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My services are for

Women, Men, Couple, Non Binary, Trans, Gender fluid, Intersex

I offer experiences

In person · Online/Virtual

Age & gender

40s · Male

I speak

English

This isn't a photoshoot. It's a space to let to let go of all the pressures you hold about how you "should" be. We don't try to get the right angles or get "the shot". We work to ensure you feel safe, comfortable and confident in the space authentically, so your images reflect a true version of you that that reflects a part of you you know exists somewhere under the surface.

This isn't a photoshoot. It's an experience, and one you won't ever forget.

See more at https://youatyours.com

My qualifications

6–10 years of experience

Founded You at Yours in London in 2017. 850+ body confidence and boudoir sessions over 10 years, plus ongoing one-to-one confidence coaching (online and in person). Teaches consent-first photography to other photographers. Zero Photoshop, ever.

Career highlight

Voted London's Best Boudoir Photographer three times. Featured in Forbes, The Times, The Sun and on BBC Radio London. Led The Summer Walk (2024). Council member, Shoulder to Shoulder (men's wellbeing).

FAQ

Do I need to look a certain way?
No. Come as you are, in the body you have today. Every size, shape, age and gender is welcome. And we never Photoshop a single image.
Is confidence coaching the same as therapy?
No. Therapy works through the past with a clinically trained professional. Coaching is about where you are now and what you want to do next. I'm not a therapist, and if therapy would suit you better, I'll tell you. Lots of people do both.
Do you work with men, couples and non-binary people?
Yes, everyone is welcome. Most of my photography clients are women, but shoots and coaching are open to all. I also sit on the council of Shoulder to Shoulder, a men's wellbeing organisation.
Can we work online, or outside London?
Yes. Coaching runs by video call, so you can be anywhere. I'm based in London, but I can travel for shoots anywhere in the world, with travel costs added on.
I'm nervous. Is that normal?
Completely. Almost everyone is. We start with a free call so you can ask anything and get a feel for me first. Nothing happens that you're not comfortable with, and you can pause at any time.

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