense and beautiful experience. Thank you for that. I can also use your tips in my everyday life." Philip âI was totally nervous & insecure beforehand. But her warmth, her charisma, the look in her eyes, the obvious care for my well-being were simply calming. I listened to my inner self, let go, my emotions overcame me...it was an amazing feeling. Leia responded fully to me. It was such an intense experience, I was able to let go and was in another world, Leia's world.â Steffen "I thought I had had a tantric massage before, but my time with Leia was far beyond anything I had experienced before. I was definitely anxious before, but Leia made me feel safe, comfortable and happy. The 2 way communication was lovely and added to the feeling of connection that she built between us. I was so happy that I could share my energy with her, rather than just receiving. So, I would highly recommend the Mutual Tantra Massage. It was such a wonderful experience. Leia has a beautiful soul, a beautiful smile, and a beautiful personality. Thank you Leia. Namaste." Andrew "I was lost in the dizzying city of my existence. Then I found Leia, and with straightforward honesty, kindness and sensitivity, she took me by the hand and walked me home. I knew there was a gap between what I was sure I wanted and what I really needed. I felt a lot of unmet need and hunger that I wasnât sure was real. Also, I believed I was a passive person who had been forced into playing the role of a dominant. Lots of pain, and fear that I was not seeing myself accurately. Somewhere in the safety of Leiaâs eyes, wrapped in her arms I saw and then I knew. Leia helped me find my way across that gap between who I had imagined I was and who I truly am. She would probably say I did the work. After all, she would say, I didnât know where his home was, so he walked himself home while holding my hand. Maybe so, but Leia was there with me, I am changed, and I remain forever grateful." David...