Miss_Kirsch CBT Berlin
6 3

Miss_Kirsch

In person & Online

Berlin DE

If the Queen is happy, there is peace in the queendom .

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nadirah_khalisa CBT Berlin
8

nadirah_khalisa

In person

Berlin DE

Berlin-based & FMTY Pro Dominant | Ready to serve Me? >>> https://www.nadirahkhalisa.com

BDSM

MasterSamael CBT Berlin
5 1 7

MasterSamael

In person

Berlin DE

Elegant sadist with a velvet voice. Come surrender your mind, body, and secrets to a true Dominus. 🖤

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BallistaTheBoss CBT Costa Mesa
5 1

BallistaTheBoss

In person & Online

Costa Mesa CA US

Your sadistic, femdomme Daddy

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CamiRomero CBT Tulum
9

CamiRomero

In person & Online

Tulum MX

Step into my world, where story dominates, shame melts, and you become the masterpiece you were afraid to desire.

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PrincessHalo CBT Philadelphia
6 1 3

PrincessHalo

In person & Online

Philadelphia PA US

Your friendly, neighborhood Dominatrix

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melfire CBT São Paulo
4

melfire

In person & Online

São Paulo BR

Expertise in sensual domination and teasing

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ScorpioSins

Online

Los Angeles CA US

I've been a part of sub culture for 22 years. I have extensive knowledge of D/s dynamics and find the most pleasure in being a service bottom. I like to spend my free time in communication with my Dom and exploring new sexual avenues. I also love writing erotica and find that writing erotic fiction for people who are looking for specific details to be included is quite enjoyable for me. The people who I feel who benefit most from an interaction from me are Dom types who are kind in nature, come from a pleasure perspective and love to communicate regularly. I also find that submissives who are curious about the deep ends of the lifestyle would also benefit from connecting with me. Lastly, if you enjoy erotica, I am open to writing for you, or reading to you, or collaborating on a story together.

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Chatouille CBT Asheville
9 5

Chatouille

In person

Asheville NC US

Transformative FemDom disciplinarian. Headmistress & curator of Lair Derriere, a private FemDom society.

BDSM Retreat

desireesays CBT New York
1 5

desireesays

In person & Online

New York NY US

In my presence, they understand their place: beneath me, in awe of my power, eager to submit.

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Mistress_Scarlett

In person & Online

Lancaster PA US

Releasing control of your senses to me is only the first step…

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MistressNatalie CBT New York
12 3 1 3

MistressNatalie

In person & Online

New York NY US

Iconic New York City based pro dom who specialized in luxury domination. I have the most extensively equipped private dungeon in the city and love to explore the depths of kink, fetish, intimacy, submission and surrender. I am a curator of highly individualized experiences and building long lasting D/s relationships. I have been practicing my craft for decades and am not shy about sharing who I am. You can find abundant information on my website, socials, fan site, and podcasts. Looking forward to making new connections.

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What is CBT?

What is CBT?

Cock and ball torture: the best kind of therapy.

CBT (cock and ball torture) is a form of BDSM or kink activity where there is consensual play involving the genitalia, specifically the penis and testicles. This may include squeezing, impact play, ball-busting or the use of specialised tools. 

What makes it hot?

Some find arousal in CBT through the power dynamics, where activities like pain or stimulation can enhance the intensity of the experience. For some, the psychological aspects of control and submission can be arousing. CBT can be seen as a direct attack on a person's masculinity, making them feel very submissive. Additionally, the release of endorphins during pain play may contribute to pleasurable sensations for some individuals. 

No, CBT can involve various sensations beyond pain, including gentle stimulation and psychological elements.

Yes, CBT can be consensually integrated into BDSM dynamics within a loving and trusting relationship.

Yes, CBT can extend beyond genitalia, incorporating surrounding areas for diverse sensations and experiences.

DO

Use appropriate tools: If incorporating tools or devices, choose those specifically designed for CBT, ensuring they are clean, in good condition, and suitable for the intended level of play.

Warm-up gradually: Start with light sensations and gradually escalate to more intense activities. This allows the body to acclimate and helps avoid sudden discomfort.

Establish safe words: Have clear and unmistakable safe words to communicate when a participant needs the activity to stop immediately. This is crucial for safety and consent.

Check circulation: Regularly check for signs of numbness, tingling, or discolouration during the session. Lack of blood circulation can lead to serious issues.

Prioritise hygiene: Ensure both the dominant and submissive participants maintain good hygiene to minimise the risk of infection, especially if there are breaks in the skin.

 

DON'T

Ignore pain signals: If the submissive participant expresses pain beyond the agreed-upon level or experiences unusual discomfort, stop the activity immediately and assess the situation.

Rush: Avoid rushing into intense activities without proper warm-up. Gradual escalation is crucial for safety and the overall experience.

Disregard aftercare: After the session, provide aftercare to address both physical and emotional needs. Ignoring aftercare can lead to post-play issues and emotional distress.

CBT related experiences

Chastity

Chastity

Chastity

When refraining is entertaining.

Domination

Domination

Domination

Cutie in the streets, (control) freak in the sheets.

Dominatrix

Dominatrix

Dominatrix

Good girls go to heaven, bad girls go to dungeons.

FemDom

FemDom

FemDom

Let the matriarchy commence.