Yes, it might, and I love answering this question because one of the biggest myths about sexual desire is that everyone experiences it in the same way. In reality, desire isn’t one-size-fits-all, and there is so much complexity to it.
Some people experience spontaneous desire, where they feel in the mood seemingly out of nowhere. Others experience responsive desire, where desire develops after intimacy has begun through kissing, touching, flirting or emotional connection. Neither is better or healthier than the other; they’re different ways our brains and bodies respond.
Your desire can also be highly contextual. This means it may depend on factors such as having enough time to relax or even feeling like your environment is just right. If those conditions aren’t present or aligned for you, desire may not appear, and that’s completely normal.
Understanding your unique desire style can be incredibly freeing, and there are so many amazing books to help you understand the science of it. Instead of trying to force yourself to feel something that isn’t there, you can begin creating the conditions where desire has the opportunity to grow naturally. Try reading Emily Nagoski's Come As You Are to learn more about what's really going on for us when it comes to desire.