Rule number 1 when searching for a sugar daddy appear as though you are not searching for a sugar daddy. Rich men are hyper sensitive to women who fit the mould of the stereotypical ‘gold digger’ and 9/10 times would rather have a sugar relationship that was less overt and intentionally sought out.  This is where meeting sugar daddies in a more organic and seemingly ‘accidental’ way can be great. Put on a casual but sleek fit, take your laptop or a girlfriend, a novel or a notebook and head down to one of these sucre daddy hotspots. 

Galleries & Museums: The V&A

Galleries & Museums: The V&A. Sensuali blog


Men are suckers for a cultured girlie. If they spot a pretty girl in a museum or art gallery setting it practically blows their mind. Attractive and educated? But surely not! Come alone to maximise your mysterious artsy girl vibe. Go to an exhibition but be sure to bring a book or some work along and sit in the beautifully decadent V&A cafe- here you will find a more subtle, cultured and refined daddy, so if that’s your thing, make this your number 1 destination. Alternatives are the Saatchi in Chelsea or the RCA. 


Restaurants: Rules

Restaurants: Rules. Sensuali

Looking for an old money hookup? As London’s oldest restaurant, Rules is the ultimate stomping ground for the most red blooded, traditional old farts in the big smoke. Take a friend on a rainy evening, order some hearty English cuisine and head to ‘Upstairs at Rules’- the plush red velvet cocktail bar above the restaurant. Dress with understated elegance and order dry martinis. Make sure you’re not sitting in silence, waiting for someone to come and talk to you- have fun or at least pretend to, and just when you’re not looking they’ll come sauntering over. Alternatively head to Andrew Edmunds or Quo Vadis- two of the oldest and classiest restaurants in Soho. 


Casinos: Palm Beach

Casinos: Palm Beach. Sensuali


One upon a time Palm Beach Casino was a member’s only club with a very strict acceptance policy. Nowadays, anyone over the age of 18 can enter, membership or not. However the club, situated on Berkley Street in Mayfair still has an old school expensive vibe and attracts many a POT sugar daddy of an evening and into the early hours of the morning. Make the most of Mayfair, the rich people’s playground and spend a proper night exploring the plethora of expensive bars, restaurants and clubs in the area- some shoutouts are Mr Foggs, Manetta’s and Sexy Fish. Dress with Gatsby style glamour and bring a few friends. 


Hotel Bars: The Connaught

Hotel Bars: The Connaught. Sensuali Blog

Looking for an international zaddy? Hotel bars are the way to go. Catch them winding down with a nightcap after a long, hard day of business meetings. The Connaught is renowned for its smashing hotel bar, and the newly opened Red Room is a wine bar decked out in reds and pinks, created as a homage to female artists. Name a better setting for a modern day sugar babe to work her magic in. Bring some work or a book, and wear just a hint of rouge. Other top hotel bar picks are The Coral Room at The Bloomsbury, the bar at Chiltern Firehouse, Artesian at The Langham, The Fumoir at Claridges or Seymour’s Parlour at The Zetter Townhouse in Marylebone. 


Churches & Cathedrals: St. Pauls

Sensuali Blog : Churches & Cathedrals: St. Pauls


Feeling especially risqué? What better place to meet a sugar daddy than at Sunday mass? If you haven’t been already, St. Paul’s is worth visiting solely for its beauty, but why not kill two birds with one stone and see if there’s any ageing hotties confessing their sins? In all seriousness, you’ll find plenty of rich dudes attending the Sunday services in the churches and cathedrals of Central London. Wear white, and get down on your knees and pray. If you fancy sitting down for a coffee whilst you’re at it, head to Host Cafe- a coffee shop situated in the ornate gothic church, St. Mary Aldermary or The Wren, a renowned coffee shop situated in St Nicholas Cole Abbey.


Private Members Clubs: Annabel’s

Private Members Clubs: Annabel's. Sensuali Blog

London’s private members clubs are an obvious go-to to easily find the highest of high ballers in the city. The catch is that you need to know somebody who has a membership and can take you as their guest- unless you have one yourself.  If you’re very lucky, they sometimes let gorgeous gorgeous girls slip in for free, but it’s better not to take this chance. Annabel’s in Mayfair is the most decadent, holding the title of being the only club that Queen Lizzy herself ever entered. Prepare to be transported back to more elegant and extravagant times; the club boasts a basement nightclub, a cigar salon, a spa, outdoor terraces, and plenty of bars. Other great clubs are The Ned, Soho House and 5 Hertford Street. Come with 1 sugar daddy, and leave with 5. 


Cafes and Workspaces: Granger & Co.

Cafes and Workspaces: Granger & Co. Sensuali blog


Men love an ambitious woman, so meeting in a workspace environment is a big win. Plus, in the wacko world we live in, meeting somebody in a cafe rather than in a bar immediately feels more wholesome and innocent. Granger & Co situated in toff hotspot Chelsea, is perfect for flirting whilst working, spacious and airy, yet comfortable and cosy enough to have quiet conversations with fellow customers. Otherwise head to The Monocle Cafe in Marylebone or The Hoxton in Shoreditch, two top cafe/workspaces frequented by big shots in London.

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Iso is a writer and filmmaker based in East London. She is passionate about all things erotic and leads a sexy, shame-free life in hope that she can inspire others to do the same. Originally from a Northern seaside town, she is naturally drawn to the best things in life: candyfloss, trashy karaoke bars and heart-shaped sunglasses.

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