Need to de-stress? Looking for more sensual pleasures? Want to better understand your body? Maybe you need a vulva massage. Here’s what it means.
What is a vulva massage?
A vulva massage, otherwise known as a yoni massage, is a gentle and respectful way of touching and stimulating the external genitalia of people with vulvas. Whilst it can be about having sexual pleasure, it is just as common for people to seek vulva massages with the aim to relax, relieve tension, and connect with their body.
The vulva is the name for the whole area of the biologically female genitalia. Here is a diagram:
What happens during a vulva massage?
Just like in a normal massage, in a vulva massage, the mood will be set by creating a relaxed environment, with stuff like essential oils or soft lighting-you know the drill.
The masseuse will first externally stimulate your thigh and pelvic area before stimulating your vagina internally and/or your clitoris. These latter steps are optional. In a vulva massage, the goal isn’t for you to achieve orgasm, but if you do, that’s great too!
During the session the masseuse will communicate with you to help you wind down and to make sure that you are happy with what they are doing. Afterwards, there will usually be time for feedback and aftercare.
Read more about the vulva massage experience.
Where can I find a vulva massage?
A vulva massage is best when done by a trained professional in a safe environment. On Sensuali, you can discover experienced masseuses who will respect your boundaries and give you plenty of time to ask questions to decide what is best for you. It’s all about exploring your desires in a safe and inclusive space.
Iso
Iso is a writer and filmmaker based in East London. She is passionate about all things erotic and leads a sexy, shame-free life in hope that she can inspire others to do the same. Originally from a Northern seaside town, she is naturally drawn to the best things in life: candyfloss, trashy karaoke bars and heart-shaped sunglasses.
