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kalani
In person & Online
Lisbon PT
My work is a soft threshold into deeper presence, wilder intimacy and the slow, sacred unraveling of the body.
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Valentinebordet
In person & Online
Paris FR
I'm Valentine (she/they), a award-winning somatic sexologist, intimacy coordinator, pleasure workshop facilitator, feminist activist, performer and artist. Through my work, I invite people to question and transcend the concepts of hetero-mono-normativity in intimacy, relationships, and sexuality. I offer 1:1 and couple sessions that blend somatic education and gentle conversation. These sessions allow you to understand how the past has formed your current relationships and pleasure, and together we define the path to get you to where you want to be. My approach is client-led, creative, holistic, trauma-informed, inclusive (of all humans, work, sexual preferences…) and gender/sexuality affirming. I am passionate about supporting sexual liberation through a no-taboo, shame-free and pleasure-centred education. My work is anchored in intersectional feminism, sex-positivity, queer theories, nervous system work, embodied consent and creating safer spaces. Sexuality and eroticism is a core part of what makes us human yet there are still so many outdated and damaging narratives preventing us from living our best (sex) life. We all deserve to feel confident and curious to explore our bodies and erotic power. Are you ready to claim pleasure as your birthright and learn what makes you feel alive? It would be my pleasure to work with you. I am the founder of Collective Of Pleasure, a creative grassroots collective on a mission to empower people to unapologetically explore their pleasure. Through our workshops, events and creative productions we aim to question and transcend the norms and dogmas in intimacy, relationships, and sexuality. We believe in creating a safer, braver, and more powerful space to connect to our unique needs and desires, to open conversations and smash societal taboo. We are pleasure activists and believe that pleasure is a birthright and an everyday essential that everyone should have access to. Together, we want to build an inclusive community where diverse identities and stories are not only welcomed but celebrated. We strive to create a new blueprint for intimacy in which we redefine pleasure, transcend shame and step into our full pleasure potential.
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aBrandi_kink
In person & Online
El Paso TX US
Neurotic, perverted, and confident Slut dismantling your internalized shame.
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arika
In person & Online
Berlin DE
I love sex - if you know, you know I love sexuality - to talk, to geek about it, to go deep I am eros - sexual power
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cecepop
Online
Dallas TX US
Your Mystical Mommy. Are you ready to experiencing ecstasy by serving me? Currently specializing in virtual domination
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EmbodiedElements
In person & Online
Oakland CA US
Hi there and Welcome! I'm Lucia, a Chicana Healer of many modalities, trauma informed Somatic Sexologist/Sex Educator, lineage based Tibetan Tantra Practitioner, artist, Sexological Bodyworker and passionate about supporting and educating all about pleasure awareness. I enjoy sharing from my lived experience and holding a non judgmental safe space to empower people to explore sexual wholeness. This can include exploring in education, support, bodywork and/or personalized guidance in coaching. My approach is often body center with somatic roots in connection with the Earth spirit, mind, and pleasure. I support people of all backgrounds, orientations, identities, and disabilities (visible and non visible). My offerings can include 1 to 1 personal support, couples/partners, and community events online and in person. Please take a moment to explore my links to my website and social media to learn more about me and my offerings. What inspires you? Perhaps my offerings are a good match for what you seek. Indulge your senses!
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What is an open relationship?
More friction, less restriction.
An open relationship refers to a consensual arrangement where individuals agree that they are allowed to pursue sexual or romantic connections outside of the primary relationship. The terms and boundaries of an open relationship can vary widely and are typically established through open communication and mutual agreement between partners.
The aim is to foster transparency, trust, and the freedom for each individual to explore connections with others while maintaining a committed partnership. A sugar baby might be the kind of Sensualist who would be interested in the concept of an open relationship.
What makes it hot?
The appeal of an open relationship lies in the freedom it offers to explore different aspects of one's sexuality and connect with others without sacrificing the primary relationship. It can provide a sense of novelty, variety, and personal growth. The arousal factor often stems from the excitement of navigating new connections, experiencing diverse intimate dynamics, and the deepened communication and trust that can result from openly exploring desires within the bounds of agreed-upon rules.
Yes, for some individuals, the increased communication and trust required in navigating an open relationship can lead to a deeper and more resilient connection with their primary partner.
Open communication is key. Acknowledge and discuss feelings of jealousy with your partner(s), and work together to establish strategies for managing and mitigating these emotions.
Open relationships are not one-size-fits-all. They require mutual consent, clear communication, and a shared understanding of boundaries. It's essential to consider the comfort and desires of all individuals involved.
DO
Establish clear communication: Open and honest communication is crucial. Clearly define boundaries, expectations, and desires with your partner(s).
Prioritise safe practices: If engaging in sexual activities with others, prioritise safe sex practices to protect the health and well-being of all involved.
Regular check-ins: Regularly check in with your partner(s) about how the open relationship is impacting everyone involved. Open dialogue ensures ongoing consent and understanding.
DON'T
Neglect emotional boundaries: While exploring outside connections, be mindful of emotional boundaries to avoid unintentional harm to your primary relationship or others involved.
Assume consent: Always seek explicit consent before pursuing connections outside the primary relationship. Assumptions can lead to misunderstandings and trust issues.
Use openness as an excuse: Open relationships require responsibility and accountability. Avoid using the concept of openness as an excuse for dishonesty or neglecting your primary relationship.