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My services are for

Women, Non Binary, Trans, Intersex, Gender fluid

I offer experiences

In person

Age & gender

50s · Male

I speak

English

Maybe you've felt curious about tantra or bodywork for a while, but never found a space that felt safe enough, or a practitioner you actually trusted to hold it well. Maybe you want to slow down, feel more in your body, and rebuild a different relationship with pleasure and touch, without pressure or performance.

I came to this work as a client myself, long before I trained to offer it. Years of my own experience with tantric practices taught me what skilled, consent-based touch actually feels like and why it matters.

I bring a clinical and healing background to this practice, including over 25 years working with Reiki and hypnotherapy in a clinical context. My bodywork practice at The Loving Laboratory itself is newer (about 2 years), built on an eight-day immersive Tantric Practitioner Training, Reiki I and II, clinical hypnotherapy, and massage training.

You don't have to know what you want or manage anything once we begin. I'll guide the session with structure and care, and every boundary we discuss beforehand is one I hold completely. You can relax into being met.

My qualifications


2 years of experience

I came to this work after years in clinical and healing professions, including more than 25 years working with Reiki and hypnotherapy in a clinical context. My bodywork practice itself is newer (I've been offering sessions for about a year), built on an eight-day immersive Tantric Practitioner Training, Reiki I and II, clinical hypnotherapy, and massage training, along with that longer clinical foundation.

Career highlight

Building The Loving Laboratory: a full-time, consent-based bodywork practice from the ground up. Intake process, client screening, and a session structure grounded in trauma-informed principles.

Education and training

Eight-day immersive Tantric Practitioner Training
Reiki Levels I & II
Clinical hypnotherapy training
Massage training
Ongoing study of the Wheel of Consent

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FAQ

What actually happens during a session?
Every session begins with a conversation about what you’re hoping to experience and what your boundaries are. The bodywork unfolds at your pace and may include full-body touch, more intimate sensual bodywork, breathwork, and energy practices. The touch is one-directional: you receive, I do not. For a fuller description, visit my website.
What do I wear? Do I need to undress?
Wear whatever is comfortable. During the session, you disrobe to your level of comfort. There is no expectation either way, and you can adjust at any point.
Do you receive touch?
No. The touch is entirely one-directional. You receive; I do not. This boundary exists so you can focus completely on your own experience without any sense of obligation.
What if I don’t know what I want?
That’s completely normal. Many clients arrive without a clear agenda. The opening conversation helps us explore what might feel right, and the bodywork itself often reveals what your body is asking for.
What if I want to stop?
You can stop at any time, for any reason, without explanation. You can also slow down, pause, or redirect. We use a simple green/yellow/red system to make communication easy, and your own words are always welcome.
I've never done this before. Is that okay?
More than okay. Most of my clients hadn’t done anything like this before their first session. The session is paced to where you are.
I've experienced trauma. Is this safe for me?
I take this question seriously. This work is not therapy, and I am not a therapist in this context. What I can offer is a space where pacing, consent, and attunement are central. If you have a trauma history, I’d encourage you to reach out before booking so we can talk about what would feel safe. We’ll go at whatever pace your nervous system can receive.
How do you protect my privacy?
All communication is confidential. I use a dedicated phone number and email for client contact. Your name, your information, and everything that happens in a session stays between us.
What are your qualifications?
I’ve trained extensively in tantra, somatic bodywork, breathwork, energy work, and consent practices, including an immersive eight-day Tantric Practitioner Training. I hold Reiki Levels I and II and have trained in clinical hypnotherapy. I also hold a doctoral degree and have spent years as a professor and educator, training professionals in communication and presence. I have a background in healthcare and over thirty years of meditation practice. The full story is on my website.
How is this different from a spa treatment?
A spa treatment focuses on relaxation and muscle tension. This work goes further: it incorporates intimate, sensual touch, breathwork, tantra, and energy practices. It’s designed to help you reconnect with sensation, pleasure, and your own body in ways that conventional bodywork doesn’t address.
How often do clients come back?
Many clients come weekly or monthly as part of an ongoing practice. This work deepens over time. That said, there’s no commitment. Some clients come once to explore.
Do you work with men or partners?
My practice is focused on individual sessions with women, trans men, and nonbinary people who were assigned female at birth. My hands-on training and experience are specific to these bodies, so I don't currently work with men or AMAB clients. I primarily conduct individual sessions, but on a case-by-case basis, I’m open to a partner being present. If this interests you, reach out and we can discuss.

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