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ruby.josif
Fremantle AU
Somatic Sexologist, Sex Coach and Writer
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About me
With nearly a decade of experience in the sexuality space, Ruby has empowered hundreds of women to feel wildly confident in sex, intimacy, and relationships. Her diverse background in Somatic Sexology, Neo-Tantra, and counselling enables her to provide a grounded, holistic, and non-judgmental approach to understanding diverse experiences in sex, love, and relationships.
Ruby’s integrated and trauma-informed methodology gently guides clients in overcoming sexual challenges, connecting with their bodies and pleasure, and recognising their needs, desires, and boundaries. Her mission is to support as many women as possible in feeling liberated in their unique sexual expression.
In addition to her passion for sex and intimacy, Ruby is a devoted writer. She is currently compiling a collection of poems, which she shares weekly through her Instagram.
Ruby believes in the power of moving others through vulnerability, intimacy, writing, music, and literature. Authentic expression is her greatest value, which translates into her work with her clients often describing her as warm, grounded and receptive.
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