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Men, Couple, Women, Non Binary, Trans, Intersex, Gender fluid

I offer experiences

In person · Online/Virtual

Age & gender

40s · Female

I speak

English, Spanish

My work is warm, imaginative and deeply embodied. Together we might explore desire and sensuality, fantasy and role play, power and surrender, confidence, intimacy—or simply what it feels like to become more fully at home in your erotic self.

I specialize in BDSM and power play, eco-eroticism, goddess worship, sacred sexuality, erotic shamanism, spiritual intimacy and sensual trance.

I am especially drawn to the places where sexuality meets imagination and transformation. As a former professional actress with training in hypnosis and sacred theatre, I love role play and the possibility of trying on different characters, energies and ways of being. My approach also draws from Somatica®, Hakomi, Buddhism, sex magic and earth-based wisdom.

Our time together can be tender or playful, exploratory or intense. We discover what feels alive and meaningful for you, with curiosity, creativity, communication and consent at the center.

I'd love to support you in creating a more pleasurable and erotically alive life—whether that means exploring your deepest desires, learning to communicate what you want, deepening intimacy, expanding sexual confidence or discovering entirely new sides of yourself.

I especially love working with:

younger men discovering and awakening their sexuality
older men exploring erotic expression as their bodies and lives evolve
women wanting to claim their desires and sexual aliveness
LGBTQ+ people exploring love, desire and new ways of relating
people longing for intimate, meaningful and powerful erotic connection
curious, courageous people wanting a safe space to explore, express and play

If something here awakens your curiosity, I'd love to meet you.

With love,

Ixchel

My qualifications


6–10 years of experience

I have been practicing somatics and body-based awareness for more than 10 years. In the last 6 years I have been centering pleasure, eroticism, play and desire into my work. I love working with people to help them make life sexier, and supporting them in having their wildest sexual desires met.

Career highlight

I am a group leader for the Somatica Institute (R) of sex and relationship coaching. I have specialization in BDSM coaching and role play.

Education and training

I am a board certified Sexologist,

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FAQ

What is a session like with you?
We spend the first 20 minutes where I just listen to you. Why you wanted to reach out and what you are looking for. Then we use 10 minutes co-designing how I can best meet your needs in our session. That can be anything from a role play that meets your hottest desires, exploring your fantasies in a guided meditation, or being a thought partner to help you meet your sex needs in connection. We can explore any blocks that might be come up for you, or internal judgments and create a container of excitement, play and arousal that embraces all of your desires without shame.
Can I meet with you in person?
Yes! I sometimes see clients in person in Pahōa, Hawai'i. First we will do a few sessions on zoom to make sure we are a good fit.
What turns you on?
Ohhh, I love this question!! So many things: eco eroticism (talking about being in nature, being sexy in nature, erotic experiences with nature) goddess worship (worshiping the divine feminine aspect through the earth, creator, or embodiment through people) power play (I love to be in control, I love to be taken over with someone else's power and I love the dynamism of switching around!) alchemy (turning old wounds or harms into beautiful erotic moments of healing and transformation) performance and exhibition (I love fantasizing about being in front of people and witnessed in my eroticism) connection with nonhumans (I also love imagining beings from other dimensions and sensual encounters with them!) vulnerability and transperancy (It is a turn on for me when my partner is vulnerable with me, it makes me feel arousal and a sense of closeness and safety)
What are your boundaries?
Amazing! I love this question also, so hot! It helps create a sense of safety for me in our connection. My boundaries are always evolving. Checking in about boundaries is a really important part of my practice because they may be different from moment to moment! We will spend some time in session before we do any erotic play discussing boundaries for both of us. if you have not done this practice before it can be really fun and sensual and I would love to teach you!

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Vielleicht kennst du dieses Gefühl: Du funktionierst, entscheidest, organisierst – und eigentlich wäre es schön, für eine Weile einfach nichts zu müssen. Genau dafür sind meine Begegnungen da. ✦ ÜBER MICH Ich bin Sandro – Massage & Pleasure Dom für Frauen in Hamburg, Berlin und Kopenhagen. Eher ruhig als laut, neugierig auf Menschen und vermutlich ein bisschen unbraver, als man mir beim ersten Tee zutrauen würde. Ich mag lange Umarmungen, schwarzen Humor, gutes Essen, Ecstatic Dance, spiele Geige – und habe eine Schwäche für Frauen, bei denen hinter der vernünftigen Fassade noch ein bisschen mehr steckt. Mein Hintergrund in Massage, Psychologie und Selbsterfahrung fließt in meine Sessions ganz selbstverständlich mit ein. ✦ MEINE SESSIONS Dabei kann es ganz um Massage, achtsame Nähe und Sinnlichkeit gehen – oder um das besondere Gefühl, die Führung für eine Weile abzugeben. Pleasure Dom bedeutet für mich dabei nicht Härte, sondern Genuss, Vertrauen und Loslassen. Vielleicht möchtest du einfach den Kopf ausschalten und dich richtig gut berühren lassen. Vielleicht möchtest du Nähe genießen, deine sinnliche Seite entdecken oder ausprobieren, wie es sich anfühlt, die Führung abzugeben. Du musst weder besonders spirituell noch besonders kinky sein. Und du musst vorher auch nicht genau wissen, was du möchtest. Neugierig reicht fürs Erste. Meine Sessions biete ich in einer zentralen Location in Hamburg (Nähe U Berliner Tor) oder auf Abruf in einer Location deiner Wahl an (z.B. Hotel oder bei dir Zuhause). ☕ DU MÖCHTEST MICH ERST KENNENLERNEN? Sehr gern. Wir können uns vorab ganz unverbindlich kennenlernen: · telefonisch · per Video-Call · persönlich an einem neutralen Ort deiner Wahl Vielleicht weißt du schon ziemlich genau, was du möchtest. Vielleicht denkst du aber auch einfach: „Das klingt irgendwie gut“ – und hast noch keine Ahnung, welche Experience zu dir passt. Beides ist völlig okay. Wir schauen gemeinsam, wonach du dich gerade sehnst, was dich neugierig macht und welche Experience am besten zu dir passt. Oder wir trinken einfach einen Tee und schauen erst einmal, ob die Chemie stimmt. Keine Session. Keine Erwartungen. Kein Druck, danach etwas buchen zu müssen. ✦ WENN DU DICH FÜR EINE EXPERIENCE ENTSCHEIDEST 01 · ANKOMMEN - Wir starten entspannt. - Erst einmal reden und ankommen. Nichts beginnt einfach ungefragt. 02 · WÜNSCHE & GRENZEN - Wir sprechen darüber, was du dir wünschst, was nicht und was du vielleicht einfach offenlassen möchtest. - Du musst weder die richtigen Begriffe kennen noch einen fertigen Plan haben. 03 · DEINE EXPERIENCE - Dann darfst du aufhören, über den Ablauf nachzudenken. - Langsam und genussvoll oder intensiver und überraschender – immer innerhalb dessen, was sich für dich gut anfühlt. - Du kannst jederzeit etwas verändern, pausieren oder stoppen. 04 · AUSKLANG - Kein abruptes Ende. - Wir lassen uns Zeit, wieder anzukommen und die gemeinsame Zeit in Ruhe ausklingen zu lassen. ✦ NEUGIERIG? Vielleicht beginnt deine erste Experience einfach mit einer Nachricht. Schreib mir – und wir schauen gemeinsam, was zu dir passt. Gern hier oder per Mail booking@sandro.hamburg...